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Old 04-02-2012, 01:27 AM   #1
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Default please remember an ill sister in your duas...
... , and unfortunately, I am that ill sister
I am currently in hospital, trying my best to recover from anorexia. It's an uphill battle but ma sha Allah I still have the strength to pray my five namaz and I am wearing my hijab when I am away from the unit. I am also reading half to a full surah of the Qur'an most nights.

I am in the process of regaining weight and learning how to eat healthily again, which I know will be a hard concept to grasp for many.... please remember me in your du'as brothers and sisters, insha'Allah the Most High will continue to give me the strength to continue on this path so I can nourish the body that He has given me. I feel so guilty that I have starved my body for so long and have reached a very low weight, to the point where I was on a general ward sleeping with a heart rate of 33 bpm, and I have every wish in the world to recover from this horrible eating disorder. I am trying my best to comply with my diet plan and Fortisip replacements in order to avoid the NG tube again. Life has been incredibly tough for me in the last few years and several horrible events have happened, that al-hamdulillah with His help I have come through with time, and insha'Allah I will come through this soon, too.


Jazak Allah khair, and wishing you all the best of health and imaan,
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Old 04-02-2012, 01:30 AM   #2
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May ALLAH cure you by Waseela of His Ism e AAzam , By Waseela of Rasul Pak (S.A.W.W) , by Waseela of Ahle Bait (R) , by Waseela of Sahaaba Karaam (R) by waseela of Awlia ALLAH (r) , by waseela of all good deeds you have performed in life AAMEEN
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Old 04-02-2012, 01:35 AM   #3
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Oh sister, this post really broke my heart May Allah (SWT) guide you through to strength, health and wellbeing and may He reward you for your courage, patience and perseverance. sister, at such a young age, it seems you've had to overcome a number of obstacles. May Allah (SWT) make it easy for you. Ameen.

To you: a big hug for support, a smile to cheer you up and love for Allah's (SWT) sake.

Hang in there, insha'Allah.
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Old 04-02-2012, 02:16 AM   #4
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Insha-Allah you will regain your strength and live to a ripe old age bringing happiness and joy to everyone you meet in your life. Ameen
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Old 04-02-2012, 02:25 AM   #5
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ameen
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Old 04-02-2012, 02:56 AM   #6
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May Allah surround you with His mercy and healing.Ameen
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Old 04-02-2012, 02:57 AM   #7
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May ALLAH swt bestows upon you health and strengthen your deen.
Please make plenty of du'as as Ive heard that the du'a (supplication to ALLAH) of the sick is very much acceptable by ALLAH.
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Old 04-02-2012, 06:19 AM   #8
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Ameen to all the du`as.

May Allah cure you of your sickness and make it a means for you to be forgiven, and may He grant you Jannah. Ameen
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Old 04-02-2012, 07:39 AM   #9
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I swear by Allah this is one truly remarkable sister and urge people to pray for her well-being ;

http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/show...hlight=convert

May Allah cure you from your illness and grant you the best of paradise. Ameen
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Old 04-02-2012, 08:21 AM   #10
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Oh sister, I had read a comment or a thread of your's in the past and was very happy for you. I just looked at the thread brother Intrepid linked and I see you've had some struggles related to your family.

I don't mean to pry but if your family is not Muslim, does your issue with food have anything to do with not wanting to eat anything prepared at home unless it is prepared with halal products? (The question isn't meant to be answered here, publicly. If, however, it is the case, I would strongly urge you to seek guidance and support from the Muslims in your area, including scholars and other knowledgeable people to help you with this. Actually, regardless, you really should get some support from Muslims.)

That said, I don't know how much of a Muslim community you have around you or if you are even able/allowed to access them for support? Are there any sisters from the Muslim community in your area who are aware of your situation? Are they able to help you with regards to food and other issues - even just for moral support? (Again, this isn't meant to be answered here publicly. Just for you to consider).

Sister, I am worried about your health. I will be praying to Allah (SWT) for your health and wellbeing but also that He sends you strength through community too.
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Old 04-02-2012, 09:28 AM   #11
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Will certainly be making duas
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Old 04-02-2012, 11:57 AM   #12
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Assalamualaikum dear sister,

Please stay strong inshaAllah you will recover very soon. I know it is very easy for one who is not in the specific hardship to tell the other "stay strong" but please try your best and be strong and have reliance on Allah(swt)
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Old 04-02-2012, 12:17 PM   #13
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sister,

Very touching post. Alhamdulillah, Allah in His infinite mercy has already put you on the road to recovery from your eating disorder. Now all you have to do is follow the doctors' instructions and Insha'Allah you will be good to go.

I know, it's not "all" you have to do, as it is way easier said than done. I have known some people who suffered from eating disorders and I have some idea of how hard it can get, and how hard it can be to be "normal" again, even if all the tools and support to become 'normal' are right in front of you.

Like I said, the fact that Allah has put you in a situation at the hospital where you can Insha'Allah make a consistent recovery, this already puts you ahead of most who suffer from such disorders, as they don't even get to this point.

At such a young age, Masha'Allah you are already smarter than most of us "old" people as you say you are making sure to guard your salat 5 times daily, engaged in Zikr, reciting the Qur'an every night and guarding your hijab. That's pretty much all you need along with lots of dua, Insha'Allah.

May Allah give you 100% good health and bless you and your family with all that is good in this life and in the hereafter. Ameen.



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Old 04-02-2012, 12:20 PM   #14
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... , and unfortunately, I am that ill sister
I am currently in hospital, trying my best to recover from anorexia. It's an uphill battle but ma sha Allah I still have the strength to pray my five namaz and I am wearing my hijab when I am away from the unit. I am also reading half to a full surah of the Qur'an most nights.

I am in the process of regaining weight and learning how to eat healthily again, which I know will be a hard concept to grasp for many.... please remember me in your du'as brothers and sisters, insha'Allah the Most High will continue to give me the strength to continue on this path so I can nourish the body that He has given me. I feel so guilty that I have starved my body for so long and have reached a very low weight, to the point where I was on a general ward sleeping with a heart rate of 33 bpm, and I have every wish in the world to recover from this horrible eating disorder. I am trying my best to comply with my diet plan and Fortisip replacements in order to avoid the NG tube again. Life has been incredibly tough for me in the last few years and several horrible events have happened, that al-hamdulillah with His help I have come through with time, and insha'Allah I will come through this soon, too.


Jazak Allah khair, and wishing you all the best of health and imaan,
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you will regain your good health. No need to panic and scare yourself.

I would suggest you get in touch with a local scholar and put your health disorder in front of him. Don't exert too much in voluntary acts. Inform the scholar of your conditions and act accordingly.

We pray that Allah grants you a speedy and a good recovery. Please do remember us and the whole Ummah in your duas
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Old 04-02-2012, 12:23 PM   #15
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One more thing which I left out sister, recite Surah Fatiha abundantly throughout the day, as the Prophet has said that it is a cure from every illness.

Please remember in your duas.



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