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Many young Muslim girls are becoming addicted to career. They do not understand the wisdom behind the Islamic policy of keeping women home.
They should learn from the mistakes of those career women in the West.

Check this and think deep.

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http://www.henrymakow.com/programmedtofail.html

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Sasha Spencer provides an insightful analysis of how feminism programmed her to fail.

"I can now lament at leisure my squandered youth and beauty. I seem to have done it all backwards."

As a girl growing up in the American Midwest in the 1970's, I felt there was no social approval attached to the traditional feminine role.
Being a wife and mother had no merit. My ultra-feminine British mother had nothing to teach me.
A naive media sponge, I told my mother: "You need to be more assertive and less co-dependent." I assured her that everything she had to teach me about womanhood was outdated.
The same applied to my very Victorian grandmother. "My husband can fix his own damn dinner!" I snapped. " I will have more important things to do!"
No longer could I look to them for direction. This was uncharted territory but I was sure of one thing: I was chosen for greatness.

In my youthful ignorance, I imbibed every issue of Ms. Magazine. Liberated from man and oppressive roles, I felt I had the key to happiness. I would prove myself in a "man's world."

I fell for the Rockefeller-funded B.S. I was an angry young woman and the problem was men!

JOBS DON'T LAST

But all good things come to an end, however, and so did the job and my love affair with all things French. By this time, I had the nice house, car, beautiful artwork, clothes, boyfriends. I was indeed at my most glamorous.

I had never been the type to dream of a husband and children. But after the dream job ended, I began to long for something lasting. I wanted a family.

WAKING FROM THE EVIL SPELL
I can now lament at leisure my squandered youth and beauty. I thought it would last forever and a day. Or, at least until I was tired of it. Don't we all?
I seem to have done it all backwards.
Instead of painfully questing for my intrinsic worth as a female, I could have been building a strong family unit, the strength of which could now shield me from the vicissitudes of 21st century life.

We have all suffered from a cruel deception. Many choose not to look. However, the heterosexual bond has been the source and sustaining force for humanity.
I now clearly see the utter destruction of the human family. The battle of the sexes did not serve us.
The Satanist bankers knew what they were doing when they drove a stake between men and women and diminished millions of lives.

More on this issue.

http://www.savethemales.ca/001904.html

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More western women are discovering the suppressed truth !! Check this.

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It’s time to stop fooling ourselves, says a woman who left a position of power: the women who have managed to be both mothers and top professionals are superhuman, rich, or self-employed. If we truly believe in equal opportunity for all women, here’s what has to change.

The first set of reactions, with the underlying assumption that my choice was somehow sad or unfortunate, was irksome enough. But it was the second set of reactions—those implying that my parenting and/or my commitment to my profession were somehow substandard—that triggered a blind fury. Suddenly, finally, the penny dropped. All my life, I’d been on the other side of this exchange. I’d been the woman smiling the faintly superior smile while another woman told me she had decided to take some time out or pursue a less competitive career track so that she could spend more time with her family. I’d been the woman congratulating herself on her unswerving commitment to the feminist cause, chatting smugly with her dwindling number of college or law-school friends who had reached and maintained their place on the highest rungs of their profession.

I’d been the one telling young women at my lectures that you can have it all and do it all, regardless of what field you are in. Which means I’d been part, albeit unwittingly, of making millions of women feel that they are to blame if they cannot manage to rise up the ladder as fast as men and also have a family and an active home life (and be thin and beautiful to boot).

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Women of my generation have clung to the feminist credo we were raised with, even as our ranks have been steadily thinned by unresolvable tensions between family and career, because we are determined not to drop the flag for the next generation. But when many members of the younger generation have stopped listening, on the grounds that glibly repeating “you can have it all” is simply airbrushing reality, it is time to talk.

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[occalmnab]

We live in a consumerist society, what does it mean?

It means people have to buy things to keep the system going, if people stop buying the whole dream will come to an end. People have to be made to feel like they need things, new models, new colours...even if the old thing works it is not good enough. To make consumers they need to be schooled, the child needs to be separated from the mother and raised by state employees...the child grows into a consumer/worker. If the mother is encouraged to pursue a career, her children can be trained by the state to become future consumers. The mass media cements what the schools have done...and many people are just forced to work because the bankers squeeze the money and make it tight, forcing people to work longer to try to make ends meet. Muslims are also consumers and have fallen under the spell of the Dream Machine.

[Shinegayboyx]

Motherhood by Shaykh Nuh Ha Mim Keller



Sayyida Fozia Bora (may Allah reward her) posted a beautiful message on Deenport last year about Motherhood by Shaykh Nuh Ha Mim Keller (may Allah bless and increase his rank):

“When she has her first baby, she must manage for another life even more dependent on her personal sacrifices. By the second, third, or fourth child, her days and nights belong almost entirely to others. Whether she has a spiritual path or not, such a mother can seldom resist a glance at the past, when there were more prayers, more meanings, more spiritual company, and more serenity. When Allah opens her understanding, she will see that she is engaged in one of the highest forms of worship, that of producing new believers who love and worship Allah. She is effectively worshipping Allah for as many lifetimes she has children, for the reward of every spiritual work her children do will be hers, without this diminishing anything of their own rewards: every ablution, every prayer, every Ramadan, every hajj, and even the works her children will in turn pass on to their offspring, and, so on till the end of time. Even if her children do not turn out as she wishes, she shall be requited in paradise forever according to her intention in raising them, which was that they should be godly.

