[maliboia]

Asalam O Alaikum.

I'v got an elder brother who has got waswas problem, he understands everything very well about GHUSL to keep oneself clean, ALCOHOL that its HARAAM and if it touches your clothes the one you are wearing it becomes important to wash it with clean water.

What my brother does is, after maybe he gets ejaculation or waswas that alcohol touched the cloth. Either he throws it into the dustbin or gives out to someone after washing it.

Also he takes really long in washroom or even bathing, he keeps on washing private parts for minutes and minutes (sometimes more than 10, 15mins) maybe he's having in his mind that still i'm not clean and in ISLAM we are taught to stay PAAK (clean).

Because of these WASWAS sometimes he misses his NAMAZ thinks twice thrice to touch QURAN.

ALHAMDULILLAH we are paid good enough to lead our lives without taking debts from people. But this problem of his has led us into very critical situation we've taken loans after loans from people just for silly reasons and now we are stuck don't know how to go about.

He himself wants to bring change in his own life the way he's leading at the moment but there is something disturbing him in his mind and he doesn't share it. Have tried explaining it to him in different ways but the case is same. NO CHANGE

PLEASE PRAY FOR US AND HELP ME WITH SOME DUAS OR SURAH WHICH ARE GOING TO HELP IN THIS SITUATION.

Would really appreciate my muslim brothers and sisters.
Regards.

[maliboia]

Any wazifa or ayah's to pray plz suggest me.. I can't share this problem with anybody its just between me n bro, it really affects us in day to day life as well.. we both want to bring change in our lives but nothing seems to be in right path..

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Any wazifa or ayah's to pray plz suggest me.. I can't share this problem with anybody its just between me n bro, it really affects us in day to day life as well.. we both want to bring change in our lives but nothing seems to be in right path..

There are specific Ayahs in the Quran to be recited for cure of waswaas. They are called Manzil.
Download its pdf copy: http://www.mediafire.com/?vcm1uzjem1gh3zr

[Agehoobionibe]

I am not a doctor but doesn't this seem like obsessive compulsive behavior? Would a behavioral therapist also be able to remedy this situation in addition to Quran?

[vicgirl]

Asalam O Alaikum.

I'v got an elder brother who has got waswas problem, he understands everything very well about GHUSL to keep oneself clean, ALCOHOL that its HARAAM and if it touches your clothes the one you are wearing it becomes important to wash it with clean water.

What my brother does is, after maybe he gets ejaculation or waswas that alcohol touched the cloth. Either he throws it into the dustbin or gives out to someone after washing it.

Also he takes really long in washroom or even bathing, he keeps on washing private parts for minutes and minutes (sometimes more than 10, 15mins) maybe he's having in his mind that still i'm not clean and in ISLAM we are taught to stay PAAK (clean).

Because of these WASWAS sometimes he misses his NAMAZ thinks twice thrice to touch QURAN.

ALHAMDULILLAH we are paid good enough to lead our lives without taking debts from people. But this problem of his has led us into very critical situation we've taken loans after loans from people just for silly reasons and now we are stuck don't know how to go about.

He himself wants to bring change in his own life the way he's leading at the moment but there is something disturbing him in his mind and he doesn't share it. Have tried explaining it to him in different ways but the case is same. NO CHANGE

PLEASE PRAY FOR US AND HELP ME WITH SOME DUAS OR SURAH WHICH ARE GOING TO HELP IN THIS SITUATION.

Would really appreciate my muslim brothers and sisters.
Regards.

You might find it useful to email fatwa@darulihsan.com

http://www.darulihsan.com/index.php?...926&Itemid=252

who may be able to provide you with more help and information since they are scholars

[vicgirl]

Asalam O Alaikum.

I'v got an elder brother who has got waswas problem, he understands everything very well about GHUSL to keep oneself clean, ALCOHOL that its HARAAM and if it touches your clothes the one you are wearing it becomes important to wash it with clean water.

What my brother does is, after maybe he gets ejaculation or waswas that alcohol touched the cloth. Either he throws it into the dustbin or gives out to someone after washing it.

Also he takes really long in washroom or even bathing, he keeps on washing private parts for minutes and minutes (sometimes more than 10, 15mins) maybe he's having in his mind that still i'm not clean and in ISLAM we are taught to stay PAAK (clean).

Because of these WASWAS sometimes he misses his NAMAZ thinks twice thrice to touch QURAN.

ALHAMDULILLAH we are paid good enough to lead our lives without taking debts from people. But this problem of his has led us into very critical situation we've taken loans after loans from people just for silly reasons and now we are stuck don't know how to go about.

He himself wants to bring change in his own life the way he's leading at the moment but there is something disturbing him in his mind and he doesn't share it. Have tried explaining it to him in different ways but the case is same. NO CHANGE

PLEASE PRAY FOR US AND HELP ME WITH SOME DUAS OR SURAH WHICH ARE GOING TO HELP IN THIS SITUATION.

Would really appreciate my muslim brothers and sisters.
Regards.

It seems like you don't have much knowledge about islam and are experiencing WASWAS (whispers of the shaytan), you should say aauthuubillhiminshaythanirajeen and then ignore any thought that come to you.

I would highly recommend you listen this lecture from start to end which will inshAllah help you a lot and also make a lot of dua to Allah and try make sure your praying fajr on time.

http://idealmuslimah.com/component/m...nic-whispers-1

theres are 2 parts to it so please listen to both parts.

[vicgirl]

It seems like you don't have much knowledge about islam and are experiencing WASWAS (whispers of the shaytan), you should say aauthuubillhiminshaythanirajeen and then ignore any thought that come to you.

I would highly recommend you listen this lecture from start to end which will inshAllah help you a lot and also make a lot of dua to Allah and try make sure your praying fajr on time.

http://idealmuslimah.com/component/m...nic-whispers-1

theres to parts to it so please listen to both parts.