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The top expert told you that you'd be responsible for a path charge. You wrote that your result was: "So I said yes I'll get you but now everybody in my own team was already on the approach to our pit for the shotgun start so I'd to go" In a court you'd be expected to date=june 2011 that statement but I'm going to believe that you intended that you'd look after the charge later since you were working late for your tee time. The very fact that you performed your round shows that the top master obviously agreed with that. Upon your reunite, the top master requires one to spend the path charge. However now, rather than paying him (as you suggested you'd just before your round) you take issue using the charge. It appears to me that you basically told this person that you'd care for the path fee after your round (you also say that the fee it self was no big deal) but you basically will not pay it, when you're done. Therefore a disagreement develops where he wagged his finger in-your experience and "disrespected" you, but because you say (before any finger pointing) that you'd to cool off, I will only suppose that your activities and/or terms might have led to his "disrespecting" motion. In most of what you've created up to now, you mention "pointed fingers" o-r "disrespect" a minimum of eight times and actually, you mention it a minimum of five times in the mail you wrote for the expert. It appears in my experience as though you're more angered over sensation notably emasculated by his hand pointing - particularly before a place filled with people - than you're over being charged the charge and I believe that's what's really bothering you. While it might easily be true that the others drive free of charge, the truth that you formally or informally decided to pay the charge or at least recognized that you were conscious of it prior to starting your round, brought the pro to think that you'd settle up later so he'd every reason to assume to be paid upon your return to the pro shop. When you returned and asked the charge, you suggested that it was unjust and that you'd have to consider it therefore the expert demonstrably translated that to suggest that you both weren't going to spend it or he was going to have difficulty gathering it and he responded to that. In all fairness, I am unable to state that he's wrong. The way in which it was managed from the you both can clearly have been greater. However the bottom-line is that from what you've mentioned and the way in which you've described it, I've difficulty seeing your level. He told you concerning the charge before you teed off and when you were done you ostensibly decided and could look after it. Therefore got angry you didn't,. It's possible that the top master is most likely no Dale Carnegie herself, but I believe you owe a path charge to him. I understand that's perhaps not what you wish to hear, but you asked for a straightforward response and that's mine. -JP
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