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Old 04-24-2012, 06:23 AM   #1
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In a marriage proposal - If a guy and girl like each other for the pleasure of Allah. But there are some concerns in this duniya getting married.

Can the guy tell to girl that "Insha Allah, we will meet in Jannah"?
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Old 04-24-2012, 07:03 AM   #2
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No. No he cannot. Because what if it is Allah's will that he does not get married to her? Choosing instead a different (a better one!) partner for him? Is he, the guy, still to wish to meet her in Jannah?

It would be better for him to say: "Insha'Allah, we will get married".
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Old 04-24-2012, 07:30 AM   #3
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In a marriage proposal - If a guy and girl like each other for the pleasure of Allah. But there are some concerns in this duniya getting married. Can the guy tell to girl that "Insha Allah, we will meet in Jannah"?
you think you won't fall in love with others if you don't marry each other?

Unless there is something impossible between you, if you love each other then its probably best to find a halal way to sort out the obstacles and get married.

If its to do with family matters or background or all sorts of things most of these are things that can be sorted out InshaAllah, why not just give it a try?

In life though we have to remember its good to avoid non-mahrams so these problems don't arise, yes?
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Old 04-25-2012, 12:16 AM   #4
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Insha Allah, good advice bro.


i ll take this
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Old 04-25-2012, 02:54 AM   #5
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This is why we have to safeguard our eyes.....or else it will become a fitna
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Old 04-25-2012, 03:40 AM   #6
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In a marriage proposal - If a guy and girl like each other for the pleasure of Allah. But there are some concerns in this duniya getting married.

Can the guy tell to girl that "Insha Allah, we will meet in Jannah"?
Is this for yourself? If so then you may wanna consider marrying. But obviously we do not know your situation so allhuallam
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Old 04-25-2012, 05:31 AM   #7
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In a marriage proposal - If a guy and girl like each other for the pleasure of Allah. But there are some concerns in this duniya getting married.

Can the guy tell to girl that "Insha Allah, we will meet in Jannah"?


They should say "Insha Allah, we will get married," then if they do get married, then they should say, "Insha Allah, we will meet in Jannah."
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