[Htb48JBf]

**** her, thats all I can say really.

Once something goes wrong enough for you to actually break up once, theres never any point getting back togeather.... it just delays the inveitable.

People are ex's for a reason, usually a damn good one.

I learnt that the hard way.

[ValdisSeroff]

**** her, thats all I can say really.

Once something goes wrong enough for you to actually break up once, theres never any point getting back togeather.... it just delays the inveitable.

People are ex's for a reason, usually a damn good one.

I learnt that the hard way.

One thing i ahve learned is that women are rutheless.

[htDgExh8]

Don't give her any pity. Don't be a fool.

You GOT ME?!? [cursing]

[cingularring]

One thing i ahve learned is that women are rutheless.

Thats the biggest understatement i've seen in awhile. I learned all about this through a friend of mine. His g/f at the time dumped him for talking to a female cousin of her's that they were hanging out with one night. First thing she does is keep calling him, txting him saying she wants to get back together which he didn't. Then he find a nice girl and starts to date her, and his his is calling her and saying all sorts of stuff like how her and my friend had sex the night before and other stuff, trying to break them up. She finally suceeded in doing that and did it to a few more relationships after that. It's sad how she's the one that broke up with him, but can't stand to see him being happy with someone else. Women are just batshiat crazy creatures for the most part. There are few in there that aren't crazy, but those you have to look hard for.

[ValdisSeroff]

Thats the biggest understatement i've seen in awhile. I learned all about this through a friend of mine. His g/f at the time dumped him for talking to a female cousin of her's that they were hanging out with one night. First thing she does is keep calling him, txting him saying she wants to get back together which he didn't. Then he find a nice girl and starts to date her, and his his is calling her and saying all sorts of stuff like how her and my friend had sex the night before and other stuff, trying to break them up. She finally suceeded in doing that and did it to a few more relationships after that. It's sad how she's the one that broke up with him, but can't stand to see him being happy with someone else. Women are just batshiat crazy creatures for the most part. There are few in there that aren't crazy, but those you have to look hard for.

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[CenICrerflind]

Good riddance to that one!

Couldn't have said it better.
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[cingularring]

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Yea, women i believe are normally sane like us guys, but then they got a drug in their system thats produced naturally, it's called estrogen. Most women can't handle it and go crazy, while others can for some reason. It's odd. Some scientist should do a research project of how this "drug" makes women go crazy.

[Keyblctt]

snakes with tits dude.

just chalk it up, get a new one, repeat.

maybe work a little on self respect, i.e. first sign of any deviating from what you want, walk. sounds like you gave her an easy ride, and she took advantage.

[ValdisSeroff]

snakes with tits dude.

just chalk it up, get a new one, repeat.

maybe work a little on self respect, i.e. first sign of any deviating from what you want, walk. sounds like you gave her an easy ride, and she took advantage.

Sounds about right yeh.

[santorio]

I know I'm going to get a lot of hate replies for this, but, never date young single moms. The exception would be if they are widowed or were raped. Young, single moms are generally bad news.

[ValdisSeroff]

I know I'm going to get a lot of hate replies for this, but, never date young single moms. The exception would be if they are widowed or were raped. Young, single moms are generally bad news.

why if widowed or raped?

shes first single mom ive been with, got attached to the baby after a year, seing her take first steps and say first words and even calling me dad a few times.

Mind you, shes used the baby to get what she wants in the past from me so. if i said to her your using your baby she would tell me to go **** myself because she loves her baby blah blah.

[santorio]

Personally for me my exception is that if she was raped or lost her husband/father of child, then I would be okay with dating a single mom. I just have this icky feeling knowing that this woman I might potentially date had an unplanned pregnancy, or that she decided to have a kid too soon and then get divorced/separated. She just doesn't seem like a bright woman, if you know what I mean. Kind of like a woman dating a guy who's been in jail. Not the smartest choice.

That's too bad that this girl lets you get attached to the child and then does some dirty stuff behind your back. Now that she's gone, you don't get to spend time with the child. That's another reason why it sucks. If the relationship doesn't work out, then all the time you invested into the child is lost. Plus now the kid is probably messed up also because he/she lost you as a step-father. So now this kid may grow up to be messed up. It's this cycle ...

[fetesiceWaist]

so i say well ok maybe we can try but you have got to change your ways. she agree's and promises ot never lie, cheat etc.

That goes without saying. Relationships should be based on trust, this one obviously isn't.

Get rid of her, the end.

Once a liar always a liar.

[ValdisSeroff]

That goes without saying. Relationships should be based on trust, this one obviously isn't.

Get rid of her, the end.

Once a liar always a liar.

Yeh already got rid of her. she kept coming in and out of my life at her own choice. But no more.

Personally for me my exception is that if she was raped or lost her husband/father of child, then I would be okay with dating a single mom. I just have this icky feeling knowing that this woman I might potentially date had an unplanned pregnancy, or that she decided to have a kid too soon and then get divorced/separated. She just doesn't seem like a bright woman, if you know what I mean. Kind of like a woman dating a guy who's been in jail. Not the smartest choice.

That's too bad that this girl lets you get attached to the child and then does some dirty stuff behind your back. Now that she's gone, you don't get to spend time with the child. That's another reason why it sucks. If the relationship doesn't work out, then all the time you invested into the child is lost. Plus now the kid is probably messed up also because he/she lost you as a step-father. So now this kid may grow up to be messed up. It's this cycle ... I know what you mean. her mothers a low dirty scum aswell. All she thinsk about is running a pub and snorting coke. when my ex was young she used to bring back different men every night and was never around and just left my ex to fend for herself.

Seems my ex is just her mother all over again, and the sad thing is i fear the baby is going to grow up to be liek my ex.

[Andrew1978]

Women...

No explanation needed, or possible for that matter.

[CibQueersejer]

if its got a crotch like a bucket then I'll **** it.

but I wouldn't be the substitute father for the child whilst shes getting some bloke(s) load hurled up her behind your back.

[alexosnasos2]

I grew up in council estates and still live on one, the whole dont involved with young single mothers applys very much there.
Seen so many try and fail and is pretty sad as one of my close friends was in the same scenario as you for a couple of years and actually had a kid with this single mom, luckily now he has a found a nice chilled out women who he gets on with.

[ValdisSeroff]

I grew up in council estates and still live on one, the whole dont involved with young single mothers applys very much there.
Seen so many try and fail and is pretty sad as one of my close friends was in the same scenario as you for a couple of years and actually had a kid with this single mom, luckily now he has a found a nice chilled out women who he gets on with.

Glad i ddint get this trash preggers.

[santorio]

I grew up in council estates and still live on one, the whole dont involved with young single mothers applys very much there.

The whole avoid single moms applies everywhere! You have to be really careful with single moms because even when they mature out and get serious with life in their 30's and 40's, they are still looking for a substitute father, even when they say they aren't looking for a daddy for the kid. That's B.S. You're supposed to be seriously involved in this woman's life and NOT have any relationship with the child? Give me a break! Then it gets messier because this teenage kid doesn't see you as his/her real father so you will have a rebellious out of control step child. Moral of the story: Be careful about single moms - they can be trouble, and that is why they are single and a mom! Of course, the exception being if they are widowed or if they got raped and decided to keep the child. Those events are out of their control.

[icedrakona]

sounds like she just wanted a live in baby sitter, did you look after her kid much while she went out?