[enurneAcourdy]

Well to make a long story short, over the years some guy from my wife´s WoW guild has gotten a bit to "frisky".
He emails her almost daily, they talk all the time in WoW (typical online flirting, hihi here *kiss* there) and on Myspace, and tbfh it´s getting on my nerves, especially since he´s constantly asking if they could meet (movies, dinner, party, whatever)

Now, i know my Wife, i know that´s just her way of being friendly, talking/chatting having a little fun outside of the normal day.
I also know that she´d never cheat on me, nor go meet with this guy.
Anyways, I´ve told her pretty often that it´s bothering me, but that´s just the way she is, she chats with all her guild friends like that. [yawn]
But tbfh it´s him and the constantly being there that´s really getting on my nerves.

So, FM, being the person i am, i´m thinking about aranging a "date" for the two (via her WoW account)
Only i´ll be the one waiting, ready to make some critical damage.

I´m really thinking this through, as for i´m really a very jealous guy and just the thought that someone´s wanting to make a move on my wife is making my blood boil.

what´s your thoughts on all this ? Cause i need some calming down atm

[gMUVgw71]

Do you mean organising the 2 of them to meet up in WOW then striking?

If so, its unlikely to do anything, if you mean pulp him in real life then thats probobly gonna get you into some pretty serious trouble.......

Can't you just tell him to **** off and leave her alone? Or find his address and post him a snake

[Inonanialry]

Because sounding out an assault online beforehand is a good idea...why?

If you're bothered by him, email him or talk to him and make it perfectly clear she's loot that's already been picked up.

[DavidQD]

Join the guild.

Or, write a friendly e-mail explaining your feelings (similar to your post here), and ask your wife if you may send it to him.

I wouldn't know if she'd appreciate you discussing this with him without her knowing it. Also, I'm a much too friendly guy, so my advice isn't worth a whole lot.

[ketNavatutt]

If youre wanting to "stomp him" last hting id do is discuss it via any means. cause in most places that ups the crime somewhat. if it were me, id tlak with wife indetali about how it made me feel and see where that goes. if nowhere, tehn do what you feel you need to do

[enurneAcourdy]

Because sounding out an assault online beforehand is a good idea...why?

If you're bothered by him, email him or talk to him and make it perfectly clear she's loot that's already been picked up.

A post made by someone using a synonym, on a computer forum, based in the middle of nowhere and in English, isn´t really a big deal in my book.
And even then, it´s not like i´m gonna go kick his ass tomorrow and say Haha asshat, better read FM instead of trying to hit on my chick.

btw, the loot that´s already been picked up was really funny [yes]

[enurneAcourdy]

Btw, maybe i posted this, just wanting someone to talk some sense into me.
who knows,..

Join the guild.

Or, write a friendly e-mail explaining your feelings (similar to your post here), and ask your wife if you may send it to him.

I wouldn't know if she'd appreciate you discussing this with him without her knowing it. Also, I'm a much too friendly guy, so my advice isn't worth a whole lot.

You know what, that´s a real good idea, to bad we only have one account with my lady and i use.

[sbgctsa]

Just tell your wife to say to him that she does not like him like that and that she is happily married.

[enurneAcourdy]

Just tell your wife to say to him that she does not like him like that and that she is happily married.

He knows that.
It´s the constant clingyness that´s pissing me off.

[Teprophopay]

TBH, I'm very surprised and disappointed your wife hasn't already dealt witht he guy.
She clearly should know that this is making you very unhappy and if she cared, IMO, she should be ignoring the guy after giving him the hard word.

As has been suggested, I would recommend logging in on the game and giving the guy a more personal reminder that she is a married woman IRL and you DO NOT appreciate his actions.

As for discussing it on a forum, it wouldn't be THAT difficult to do a trace back to you and with forensics, establish your account here and take it from there.

RULE no 1 - never discuss any illegal activity you have, are or intend comitting - EVER! Just needs one suspicion and it's allover.

[enurneAcourdy]

O.k i think i have to clarrify myself for a second,
I do not plan on killing the guy !!!
having that said, afaik, it´s not illegal to get into a fight. (although starting a fight can be)
My thoughts so far is confronting this guy in person, heck maybe even threatening him. If he makes the first move, good bye.

