[Gakeincidoniac]

Is it necessarily bad when your logic tells you "You shouldn't have done that" but no matter how hard you try you just can't make yourself feel guilty?

[ivandiadser]

Maybe your just really self centered?

[Gakeincidoniac]

Maybe your just really self centered?

Always have been, but I used to feel guilty and sh8ty before. Not anymore. It feels different, not guilty, but empty.

And the worst thing is that sometimes I TRY to bring emotions and think of what I have done in a very negative way... nothing happens.


P.S. I haven't murdered or raped anyone, don't get some wrong idea!

[ZXRamon]

I use to be like that when I was younger, I.E teenage years, but I always feel guilty if I feel I have done something wrong now.

[yovbQVpD]

Always have been, but I used to feel guilty and sh8ty before. Not anymore. It feels different, not guilty, but empty.

And the worst thing is that sometimes I TRY to bring emotions and think of what I have done in a very negative way... nothing happens.


P.S. I haven't murdered or raped anyone, don't get some wrong idea!

You can be self-centered and feel guilty. As long as your not now doing things you know are wrong because you are not feeling as guilty, your not significantly really less of a human being than your average person, you can still tell whats wrong and right. But it seems by the way you have worded things that you have.... and it sounds like eigther often enough, or something significant enough to prompt you to air you "concern" out here.
Are you trying to brag about how cold you are or are you genuinly distressed by this. Though you are self centered posting a topic asking whether or not people think something you do is bad, suggests insecurity, in that you feel the need to seek approval.... of people you hardly know no less. I think your problem stems a little deeper than a little lack of guilt.

[vipluka]

You can be self-centered and feel guilty. As long as your not now doing things you know are wrong because you are not feeling as guilty, your not significantly really less of a human being than your average person, you can still tell whats wrong and right. But it seems by the way you have worded things that you have.... and it sounds like eigther often enough, or something significant enough to prompt you to air you "concern" out here.
Are you trying to brag about how cold you are or are you genuinly distressed by this. Though you are self centered posting a topic asking whether or not people think something you do is bad, suggests insecurity, in that you feel the need to seek approval.... of people you hardly know no less. I think your problem stems a little deeper than a little lack of guilt.

Wow, you've been here only like 2 months and you already have him figured out. [yes]

[orillaVar]

Depends on what it is you're concerned about.
There have been things I REALLY shouldn't have done and not felt guilty about as it may still have been justified.
On the other hand, there have been little things I've felt very bad about.
Could be you're in the former catagory - or it could just be you're a psychopath [rolleyes]

[Nikitka]

I kinda believe the net is turning us into cold antisocial emotionless people,..

[larentont]

I kinda believe the net is turning us into cold antisocial emotionless people,..

It's not "the net" that does it,western society seems to be based on the denial of responsibility these days,and materialism,keeping that in mind it's only to be expected that people lose the ability to meaningfully and properly interact with each other.

To Brat,I'd call you a sociopath,but really you do seem to be just after attention.

[Asianunta]

You are probably a person who:

A. Has few people he can call GOOD friends and is truly honest to
B. Has the need to feel good about himself all the time (bragging is one of the "symptoms")
C. Deep down feels alone at night
D. Lies alot, sometimes without even noticing (mostly because of B.)
E. Has no girlfriend, or a very bad relationship (less likely)
F. Easily turns his back on people, no matter what reason

Solution: Get out more. Seriously. Alot of people who spend too much time on the internet are like this.

[Gakeincidoniac]

You're taking this to an epic level...

I'm only concerned because it feels a bit inhumane not to feel guilty for wrong-doings.

[sauppyshurb]

You feel guilty about not feeling guilty.

[Gakeincidoniac]

You feel guilty about not feeling guilty.

No, thats the problem.

[Ephedrine]

Alright you don't feel guilty, nor do you feel guilty for not feeling guilty so then please tell me what the problem is?

Nothing is going to be said here, and no one around here will be able to change whatever it is that happend and where you're wondering about if it should make you feel guilty since it's already done and you're not feeling it, and you're not feeling guilty about not feeling guilty about it so again I'm missing the problem...

Maybe post what you done... drove over a litter off kittens on purpose?

[RjkVwPcV]

I think it is bad to not feel guilt if you feel what you did deserves it.

However, you have probably internally rationalised it, so your mind accepts it, i.e.

'If this didn't happen to me, hell, I wouldn't have even thought about doing that'

I would say, like everyone, you want to feel better, so have to be totally honest and confess what you have done and talk through it. Get another person perspective - to me it is the only way.