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Old 04-25-2012, 09:54 AM   #1
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Default is it haram for a group of Muslim girl to tell another man that they love him
I know these group Muslim girls they ask me that do I have a Girlfriend and I said no and then they said we all love you
is it haram what they said?
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Old 04-25-2012, 10:01 AM   #2
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Salaam. tell them lets keep it halal and lets get married
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Old 04-25-2012, 10:07 AM   #3
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??????????? are you sure its not a prank because thats realy rare
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Old 04-25-2012, 12:43 PM   #4
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May Allah protect you and me and all of us from fitan. Ameen. My advice is to run away from them! By doing so, Allah SWT will grant you a much better partner .
Brother, why did you chose that username for yourself?
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Old 04-25-2012, 05:43 PM   #5
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its a prank mate, ignore them or laugh it off
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Old 04-26-2012, 03:17 AM   #6
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there no such thing as prank seriously brothers all I want is a answer is it haram or not because love is a strong word
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Old 04-26-2012, 05:02 AM   #7
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What's with your name? I don't get it, peace upon Allah even though he is dependant upon nothing and there is no power or might except with Him?
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Old 04-26-2012, 06:32 AM   #8
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Your user name reminded me of the following hadith. You should change it .

It is authentically reported on the authority of Ibn Mas'ood (Radhi Allaahu Anhu) that he said: "Whenever we prayed behind the Prophet , we used to recite: "As-Salaam (Peace) be upon Allah from His slaves and As-Salaam be upon so-and-so and so-and-so, until the Prophet told us: "Do not say: "As-Salaam be upon Allah ," for verily, He is As-Salaam." 1

Ibn Mas'ood (Radhi Allaahu Anhu) informs us that when he and the other Companions prayed with the Messenger of Allah , they used to invoke Allah's Peace and Blessings upon Allah and then upon a number of people during tashahhud (sitting). But then he forbade them from doing so, informing them that As-Salaam is one of Allah's Names, therefore it is not acceptable that they should invoke Allah's Peace and Blessings upon Himself, for He is not in need of peace or blessings rather He is the Owner and Source of all peace and blessings.
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Old 04-26-2012, 02:26 PM   #9
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I know these group Muslim girls they ask me that do I have a Girlfriend and I said no and then they said we all love you
is it haram what they said?
They are going to make a fool of you. Run while you still have your dignity.
By the way, the natural corollary of "do i have a girlfriend", followed by "we all love you" is "we will all become your girlfriends" which means, "we will all make a big joke of you".
So if your question is not made up (as it seems to be), then my advice is the same as of the other brothers......RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!
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Old 04-26-2012, 10:34 PM   #10
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They are going to make a fool of you. Run while you still have your dignity.
By the way, the natural corollary of "do i have a girlfriend", followed by "we all love you" is "we will all become your girlfriends" which means, "we will all make a big joke of you".
So if your question is not made up (as it seems to be), then my advice is the same as of the other brothers......RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!
or choose four of the best ones and marry them.
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Old 04-26-2012, 11:35 PM   #11
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I know these group Muslim girls they ask me that do I have a Girlfriend and I said no and then they said we all love you
is it haram what they said?


I guess it would depend on their intention. If they've said it to imply that you are a a good, trustworthy, pious brother who has control over his nafs and they all love you for that, then I don't see anything haram about that at all. If they've said it to imply that each are interested in being your girlfriend, then what they've said may not be haram (though it would be inappropriate) but entering into an actual relationship would be.

You should ask an imam about this.

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Old 04-26-2012, 11:44 PM   #12
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Love is gone from this World - only lust remains - Fake Love is going on - this modern age's relationship between boy and girl is not even pure love - its just lust -

these girls dont love you - its only just lust
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Old 04-27-2012, 06:43 AM   #13
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or choose four of the best ones and marry them.
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Old 04-27-2012, 06:47 AM   #14
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there no such thing as prank seriously brothers all I want is a answer is it haram or not because love is a strong word
bro it happens during teenage years, love is not a strong word rather its only a 4 letter word so you shouldnt worry much tbh
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Old 04-27-2012, 09:18 AM   #15
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Love is gone from this World - only lust remains - Fake Love is going on - this modern age's relationship between boy and girl is not even pure love - its just lust -

these girls dont love you - its only just lust
Smart words, today people think they are in love and they cant stop thinking about the person, thats not love thats infatuation. Sadly people wont listen and now in the usa 50 PERCENT of mariges end up in divorce lets all wish that that will never happen to us and that Allah will give us the right person.
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Old 04-27-2012, 12:05 PM   #16
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Did those girls offered this hilarious proposal on April 1?
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Old 04-27-2012, 04:50 PM   #17
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It sounds like a prank to me. I find it hard to believe that four girls will say that they love you all at the same time, without them fighting/arguing about it.

Indeed love is a strong word, but most of the time those who use it don't sincerely mean it. I've heard little pip-squeak School boys/girl say to each other 'I love you'. I just laugh at them. Allah guide us.
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Old 04-28-2012, 03:00 AM   #18
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this is of topic whats up with you username son of the crazy?
It sounds like a prank to me. I find it hard to believe that four girls will say that they love you all at the same time, without them fighting/arguing about it.

Indeed love is a strong word, but most of the time those who use it don't sincerely mean it. I've heard little pip-squeak School boys/girl say to each other 'I love you'. I just laugh at them. Allah guide us.
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Old 04-28-2012, 04:03 AM   #19
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this is of topic whats up with you username son of the crazy?
Salam 'Aleykum,

Some ancient Arab names would sound very weird for us today, so if you read Hadiths then "ibn al-Majnoun" isn't that weird trust me

example:
عاصم بن كليب بن شهاب ابن المجنون الجرمى

'Assim bin Kuleib bin Shihhab ibn al-Majnoun al-Jurami al-Kufi.

al-Mezzi said: Abu Bakr al-Athram said: from Ahmad bin Hanbal: No harm in his Hadith.
and Ahmad bin Sa'ad bin abi Mariam said: from Yahya bin Ma'een: Thiqah(reliable).
and so did al-Nasai.
and abu Hatim said: Good.
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Old 04-28-2012, 06:51 AM   #20
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Salaamu alaiykum
This kind of thing is what most brothers are afraid of, especially those who are really sensitive towards girls. They end up either committing the worst, or hastingly choosing a marriage partner who will be no good to them. May Allah protect us from that. Me personally, I'm a scary guy. If any girl would do that to me, I would make her the laughing stock of the whole world, so that no one would go after her after that, and probably crush her self respect and honour permanantly. Know who you're playing with girls...
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