To text or to call.... that is the question? - DiscussWorldIssues - Socio-Economic Religion and Political Uncensored Debate

**infinkPoode** · 04-13-2007, 01:10 PM

Now the question is, are you going to be able to walk through those doors when you are on your date?

Might want to start working up and for that and thinking about it, if it was a bit scary to talk to her on the phone.

Though for me, I am a much better communicator / speaker when I clear my mind and say stuff without thinking about it. I just say it.
I know that if I start thinking about something to say, I can't come up with anything to say at all, so it becomes awkward and BS questions and short answers start coming out of my mouth which is a big no no.

**addisonnicogel** · 04-13-2007, 03:03 PM

Hah nice work man!

I hope everything goes well for ya. [thumbup]

**Kryfamid** · 04-13-2007, 05:02 PM

pretty well to be honest.

I thought she might have been a bit young, but shes at uni so its all good!

Thats my rule of thumb when determining if a girl is too young. As long as she is at uni its fair game!

Considering I'm a university lecturer/researcher this rule is going to work out very well for me....

**Tilmbeinymn** · 04-13-2007, 05:35 PM

My god call Doctor Phill maybe he knows [rolleyes]
maybe Oprah

**Sapremolz** · 04-13-2007, 05:39 PM

Wow lucky you. I usually call but never hear from the lady i call. guess some people are better at it then others

**ThomasMannfanny** · 04-13-2007, 11:22 PM

She rang me back, had a nice chat.... then she asked me out for a drink!!

HEHE!!

Wow....
That was a lil easy wasn't it?

Maybe she's desperate?

Lol only joking....good job man. I don't know what you did....but good job lol.

**carline** · 04-14-2007, 12:24 AM

Thats my rule of thumb when determining if a girl is too young. As long as she is at uni its fair game! Considering I'm a university lecturer/researcher this rule is going to work out very well for me....

Good rule of thumb! I prefer the other though...

If there's grass on the green, play ball! If there's not, pretend she shaves!

**RildFiemodo** · 04-14-2007, 02:07 AM

Wow lucky you. I usually call but never hear from the lady i call. guess some people are better at it then others

That normally always happens to me too, but this time I got lucky!

I have no problem when im on the date, its getting the date in the first place which is hard!

Looking forward to seeing her again.

**RildFiemodo** · 12-05-2007, 04:33 AM

So i have this girls mobile/cell number. She is very cute blah blah blah..

I have send a couple of texts and she has send some back, only a couple of days now.

Do I still text her or do I call? I hate this new "mobile phone edicate (spelling)"

**chuviskkk** · 12-05-2007, 04:41 AM

Call her! what are you waiting for?

**allemnendup** · 12-05-2007, 04:41 AM

So i have this girls mobile/cell number. She is very cute blah blah blah..

I have send a couple of texts and she has send some back, only a couple of days now.

Do I still text her or do I call? I hate this new "mobile phone edicate (spelling)"

Just get over it and call. Could work out well for you.

**RildFiemodo** · 12-05-2007, 04:44 AM

but i dont want to seem too keen

**allemnendup** · 12-05-2007, 04:47 AM

but i dont want to seem too keen

FXXk it,if she likes talking to you by txt she'll probably enjoy actually talking even more.
Not much to lose really.

**RildFiemodo** · 12-05-2007, 04:53 AM

called her - but her cell was off [rofl]

Maybe tomorrow

**Flikemommoilt** · 12-05-2007, 04:58 AM

Talk to her in person if at all possible, and do it soon before she loses interest and turns to someone else. Confidence, man, confidence.

**RildFiemodo** · 12-05-2007, 05:20 AM

so i called her, and she picked up... she was driving and said she will call me back in a min [yes]

She sounds nice!

**allemnendup** · 12-05-2007, 05:36 AM

so i called her, and she picked up... she was driving and said she will call me back in a min [yes]

She sounds nice!

Ah hell,good luck man.[thumbup]

**RildFiemodo** · 12-05-2007, 05:58 AM

She rang me back, had a nice chat.... then she asked me out for a drink!!

HEHE!!

**allemnendup** · 12-05-2007, 06:01 AM

She rang me back, had a nice chat.... then she asked me out for a drink!!

HEHE!!

See and you were scared.

**RildFiemodo** · 12-05-2007, 06:01 AM

See and you were scared.

Yes indeed I was!!

