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**lasadeykar** · 05-09-2012, 02:13 AM

OK - stupid but genuine question.

I recall one of the dua's for those who have passed away involve asking Allah swt to raise the dead person among the angels and give a home better than his home, a family better than his family and a wife better than his wife. Can we say the same thing about a woman - i.e. a home better than her home, a family better than her family and a husband better than her husband?

**viagracheapest** · 05-09-2012, 09:14 AM

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The son of Sa'd says that my father heard me and I was saying: O Allaah! I ask You of Paradise, its bounties and of its leisure, and such and such. And I seek refuge from Hellfire, its chains, its handcuffs, and such and such. My father said: O my dear son! I have heard Rasulullaah saying: Shortly people will exaggerate in their Du'a. Desist from joining them. If indeed you are given Paradise, then you will be given it along with all the good it contains. And if indeed you are protected from Hell, then you are saved from it and from all the evil it contains. - (Abu Dawud)

**GitaraMoya** · 05-09-2012, 07:20 PM

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The du'a she mentioned is authentic (sahih muslim) and she asked if the same could be recited if the dead one was a female.

**viagracheapest** · 05-09-2012, 08:34 PM

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The du'a she mentioned is authentic (sahih muslim) and she asked if the same could be recited if the dead one is a female.

SF is suffering from UDS (Ulama Deficiency Syndrome) disease. So, great Shaykhs (pseudo) like me are rising.

**sandracuk** · 05-09-2012, 08:44 PM

SF is suffering from UDS (Ulama Deficiency Syndrome) disease. So, great Shaykhs (pseudo) like me are rising.

Dawah to Islam, enjoining Good and forbidding Evil, are traits of BELIEVERS and the best people of mankind!!!

They are not solely the purview of scholars. Imam Shafii (rha) in his ar Risala indicated that a certain level of ilm ( the deen in particular, but in all aspects of life) is required for all people, individually ( fardh ayn). He indicated that each individual Muslim must have knowledge of required matters in the Deen. We non-ulama must engage in lifting up the Ummah to that higher level of knowledge- collective intelligence of Islam if you will. In which masjid do people leave gaps in the front line?

**GitaraMoya** · 05-09-2012, 08:47 PM

SF is suffering from UDS (Ulama Deficiency Syndrome) disease. So, great Shaykhs (pseudo) like me are rising.

We're on the same boat

. Hope you weren't offended by my post bro.

**sandracuk** · 05-09-2012, 08:54 PM

OK - stupid but genuine question.

I recall one of the dua's for those who have passed away involve asking Allah swt to raise the dead person among the angels and give a home better than his home, a family better than his family and a wife better than his wife. Can we say the same thing about a woman - i.e. a home better than her home, a family better than her family and a husband better than her husband?

It is more appropriate to follow the Hukm Sharii in terms of Duah. In that sense, a man can have more than one wife at one time according to what Allah has commanded, whereas Allah did NOT command that a woman can have more than one husband at one time.

As in all matters of the Deen, we follow the original rule of the Divine Law unless it specifically grants us variation.

And Allah knows best.

**viagracheapest** · 05-09-2012, 10:59 PM

OK - stupid but genuine question.

I recall one of the dua's for those who have passed away involve asking Allah swt to raise the dead person among the angels and give a home better than his home, a family better than his family and a wife better than his wife. Can we say the same thing about a woman - i.e. a home better than her home, a family better than her family and a husband better than her husband?

I've asked your query to a Mufti and also have shown the Arabic Du'a mentioned by the brother.

Mufti Sahab has said- Yes, you can.

**PharmACT** · 05-10-2012, 03:03 AM

SF is suffering from UDS (Ulama Deficiency Syndrome) disease. So, great Shaykhs (pseudo) like me are rising.

UDS

Good one!!

**PharmACT** · 05-10-2012, 03:04 AM

SF is suffering from UDS (Ulama Deficiency Syndrome) disease. So, great Shaykhs (pseudo) like me are rising.

One another forum I visit there is a brother who's handle is fake shaykh. I roll with laughter each time I see it.