TBH, I'm very surprised and disappointed your wife hasn't already dealt witht he guy.
She clearly should know that this is making you very unhappy and if she cared, IMO, she should be ignoring the guy after giving him the hard word.

like said before, she knows this, and it´s not really her fault, as from what i´ve seen and heard it´s her whole guild that acts like this, this guy just seems to be fixated on my wife.
We´ve talked pretty often, my wife just doesn´t understand why it´s pissing my off the way it is.

As has been suggested, I would recommend logging in on the game and giving the guy a more personal reminder that she is a married woman IRL and you DO NOT appreciate his actions.

I will probably do so

As for discussing it on a forum, it wouldn't be THAT difficult to do a trace back to you and with forensics, establish your account here and take it from there.

RULE no 1 - never discuss any illegal activity you have, are or intend comitting - EVER! Just needs one suspicion and it's allover.

Again, i just can´t see it happening.
Over here fistfights aren´t such a big thing, we´re not talking about murder or the intention of. I´ve been in enough fights in my time. Bad **** tbh, and never, ever has there been any kind of search/examination afterwards. It´s allways the same, if someone decides on calling the cops afterwards, it go´s to a judge, a few months later there´s a court thingy, and someone gets sentenced to a money fine.

[DavidQD]

Another thought: the dude plays World of Warcraft. Odds are it's a pasty little kid with nothing better to do. He's in England, you're in Germany, you trust your wife, let it slide?

[enurneAcourdy]

Another thought: the dude plays World of Warcraft. Odds are it's a pasty little kid with nothing better to do. He's in England, you're in Germany, let it slide?

No, actually he´s my age (he constantly emails her pics) and he only lives like a Autobahn hour away.

edit: i´ve been letting it slide to long imo.

[gagagaridze]

Well to make a long story short, over the years some guy from my wife´s WoW guild has gotten a bit to "frisky".
He emails her almost daily, they talk all the time in WoW (typical online flirting, hihi here *kiss* there) and on Myspace, and tbfh it´s getting on my nerves, especially since he´s constantly asking if they could meet (movies, dinner, party, whatever)

Now, i know my Wife, i know that´s just her way of being friendly, talking/chatting having a little fun outside of the normal day.
I also know that she´d never cheat on me, nor go meet with this guy.
Anyways, I´ve told her pretty often that it´s bothering me, but that´s just the way she is, she chats with all her guild friends like that. [yawn]
But tbfh it´s him and the constantly being there that´s really getting on my nerves.

So, FM, being the person i am, i´m thinking about aranging a "date" for the two (via her WoW account)
Only i´ll be the one waiting, ready to make some critical damage.

I´m really thinking this through, as for i´m really a very jealous guy and just the thought that someone´s wanting to make a move on my wife is making my blood boil.

what´s your thoughts on all this ? Cause i need some calming down atm

It might push your wife away, he would just message her after you gave him a beating and twist it so you look in the wrong and how you wont allow her friends etc.

First thign would be to simply tell your wife your sick of this sleezy bag of **** keep trying it on with her and that its realyl getting to you, hes just a guy online she doesnt know, your far more important so she should just block him or whatever they do on WoW.

[euylvaygdq]

I would go with emailing the guy, just to set the record straight that she is loot already taken (that's a great line!) and ask him to please stop trying to meet up in RL.

Arranging a meetup between you and him is asking for trouble, because if it gets violent, you may not only lose some of your freedom by going to jail for a few months, but you may lose her permanently.

That's what I would do in your situation anyway...

[PPActionnGuys]

Go pummel him.

[Janarealiti]

the reason why you're wife hasn't pinged him off yet is because she loves the attention.

is he good looking ?

strictly IMHO of course

[gagagaridze]

the reason why you're wife hasn't pinged him off yet is because she loves the attention.

is he good looking ?

strictly IMHO of course

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I was going to say this, but didnt wanna piss him off even more lol.

[iioijjjkkojhbb]

if nothing helps (warning the other guy in WoW. holding the largest Axe you can find), I'd date him, letting him think it's going to be with your wife. be pissed off, you have a reason to be, and have a 'talk' with this idiot. if things get nasty then play along, but don't aim at that.
just make sure you convey your point.

edit: post some pics later if possible.

[Pdarassenko]

Get yourself a little online flirting going on with a hot chick and see how she likes that.
WARNING-----the vast majority of people who get cheated on HAD absolute faith in their spouse.
Also tell this little puke he has no business trying to get close to a married woman, any married woman.
Rampant jealousy is one thing but protecting your relationship from hostile invasion is quite acceptable. If it pushes her away she was at the door anyway.