[alex_loudermilk]

The women cant differentiate between sex/hug/cuddle time and sleep time?


My girl kinda sneaks over into my "sleeping area" and touches me when I want to sleep. I dont like being touched when I sleep. I cant sleep when I have an arm around my chest, or a leg on my legs. I turn around and move alot during my sleep, and cant stand it, when I cant do this.

Unfortunately my gf hasnt got that yet... arrrrrrghhhhh! I have to push her away like two times each night. I am working in another city currently because I'm doing a project there. So we can see each other only on weekends. Now her female brian tells her to touch me as much as possible to get the most of it or something like that. I am a total wreck on Mondays because I cant sleep during the weekends haha. And I cant tell her either, because she (like probably all girls) would react with a "no sex" time hahaha.

Darn!


/rant over

[cingularring]

problem solved?

[alex_loudermilk]

I doubt it, since that doesnt have anything to do with the problem.

[lakraboob]

Are you and your girlfriend not close? i mean... just talk to her about it. Problem solved (Or at least its attempted to be)

I talk to my girlfriend whenever there are issues, it gets sorted there and then. I dont think she would react the way you think either.... how long have you been going out? how well do you know her?

[obHQNsY2]

Just tell her that you love cuddling her but you can't sleep when you feel confined. Offer her more sexy time to make up for it. Or punch her right in the eye. Actually, yeh. Go for the second suggestion.

[Bromymbollile]

Take some responsibility for the situation,if you don't like it it's up to you to find a way to tell her,she can't read your mind.

Think about it for a few days and find a diplomatic way to tell her,a way that will allow you to account for her feelings as well as your own.

Don't be harsh,don't be rude,but be honest.

[Maydayvar]

she can't read your mind.


Don't be harsh,don't be rude,but be honest.

I will have to agree we aren't mind readers and do Like it when our partner talk to us about issues in the relationship...and as for the second statement I agree as long as you aren't rude or Harsh she should understand completely[thumbup]

[Gosxjqum]

It's usually the other way round for me

Just let her do it for a few mins, and then turn around so your back is facing her. Hopefully by then she'd be too sleepy to make anything of it.

[enencephoth]

Sounds to me like you need to come out of the closet. [thumbdown]

[PIORARMADDERI]

Stick it in her butt.

She'll either shy away or want it more.