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Old 04-11-2012, 12:15 AM   #1
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Default Attention you four I have hurt on SF!





I’m so sorry. Really, I’m really so so so so sorry. I would mention your names but that wouldn’t seem very wise plus, I think you know who you are.

Today, I went out and bought my favorite chocolate bars for you four. There right in front of me now. Tomorrow, I plan on giving them to the street kids ta’aala.

So don’t be angry with me rather love me for Allah’s SWT sake.
Thank you.
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Old 04-11-2012, 12:24 AM   #2
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Sister, can you buy a chocolate bar for me too? Not because I felt hurt by you but because I like the gesture of putting smiles on the faces of little children... where I live, it isn't that easy to hand out candy to kids unless it is a special 'holiday' and even then, parents are cautious and suspicious.

Please throw in a chocolate bar for me... in fact, I'd appreciate it if you would do so once a month until August (or longer ). I am growing some tomato plants here. When the fruits ripen (insha'Allah by late August, early September), I plan to give a portion of the fruits to International Muslim university students at our small university here... I'd like to exchange sadaqa by donating the fruit of 1 plant for you. Would that work for you? Not that we have to do an exchange, it's just nice to know that we can help each other reach others far away with small gestures.

I love you for the sake of Allah (SWT). Hugs.
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Old 04-11-2012, 01:37 AM   #3
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what a beautiful gesture, masha'allah

I think to help myself let go of some pain and hurt I may give some money in charity for those ppl that I think have hurt me ... Jazak'allah sister, your such an inspiration with your unique ideas.
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Old 04-11-2012, 01:57 AM   #4
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What does it mean?
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Old 04-11-2012, 02:40 AM   #5
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Ay why do u care about putting smile on people face.....why dont u care about putting a smile on allah face.......................................i have on question i hav so many sins..........
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Old 04-11-2012, 02:48 AM   #6
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^ ^

Oh snap, brother. You really gotta change that sentence. Go for the phrase, "try to please Allah"
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Old 04-11-2012, 02:59 AM   #7
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Ay why do u care about putting smile on people face.....why dont u care about putting a smile on allah face.......................................i have on question i hav so many sins..........
Putting a smile on people's faces is a way to please Allah if done with the correct intention.
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Old 04-11-2012, 03:23 AM   #8
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Allah (SWT) knows - with the intention to please Him. May Allah (SWT) accept it.

Alhamdulillah for small acts of kindness and mercy.
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Old 04-11-2012, 03:28 AM   #9
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Maybe the child who receives it needs that kindness and Allah (SWT) delivers Hope through a small chocolate bar. We don't know, only Allah (SWT) knows. Maybe the child is at a breaking point and that little bar of chocolate takes his spirits out of the dark. We don't know, only Allah (SWT).

It is His Mercy and Kindness and the smile is an acknowledgment of that. What can be more beautiful than a smile for Allah's (SWT) sake?
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Old 04-11-2012, 04:34 AM   #10
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Wow im so dumb i forgot if u please a kid then u are pleasing allah becuz allah lovees that............i fergot..................hmmmmmmmmmmm,,,,,,,,,,,,,, ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, s.i.n.s
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Old 04-11-2012, 04:36 AM   #11
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HershYes rox my sox ^.^............................................... .....
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Old 04-11-2012, 04:47 AM   #12
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good gesture . To make another muslim smile is sadqah,to bring happiness to another Muslim is sadqah.

@ brother waqqas listen to this lecture there is a beautiful hadith in one of the parts about making another Muslim happy .

*edit * the hadith is in part 3 of the vid from 3:40 such a beautiful hadith . May Allah enable us to assist others and bring happiness into the lives of others aameen
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Old 04-11-2012, 05:16 AM   #13
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I think its more than just pleasing a child (not that is a bad thing). She feels she has hurt someone. Not only come here and apologise, she will willing to give gift on their behalf. A great gesture indeed.