Aside from the tremendous reward, within the path itself it is noticeable that many of those who benefit most from khalwa or ‘solitary retreat of dhikr’ are women who have raised children. With only a little daily dhikr and worship over the years, but much toil and sacrifice for others, they surpass many a younger person who has had more free time, effort, and ‘spiritual works.’ What they find is greater because their state with Allah is greater; namely, the awe, hope, and love of the Divine they have realized by years of sincerity to Him.” Shaykh Nuh Ha Mim Keller

[homerdienru]

when you stay at home do you mean literally dont leave the house or do you mean look after the children and house i.e. a housewife?

[Cvo1iRT0]

when you stay at home do you mean literally dont leave the house or do you mean look after the children and house i.e. a housewife?

Women can do either, they can even run their own business if they like. Working in a job is slavery for men and women, it is promoted as freedom by the corporations when it is not. A worker gives 40 or 50years of their life to the corporation, usually the contract is one-sided with all the power given to the corporation, After a life time of work people may get a pension, but most of their savings are eaten up, so after all that work they have very little left. Islam prefers and promotes self-employment, pre-modern Muslim societies had guilds that allowed people to be skilled and self employed and they produced beautiful products reflecting the Beauty of Allah . Everyone working day and night for a corporation reduces the wages of everyone.

[exhibeKed]

when you stay at home do you mean literally dont leave the house or do you mean look after the children and house i.e. a housewife?

A stay-home Muslim woman should

1.Look after the children and raise them to the high standard of morality , courage and love for Islam
2. take care of the elderly relatives living near or inside the house.
3. Keep the house warm and comfortable for the husband who needs an abode of peace after the hard work.
4. Engaged in worshipping Allah during free time-- doing Nafat ( voluntary ) Ibadat

[Zzvukttz]

At present, the Internet is full of ads which seek to "feed, educate & empower" young girls. Imagine the outcry if this campaign favored boys.

The campaign's size indicates Illuminati Money is behind it. The purpose is to undermine marriage and family in the Third World as they have done in the First. And they have the chutzpah to ask you to pay for it!

Check this link.

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"Because I am a Girl" is a campaign that undermines marriage and family by empowering young females at the expense of young males. It pretends to believe that empowering girls (but not boys) is the key to eliminating poverty and creating a better world. See here:http://plancanada.ca/Page.aspx?pid=2270 .


It doesn't just infect girls around the world. It infects thousands of participating Canadian and American girls with self destructive lesbian-feminist dogma.


The Campaign is sponsored by PLAN which is recognized as a "unified global entity." Founded during the Spanish Civil War as "Foster Plan for Children in Spain", PLAN worked in Europe during WWII, and in the 1950's opened new programs in developing countries. In 2000, PLAN International became simply PLAN.


PLAN/Canada, pretends to be a grass roots movement. The website states they are not affiliated with any religious or political entity. However, they are supported by the United Nations and the Green Party. Revenues come from private and corporate donors as well as Government grants. They also partnered with the World Health Organization.

[Lymneterfeiff]

The women are busy in a career, the children are being indoctrinated in state schools and the mass media maintains the job.

Schools create dependent humans, who depend on others to tell them they are 'somebody'.

If the teachers or other children tell them they are not anything then they feel like they are nobody, they want to be in the crowd. Independent and strong confident individuals are created at home by loving parents...such children do not grow up to need anti-depressants, they are not easily manipulated they are not arrogant but they know they have intrinsic self worth because Allah created them and gave them life as a gift.

[Markdogas]

Assalam alikum wa rahmat Allah,

Pawlak, brother I benefit a lot from your posts. Jazak Allah khair for your honstly and keen sense of important issues.

[yurawerj]

A stay-home Muslim woman should

1.Look after the children and raise them to the high standard of morality , courage and love for Islam
2. take care of the elderly relatives living near or inside the house.
3. Keep the house warm and comfortable for the husband who needs an abode of peace after the hard work.
4. Engaged in worshipping Allah during free time-- doing Nafat ( voluntary ) Ibadat

Someone told me its the mans responsibility to look after children in Islam ? which one is it, the mans or the womans or do they share it equally ?

[Frinzer]

Very good post, I agree fully and am completely against women working. May Allah Swt guide this ummah. Ameen.

[interbaoui]

Someone told me its the mans responsibility to look after children in Islam ? which one is it, the mans or the womans or do they share it equally ?

It is the mans responsibility to feed, clothe and house the family...the mothers resposibility to give them love, care and education...though the man must help with these as well.