05-09-2012, 02:13 AM	#1
lasadeykar Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 571 Senior Member	Silly but sincere question OK - stupid but genuine question. I recall one of the dua's for those who have passed away involve asking Allah swt to raise the dead person among the angels and give a home better than his home, a family better than his family and a wife better than his wife. Can we say the same thing about a woman - i.e. a home better than her home, a family better than her family and a husband better than her husband? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-09-2012, 09:14 AM	#2
viagracheapest Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 495 Senior Member	[Edit] The son of Sa'd says that my father heard me and I was saying: O Allaah! I ask You of Paradise, its bounties and of its leisure, and such and such. And I seek refuge from Hellfire, its chains, its handcuffs, and such and such. My father said: O my dear son! I have heard Rasulullaah saying: Shortly people will exaggerate in their Du'a. Desist from joining them. If indeed you are given Paradise, then you will be given it along with all the good it contains. And if indeed you are protected from Hell, then you are saved from it and from all the evil it contains. - (Abu Dawud) Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-09-2012, 07:20 PM	#3
GitaraMoya Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 538 Senior Member	, The du'a she mentioned is authentic (sahih muslim) and she asked if the same could be recited if the dead one was a female. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-09-2012, 08:34 PM	#4
viagracheapest Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 495 Senior Member	, The du'a she mentioned is authentic (sahih muslim) and she asked if the same could be recited if the dead one is a female. SF is suffering from UDS (Ulama Deficiency Syndrome) disease. So, great Shaykhs (pseudo) like me are rising. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-09-2012, 08:44 PM	#5
sandracuk Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 674 Senior Member	SF is suffering from UDS (Ulama Deficiency Syndrome) disease. So, great Shaykhs (pseudo) like me are rising. Dawah to Islam, enjoining Good and forbidding Evil, are traits of BELIEVERS and the best people of mankind!!! They are not solely the purview of scholars. Imam Shafii (rha) in his ar Risala indicated that a certain level of ilm ( the deen in particular, but in all aspects of life) is required for all people, individually ( fardh ayn). He indicated that each individual Muslim must have knowledge of required matters in the Deen. We non-ulama must engage in lifting up the Ummah to that higher level of knowledge- collective intelligence of Islam if you will. In which masjid do people leave gaps in the front line? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-09-2012, 08:47 PM	#6
GitaraMoya Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 538 Senior Member	SF is suffering from UDS (Ulama Deficiency Syndrome) disease. So, great Shaykhs (pseudo) like me are rising. We're on the same boat . Hope you weren't offended by my post bro. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-09-2012, 08:54 PM	#7
sandracuk Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 674 Senior Member	OK - stupid but genuine question. I recall one of the dua's for those who have passed away involve asking Allah swt to raise the dead person among the angels and give a home better than his home, a family better than his family and a wife better than his wife. Can we say the same thing about a woman - i.e. a home better than her home, a family better than her family and a husband better than her husband? It is more appropriate to follow the Hukm Sharii in terms of Duah. In that sense, a man can have more than one wife at one time according to what Allah has commanded, whereas Allah did NOT command that a woman can have more than one husband at one time. As in all matters of the Deen, we follow the original rule of the Divine Law unless it specifically grants us variation. And Allah knows best. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-09-2012, 10:59 PM	#8
viagracheapest Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 495 Senior Member	OK - stupid but genuine question. I recall one of the dua's for those who have passed away involve asking Allah swt to raise the dead person among the angels and give a home better than his home, a family better than his family and a wife better than his wife. Can we say the same thing about a woman - i.e. a home better than her home, a family better than her family and a husband better than her husband? I've asked your query to a Mufti and also have shown the Arabic Du'a mentioned by the brother. Mufti Sahab has said- Yes, you can. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-10-2012, 03:03 AM	#9
PharmACT Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 376 Senior Member	SF is suffering from UDS (Ulama Deficiency Syndrome) disease. So, great Shaykhs (pseudo) like me are rising. UDS Good one!! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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05-10-2012, 03:04 AM	#10
PharmACT Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 376 Senior Member	SF is suffering from UDS (Ulama Deficiency Syndrome) disease. So, great Shaykhs (pseudo) like me are rising. One another forum I visit there is a brother who's handle is fake shaykh. I roll with laughter each time I see it. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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