[RagonaCon]

Slam, Please give me some suggestion my father is angry with me. what is do. There is no any reason. But i Feel he is angry with me.

[BeaseHoca]

Firstly you should try to practice Shari'ah in its full form.. Hearts lie within the control of Allah .. So if one will please Him, then He usually makes other people to be more respectful to the Deen practicing person.. However even in that case some people persist to disturb and even malign a Deeni person.. In such a situation, patience should be observed.. Even the Ambiyaa' (Alaihimussalaam), including our Nabi (who had the best of etiquette and Ikhlaaq) was constantly attacked by Kuffar and Munafiqeen (La'natullahi alaikum).. So keeping the mode of conduct of such pious people on mind, we should observe Sabr and still try to reply them with good.. However, in such cases, one's heart feels satisfaction over his/her own conduct.. Since the person knows that i am not doing anything wrong to feel guilty upon.. These people are disturbing me out of ignorance.. So may Allah guide them..

As for your specific case, try to read that what are the rights given to a father in Islam.. and see if there are any shortcomings from your side.. you may also consult some qualified Mufti or Shaykh for any particular issue..

Also, our Shaykh, Hazrat Maulana Hakeem Muhammad Akhtar Sahib damatbarakatuhum advises us to read following Names of Allah on the person who seems to get angry, or is disturbing one, unnecessarily :
"Ya Subboohu Ya Quddoossu Ya Ghafooru Ya Wadoodu"
Inshaa Allah, upon reciting these names, the heart of the other person will get moulded towards the reciter..

[shiciapsisy]

Slam, Please give me some suggestion my father is angry with me. what is do. There is no any reason. But i Feel he is angry with me.

post number 2 is very insightful.

also you may consider the following...


Maybe your father is just angry about something else not related to you.

Maybe your father just appears angry for some reason.

Maybe it is just something you are imagining.


All you can do is go and ask him,

maybe he will tell you something that you have done or are doing that you hadn't realized

- if he does you can change it or apologize for it InshaAllah.


Otherwise just trust in Allah and be a good Muslima and a good daughter generally.

[ferelrossi]

Slam, Please give me some suggestion my father is angry with me. what is do. There is no any reason. But i Feel he is angry with me.

ASWW
Buy him chocolates (and "istop texting boys"- sorry just a joke)

[Blahhhshsh]

Slam, Please give me some suggestion my father is angry with me. what is do. There is no any reason. But i Feel he is angry with me.

Why don't you just go and ask him...? if he says ''nothing'' don't force him 2 tell you, just write him a sweet note telling him how much his happiness means to u and how much u love him and leave it under his pillow at night.

It always works...

he's sure to wake up happy with you!