[Sleflanna]

Just keep seeing her and go with the flow. Follow your gut and feelings. Always be weary of course, since exposing your heart means if **** goes wrong, you will get hurt, but I'm assuming you know this already. Also be a bit weary, since normally an older woman won't go with a younger guy. Just be sure she doesn't have some sort of evil plan or something, but don't get paranoid either.

The only real problem I can see at the moment is if you are planning on having children. It will get statistically very risky, both for a mother and baby's health, to have children at age 35+. And I'm not pulling that number out of my ass. That's the mean age at which the risks skyrocket. And by risks I mean mother dying, baby dying, baby being born with a congenital disorder or defect, etc.

This actually went through my mind a few months ago when I asked a cute girl out for coffee. Turned out she was 29, and I'm only 22. The age thing was a bit of a bother (in terms of her probably not wanting someone so young), but I immediately told myself to "forget about it", because of the baby thing. I'm not going to lie: it made my feel like a man to potentially be inside the pants on a regular basis of a girl 7 years my senior, but I mean, it wasn't for my best interests beyond the novelty and sex. Even if we had hypothetically got along after a while, it would mean I would have to think of becoming a father within the next 5-6 years. At this point in my life, I really can't be thinking about that. I mean, I can't even officially support myself financially yet.

She must be out of her F'in mind to be dating you.

Nah. It just means their relationship is in all likelihood based on sex, whether they realize it or not. Either that, or at least one party (if only one, the female) has no priorities for having children.

[Erunsenef]

Heh, there's 14 years between my new "friend" and I. She's 29 and I'm 15, nah, just kidding, I'm 43.

My dad was dating a 25 year old girl when he lived in the US[yes]

[SallyIsNice5]

Nah. It just means their relationship is in all likelihood based on sex, whether they realize it or not. Either that, or at least one party (if only one, the female) has no priorities for having children.

Oh no, I agree. I was just taking a stab because I actually know this guy. No woman in her right mind should be anywhere near him. [rofl]

[Feelundseenna]

I wouldn't have a problem with her age. I would have a problem with marriage though.
It's a trap which gives you nothing and people fall into it every day.
People like you.

[Spisivavona]

Age difference from a 1 year old to a 5 year old = MASSIVE!

Age difference from a 70 year old to a 74 year old = not even worth talking about.

GOT FOR IT MAN!!!

[thumbup]

[wJswn5l3]

i don't see a problem with it, its the people involved not the difference in age

although i would take things slow from experience

[glagoliska]

Obligatory FM JYFIHP and DHITB post.

[Xlkl9SFd]

Just keep seeing her and go with the flow. Follow your gut and feelings. Always be weary of course, since exposing your heart means if **** goes wrong, you will get hurt, but I'm assuming you know this already. Also be a bit weary, since normally an older woman won't go with a younger guy. Just be sure she doesn't have some sort of evil plan or something, but don't get paranoid either.

The only real problem I can see at the moment is if you are planning on having children. It will get statistically very risky, both for a mother and baby's health, to have children at age 35+. And I'm not pulling that number out of my ass. That's the mean age at which the risks skyrocket. And by risks I mean mother dying, baby dying, baby being born with a congenital disorder or defect, etc.

This actually went through my mind a few months ago when I asked a cute girl out for coffee. Turned out she was 29, and I'm only 22. The age thing was a bit of a bother (in terms of her probably not wanting someone so young), but I immediately told myself to "forget about it", because of the baby thing. I'm not going to lie: it made my feel like a man to potentially be inside the pants on a regular basis of a girl 7 years my senior, but I mean, it wasn't for my best interests beyond the novelty and sex. Even if we had hypothetically got along after a while, it would mean I would have to think of becoming a father within the next 5-6 years. At this point in my life, I really can't be thinking about that. I mean, I can't even officially support myself financially yet.


Nah. It just means their relationship is in all likelihood based on sex, whether they realize it or not. Either that, or at least one party (if only one, the female) has no priorities for having children.

The thing I am not 22, I am 26, if it was like I am 22 and she is 30 I would probably think a lot before doing anything

[bertanu]

Speaking from experience here... She is going to impress you in the bedroom.

[nd90t3sf]

Bah. This is all backwards. You're supposed to go after highschool girls, and the highschool girls go after the college guys. Its just how society works! Don't deviate from the norm! [/sarcasm]

[CO2490pL]

The thing I am not 22, I am 26, if it was like I am 22 and she is 30 I would probably think a lot before doing anything

The difference is huge man

[bertanu]

Bah. This is all backwards. You're supposed to go after highschool girls, and the highschool girls go after the college guys. Its just how society works! Don't deviate from the norm! [/sarcasm]

Well, hold on... Have you actually dated a younger woman? OVERRATED!

Ok, fine, their privates may look nicer. But the drama, games, lack of any idea how to give oral sex, etc. outweighs the pretty labia.

[Rqqneujr]

No cos when i turn say 65 she'll be 70 and that's an old woman, too old for my personal liking.

[Xlkl9SFd]

The difference is huge man

Between 26 and 30?

[nd90t3sf]

Well, hold on... Have you actually dated a younger woman? OVERRATED!

Ok, fine, their privates may look nicer. But the drama, games, lack of any idea how to give oral sex, etc. outweighs the pretty labia.

You missed the sarcasm tag. :P My fiancee is younger than me by a few years. Not much of a big deal to me because I seem to lack any sex drive. Apparently I set off people's gaydar too. My friend almost died laughing when I first met his wife and she thought I was gay.

[CO2490pL]

Between 26 and 30?

Damn there goes my sarcasm
I dated a girl that was just 18 and i was 32 [thumbup]

So i don't think that's a big age difference...

[Alkanyadela]

Currently fooling around with two 33 year old Italian women... I am 24. Still not big deal. One is for a month, the other one may turn into something serious.

[Xlkl9SFd]

Currently fooling around with two 33 year old Italian women... I am 24. Still not big deal. One is for a month, the other one may turn into something serious.

Well...for me I only talk about serious relationship which will end up with engagment/marriage

[bataovady]

If you really like her, go for it [thumbup]

If you "just" like her, go get some younger girls first Nah j/k seems like you already made up your mind and are just looking for approval [yes] There's absolutely nothing wrong with dating an older woman

[bertanu]

Well...for me I only talk about serious relationship which will end up with engagment/marriage

Do not be so quick to jump into commitment. You just met the woman, have fun. Do not obfuscate your time with visions of holy matrimony.