[GoveMoony]

In life we some times come across a situation where a problem can not be solved by any means.We use our best efforts without success,we ask friends for help but to no avail,we do wazaif,Amaliyat etc,but they don,t seem to work,we make dua,......but apparently that is not answerd too.....!
It crosses our mind "Has Allah left us alone?"
No,certainly not,instead you are the chosen one.Allah wants you to be like a broken vassel.Every desire of yours must be rejected,every intantion you make must fail,every objective must remain unfulfilled.......!
You are taught to learn "Tafweez"------to leave every thing to Allah swt. "Your will shall be done o,my lord,not mine".Once this purpose is achieved,you become like a dead body,free from all desires,you just wait and watch what destiny unfolds in front of you, you learn to observe your self as a third person,and you get permanent relief from the pain which desires and wishes brings.Then you bow to the wishes of Allah swt,and enter eternal peace !

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[Kuncher]

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for the advice but concerning You are taught to learn "Tafweez"------to leave every thing to Allah swt. "Your will shall be done o,my lord,not mine".Once this purpose is achieved,you become like a dead body,free from all desires,you just wait and watch what destiny unfolds in front of you, you learn to observe your self as a third person,and you get permanent relief from the pain which desires and wishes brings.Then you bow to the wishes of Allah swt,and enter eternal peace ! Does this mean we should not be making du'a or without any conviction?

[GoveMoony]

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for the advice but concerning
Does this mean we should not be making du'a or without any conviction?

Certainly not Brother,'We should/ must make dua,but leave the outcome of that dua to Allah swt,and gladly accept whatever has been decided for us.Dua is a big act of ibadat itself,clearly implying that 1) We do believe in Allah swt (2) We are convinced that Allah swt is THE ONLY ONE who can take care of our problems,and Allah swt does NOT share his authority with any one (3) That He is HAKIM (the ruler) and HAKEEM (with absolute wisdom).Being a HAKIM He has every authority to do what He wants...and as a HAKEEM, He does every thing according to hikma.
In short tafweez means,you make dua,but accept the outcome of that dua like a slave,who remains depended on/and faithful to his Master,come what may.
Wassalam

[Kuncher]

akhy may Allah enable us to reach such a stage...