Sometimes for own our spiritual growth we have to go the extra mile. Instead of merely asking for forgiveness, going a step further and give charity on behalf of the people that you've hurt. Also, I've realised perhaps giving charity for people that have hurt you may help your spiritual growth aswell

(sorry, I'm really tired right now, can't seem to put my thoughts into words)
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Old 04-11-2012, 07:32 AM   #14
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I think its more than just pleasing a child (not that is a bad thing). She feels she has hurt someone. Not only come here and apologise, she will willing to give gift on their behalf. A great gesture indeed.

Sometimes for own our spiritual growth we have to go the extra mile. Instead of merely asking for forgiveness, going a step further and give charity on behalf of the people that you've hurt. Also, I've realised perhaps giving charity for people that have hurt you may help your spiritual growth aswell

(sorry, I'm really tired right now, can't seem to put my thoughts into words)
Yes, I agree.

It is like a domino effect of good: Allah (SWT) opens a person's heart to humility; the person is then able to step outside of themselves, is humbled and seeks forgiveness from Allah (SWT); the person then seeks forgiveness from the person who may have been hurt; the person who was (or may have been) wronged receives an apology and an opportunity to exercise forgiveness; chocolate bars are purchased as sadaqa and the money paid for them serves the shop-owner and their family; the chocolate bars are then distributed as sadaqa and bring joy to some children; by the Grace and Mercy of Allah (SWT), the person who was humbled receives the children's smiles... who knows, only Allah (SWT) knows... perhaps good ripples continue to flow on through the children's joy, to their families etc. etc. SubhanAllah!

Sister HH, here's a nasheed for you.
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to you all. Walhamdililaah

@ Sister Acacia:
Of course I will insha Allah ta’aala! And I love you too and all of you for the sake of Allah ta’aala. May Allah SWT unite our hearts always. Ameen.

@ Sister Haya:
..Also, I've realised perhaps giving charity for people that have hurt you may help your spiritual growth aswell Very beautiful. Thanks a lot

@ Sister Sudoku:
...if done with the correct intention. I pray so. Thanks.

@ Sister Quraatulain
for the vid.

Insha Allah ta'ala the positive responses so far are a sign the four individuals have forgiven their sister . May Allah SWT bless you all greatly. Ameen.

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Old 04-11-2012, 02:40 PM   #16
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I got motivated by this thread . I will buy one of those big sized candy bags for the street children . For Allah's sake.

Niyah will be reward for all the people I have hurt and also make those children happy .


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Old 04-11-2012, 03:42 PM   #17
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May allah bless u and spread peace upon all of us ameen.






I’m so sorry. Really, i’m really so so so so sorry. I would mention your names but that wouldn’t seem very wise plus, i think you know who you are.

Today, i went out and bought my favorite chocolate bars for you four. There right in front of me now. Tomorrow, i plan on giving them to the street kids Ta’aala.

So don’t be angry with me rather love me for allah’s swt sake.
Thank you.
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Old 04-13-2012, 10:32 AM   #18
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I’m so sorry. Really, I’m really so so so so sorry. I would mention your names but that wouldn’t seem very wise plus, I think you know who you are.

Today, I went out and bought my favorite chocolate bars for you four. There right in front of me now. Tomorrow, I plan on giving them to the street kids ta’aala.

So don’t be angry with me rather love me for Allah’s SWT sake.
Thank you.
السلام عليكم
This can come only from a heart that has child like simplicity. I am sure those you think you have hurt, must be smililing themselves. Innocent gesture, profound effect! Masha Allah.
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Old 04-13-2012, 02:08 PM   #19
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What is this thread all about ?? Not sure why was it triggered. Any ideas ?
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Old 04-13-2012, 02:10 PM   #20
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What is this thread all about ?? Not sure why was it triggered. Any ideas ?
Supernova explosion in Andromeda galaxy.
I too have nooo idea.
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