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Assalamualaikum,

The main cause of your friend and your son being this way it is because the environment and the friends around them. This has a big impact on the way you think and live.

How? lets say a boy sits in the gatherings of awliya Allah, he will himself become a wali.

I can relate soo many incidents that cause people to leave islam just by hanging or sitting with wrong people or became muslims with stronger iman by sitting with the right people despite being in western side. Thats why Tabligh teaches to bring muslims to the environment of the masjid.