[casinobonbone]

so tonight i was looking at some of my gf's old modeling pics and on one of the pics it had a copyright on it.never really thought much of it till tonight but i wanted to see if i could find some more pics so i looked up the company and it turned out it was a bondage and fetish site. now obviously i was aware of her modeling in the past and she has told me that she never did any nude shots but the photographs and short movie clips i seen when i went to the companies site is very disturbing to me even if its not nudity stuff. idk what to do right now. i think im gonna be sick

i don't even know how to bring this up to her, any suggestions?

[Mello]

Link to the website in question. I will be awaiting your PM

[Saad Khan]

so tonight i was looking at some of my gf's old modeling pics and on one of the pics it had a copyright on it.never really thought much of it till tonight but i wanted to see if i could find some more pics so i looked up the company and it turned out it was a bondage and fetish site. now obviously i was aware of her modeling in the past and she has told me that she never did any nude shots but the photographs and short movie clips i seen when i went to the companies site is very disturbing to me even if its not nudity stuff. idk what to do right now. i think im gonna be sick

i don't even know how to bring this up to her, any suggestions?

I am simply left wondering why it would bother you so much.

I'd suggest you realise she is a person too and that perhaps she doesnt find it disturbing herself,as always it is best to be direct. I suppose that means even in cases like this where in all actuality there isn't any problem.

Does it make you feel insecure or something?,and if so,how is it any different from any of the other modeling aside from the aesthetics?

Just seems to be an odd thing to get all worked up over.

[casinobonbone]

well im sure that most other guys wouldn't be to happy with having movies and pictures of their gf's posted up on the internet of them being fondled with by other guys

besides she told me she only did normal modeling.. so this comes quite a shock to me...

[MatueHarton]

First the RROD, next a bondage gf, UnXpectedError strikes!

[casinobonbone]

First the RROD, next a bondage gf, UnXpectedError strikes!

haha yeah the past month has been ruff on me im definitely living up to my name

[MatueHarton]

I am simply left wondering why it would bother you so much.

well, bondage, modeling or not, usually link to nude and sex etc.

[Tauntenue]

You should post pics and links to videos for these things... so we can help determine what you should do.
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[casinobonbone]

well, bondage, modeling or not, usually link to nude and sex etc.

exactly you hit it right on the nose.

and to those people who keep asking... no im not posting any pics or links so people please be respectful to me and stop asking. its obvious that im disturbed as it is that its out there.. im not about to go spread it anymore then it already is.

[gIWnXYkw]

Don't really think this is the place to start making mention of this.
Having found the additional photo's, you should really have had a honest talk to your girlfriend about them and how you're disturbed about finding them.
You will have to be honest with her about why you find them disturbing as well - whether it's the finding of them, what else she may have done BEFORE (and I would emphasis this was BEFORE you two hooked up) and that you don't know about, how it made you feel seeing her in those positions, etc.
I would remind you that there may have been a number of reasons she did them, need of money, interest in what it would be like, a 'phase' she was going through, etc.
Looking at it positively, it may increase the emotional bonding between you and, TBH, mild bondage can be a bit of a turn on for both parties - but it's not for everyone, I would draw the line at inflicting pain.

[NowFloabDow]

"in the past"

Its been a gone, move on [yes]

[ASSESTYTEAH]

When I think of the bondage, lots of things come up in my mind from what I've seen on the red tube.
I certainly wouldn't want to picture my gf doing that (even if she did it in the past) for the viewing audience.

It's a sort of thing a partner in a relationship should tell you about by her/himself before you found out on your own.

To the people who say:'It's in the past'. Would you say 'It's in the past', if you suddenly found out from other source, that your gf was a porn star doing cheap porn movies?

[espenijij]

OMG my GF was a bondage model!!! Sweet! Congratulations man! Now you can finally try that XXL electro shock buttplug cattleprod on someone besides yourself!!![rofl]

ok, ok, I'm sorry, couldn't resist. Honestly, I'm with Andy on this one. I would be a bit disturbed as well, but if I loved her, I'd be willing to move on with the relationship. Everyone has done something in the past they'd like to keep private. but.....internet bondage model? that's a real doozy, isn't it? Anyhow, if you both are in love, I'm sure you can put it in the past and move on.

I'd try to discuss it with her and tell her how it made you uncomfortable in a non-confrontational, non-judgemental way. and if you are really into this girl, tell her that, and say something like: any sort of skeleton in the past could never destroy your relationship b/c of the way you feel about her. She'll probably start crying, and gushing over you and then it will be over and done with.

there, there. that ought to do it.

[NodePark]

I would say talk to her then move on but some of the posts here were really funny haha..

[FloareTraurne]

I wouldn't even mention it to her, to be honest!
Like people have said, its the past and you bringing it up might cause huge embarrassment, for both of you, because you obviously feel uncomfortable with the thought of her doing this.

If your sex life doesn't include any type of this sort of bondage, then I would assume it was just her work and thats what she was getting paid for, assuming she actually likes to do that sort of thing then she must have hidden it from you very well.

Most people into any sort of sex play like that would almost certainly have it as a regular part of their sex life, If its not something you've both done, then I think you can safely assume she was just getting into a "role" like an actor and any expressions that she were enjoying it in the photo's etc, were "put on" and just the same as when an actor "acts".

Its in the past.
Forget it and get on with your lives!
There maybe things in your past, she would find distasteful, But as there in the past, she is probably not bothered about them.

If you love someone, you can forgive almost anything, even if it is hard to sometimes forget! [yes]

[wmtravelservice]

exactly you hit it right on the nose.

and to those people who keep asking... no im not posting any pics or links so people please be respectful to me and stop asking. its obvious that im disturbed as it is that its out there.. im not about to go spread it anymore then it already is.

I still dont see how it is a problem. Most of my GFs had sex with their previous bfs.... Atleast this one was smart and got paid for it.

[wmtravelservice]

"in the past"

Its been a gone, move on [yes]

He is right~!
+1

[ropinirole]

If it's bothering you I'd talk about it... It would be bothering me too..

[km2000]

I still dont see how it is a problem. Most of my GFs had sex with their previous bfs.... Atleast this one was smart and got paid for it.

You rock!

[nobodyhere]

What would disturb me the most is not that she did some horrible things in the past but she is lying to you now. No solid relationship can be built on lies. She has broken a bond of trust that is probably nearly impossible to regain. If I were you, I would talk to her about it.