[Alkassyinhisk]

Just heard this in a bayan here:
http://www.tasawwuf.org/audio/itikaf_urdu.htm

1) Keep the gaze lowered (do not look at the opposite sex that you are not married to). Even if you unintentionally sin it creates darkness and distance in your heart. For example you speak to a woman that you consider your daughter who is old enough for you to marry...then it is a sin. Give up feeling greedy for the world and the things that are within it. The Internet and the cell phone are very dangerous and will take many people to Hell.

2) Do not lie at all and keep a check on yourself. and do not backbite...if in a gathering where others are doing it, tell them to stop, or defend the person being talked about, or get up and walk away.

3) Keep your thoughts clean, do not fantasise about the opposite sex.

4) Watch what you eat and put in your stomach if it is haram (based on riba, stolen money or anything like that as well as haram ingredients it will ruin your spirituality).

[KasaBalak]

In short words, what's tasawwuf bro ?

[Dyslermergerb]

Salam for something to be a sin plz provide a hadiths on. These things must be backed up.

[diplmixxxx]

In short words, what's tasawwuf bro ?

There are many definitions, 2 I just heard in this talk.

1) It is sincerity towards Allah , and it is Worship of Allah and asking from Allah.

2) It is making a firm and complete intention that no sin will be committed and being dedicated to this.

[TNOULbr2]

Salam

I wonder what in the above list can any one debate whether it is a sin or not?

[Sertvfdnhgjk]

There are many definitions, 2 I just heard in this talk.

1) It is sincerity towards Allah , and it is Worship of Allah and asking from Allah.

2) It is making a firm and complete intention that no sin will be committed and being dedicated to this.

Oh interesting, I thought it was your connection with Allah ?

[bpejjssoe]

Salams it's not about debating at all. Im just stating that for someone like us to say this or that is a sin there must be proof that there is actually a sin it. Providing aithentic hadiths or Quranic verse is a must to pass halal/haram etc

[BluewayAllere]

In short words, what's tasawwuf bro ?

http://www.tasawwuf.org/basics/what_tasawwuf.htm

[Arrecteve]

Salams it's not about debating at all. Im just stating that for someone like us to say this or that is a sin there must be proof that there is actually a sin it. Providing aithentic hadiths or Quranic verse is a must to pass halal/haram etc

I learned shaykh has said this, I accept his views as based on the Revelation. If you knew the hadith and Quran you too would see that. I am not going to go looking for what you are asking for I do not have the time.

[Qwjyrgij]

Oh interesting, I thought it was your connection with Allah ?

Those definitions will build your connection with Allah swt. Like I said there are many definitions all agree that it is a means of having a close link with Allah.

[Poll Pitt]

Oh i thought those pointers were from a talk of a scholor of Islam
That link took me straight to a website of scholors who are known to be well rooted in islamic scholorship.But khair really which one of these 4 are not obvious that its haram ? InshAllah there is plenty of hadeeth and quranic references for these and are considered common knowledge amongst muslims.

1) Keep the gaze lowered (do not look at the opposite sex that you are not married to). Even if you unintentionally sin it creates darkness and distance in your heart. For example you speak to a woman that you consider your daughter who is old enough for you to marry...then it is a sin. Give up feeling greedy for the world and the things that are within it. The Internet and the cell phone are very dangerous and will take many people to Hell.

2) Do not lie at all and keep a check on yourself. and do not backbite...if in a gathering where others are doing it, tell them to stop, or defend the person being talked about, or get up and walk away.

3) Keep your thoughts clean, do not fantasise about the opposite sex.

4) Watch what you eat and put in your stomach if it is haram (based on riba, stolen money or anything like that as well as haram ingredients it will ruin your spirituality).

[u8MmZFmF]

I learned shaykh has said this, I accept his views as based on the Revelation. If you knew the hadith and Quran you too would see that. I am not going to go looking for what you are asking for I do not have the time.

Salams ok I get it now sorry my mistake makes sense now. I must if read wrong or misunderstood I thought you were issuing a fatwa unitentionally. Silly me. Forgive me. I am easy confused at times.