04-13-2007, 01:10 PM	#1
infinkPoode Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 406 Senior Member	Now the question is, are you going to be able to walk through those doors when you are on your date? Might want to start working up and for that and thinking about it, if it was a bit scary to talk to her on the phone. Though for me, I am a much better communicator / speaker when I clear my mind and say stuff without thinking about it. I just say it. I know that if I start thinking about something to say, I can't come up with anything to say at all, so it becomes awkward and BS questions and short answers start coming out of my mouth which is a big no no. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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addisonnicogel Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 516 Senior Member	Hah nice work man! I hope everything goes well for ya. [thumbup] Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-13-2007, 05:02 PM	#3
Kryfamid Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 575 Senior Member	pretty well to be honest. I thought she might have been a bit young, but shes at uni so its all good! Thats my rule of thumb when determining if a girl is too young. As long as she is at uni its fair game! Considering I'm a university lecturer/researcher this rule is going to work out very well for me.... Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-13-2007, 05:35 PM	#4
Tilmbeinymn Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 433 Senior Member	My god call Doctor Phill maybe he knows [rolleyes] maybe Oprah Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-13-2007, 05:39 PM	#5
Sapremolz Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 356 Senior Member	Wow lucky you. I usually call but never hear from the lady i call. guess some people are better at it then others Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-13-2007, 11:22 PM	#6
ThomasMannfanny Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 426 Senior Member	She rang me back, had a nice chat.... then she asked me out for a drink!! HEHE!! Wow.... That was a lil easy wasn't it? Maybe she's desperate? Lol only joking....good job man. I don't know what you did....but good job lol. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-14-2007, 12:24 AM	#7
carline Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 341 Senior Member	Thats my rule of thumb when determining if a girl is too young. As long as she is at uni its fair game! Considering I'm a university lecturer/researcher this rule is going to work out very well for me.... Good rule of thumb! I prefer the other though... If there's grass on the green, play ball! If there's not, pretend she shaves! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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04-14-2007, 02:07 AM	#8
RildFiemodo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 438 Senior Member	Wow lucky you. I usually call but never hear from the lady i call. guess some people are better at it then others That normally always happens to me too, but this time I got lucky! I have no problem when im on the date, its getting the date in the first place which is hard! Looking forward to seeing her again. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-05-2007, 04:33 AM	#9
RildFiemodo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 438 Senior Member	To text or to call.... that is the question? So i have this girls mobile/cell number. She is very cute blah blah blah.. I have send a couple of texts and she has send some back, only a couple of days now. Do I still text her or do I call? I hate this new "mobile phone edicate (spelling)" Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-05-2007, 04:41 AM	#10
chuviskkk Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 498 Senior Member	Call her! what are you waiting for? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-05-2007, 04:41 AM	#11
allemnendup Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 485 Senior Member	So i have this girls mobile/cell number. She is very cute blah blah blah.. I have send a couple of texts and she has send some back, only a couple of days now. Do I still text her or do I call? I hate this new "mobile phone edicate (spelling)" Just get over it and call. Could work out well for you. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-05-2007, 04:44 AM	#12
RildFiemodo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 438 Senior Member	but i dont want to seem too keen Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-05-2007, 04:47 AM	#13
allemnendup Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 485 Senior Member	but i dont want to seem too keen FXXk it,if she likes talking to you by txt she'll probably enjoy actually talking even more. Not much to lose really. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-05-2007, 04:53 AM	#14
RildFiemodo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 438 Senior Member	called her - but her cell was off [rofl] Maybe tomorrow Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-05-2007, 04:58 AM	#15
Flikemommoilt Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 443 Senior Member	Talk to her in person if at all possible, and do it soon before she loses interest and turns to someone else. Confidence, man, confidence. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-05-2007, 05:20 AM	#16
RildFiemodo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 438 Senior Member	so i called her, and she picked up... she was driving and said she will call me back in a min [yes] She sounds nice! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-05-2007, 05:36 AM	#17
allemnendup Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 485 Senior Member	so i called her, and she picked up... she was driving and said she will call me back in a min [yes] She sounds nice! Ah hell,good luck man.[thumbup] Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-05-2007, 05:58 AM	#18
RildFiemodo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 438 Senior Member	She rang me back, had a nice chat.... then she asked me out for a drink!! HEHE!! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-05-2007, 06:01 AM	#19
allemnendup Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 485 Senior Member	She rang me back, had a nice chat.... then she asked me out for a drink!! HEHE!! See and you were scared. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-05-2007, 06:01 AM	#20
RildFiemodo Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 438 Senior Member	See and you were scared. Yes indeed I was!! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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