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Old 05-18-2012, 05:42 AM   #1
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Salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakhatu. I have a question, my wife and I know a very pious sister who is advanced in age...57 whom is unmarried. Her family she lives with who are non-Muslim is hostile towards Islam and desire her to leave. I offered her to come under my protection if she has to make hijrah as she has little to no means and has no where else to go. My question is that is it halal for her to stay with us under my protection or must I take her as a second wife? I have the means to by the way. My wife and I have discussed this even though the possibility of me taking a second wife hurts her feelings she gives her consent and will not do a khula if such a thing were to happen as this would be a necessity. They love eachother as sisters. My wife is blind and crippled so of course it would be a great help if she were to be under my protection. I am not entirely sure on the best way to go about it if she is forced to make hijrah. My intentions are only pure and honorable as I have no lustful desire. Jazak Allah Khair.
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Old 05-18-2012, 06:08 AM   #2
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Salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakhatu. I have a question, my wife and I know a very pious sister who is advanced in age...57 whom is unmarried. Her family she lives with who are non-Muslim is hostile towards Islam and desire her to leave. I offered her to come under my protection if she has to make hijrah as she has little to no means and has no where else to go. My question is that is it halal for her to stay with us under my protection or must I take her as a second wife? I have the means to by the way. My wife and I have discussed this even though the possibility of me taking a second wife hurts her feelings she gives her consent and will not do a khula if such a thing were to happen as this would be a necessity. They love eachother as sisters. My wife is blind and crippled so of course it would be a great help if she were to be under my protection. I am not entirely sure on the best way to go about it if she is forced to make hijrah. My intentions are only pure and honorable as I have no lustful desire. Jazak Allah Khair.


Take her as a second wife because there may come occasions when you and her are alone together in a room and this is haraam. It would also mean she fulfils the sunnah of nikah and she completes half her deen

In all considerations bro, I strongly urge you to marry her. Do not delay, hasten her hijrah and hasten to nikah and good deeds

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Old 05-18-2012, 06:34 AM   #3
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ASWW
May Allah give you the best of both worlds. Aameen!
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Old 05-18-2012, 06:36 AM   #4
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May Allah reward you for such a noble intention and reviving a great sunnah. May He bless your marriage and make your current wife happy and content with your actions. Aameen.
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Old 05-18-2012, 07:55 AM   #5
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May Allah reward you for such a noble intention and reviving a great sunnah. May He bless your marriage and make your current wife happy and content with your actions. Aameen.


Masha'Allah brother AbuHussein, may Allah reward you!
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Old 05-18-2012, 08:00 AM   #6
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Masha'Allah. May Allah reward you and your wife with jannatul-firdous. Such a noble responsibility for you to take on brother, my Allah increased you in rewards and accept your good intentions and your good deeds. I pray that what ever Allah has planned it benefits you all in this life and the next.
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