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03-10-2012, 01:27 AM | #2 |
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I am a new Muslim sister. I'm sorry, I don't know anything about Shia Islam. I was told that Aisha and Hafsa were the best example of wives getting along with each other. Can you name a better example? I'm looking for ahadith of wives of the Prophet and how they managed their jealousy or how they loved each other as sisters.
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03-10-2012, 02:24 AM | #4 |
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What are the best hadith stories that show the friendship and trust between Aisha and Hafsa (may Allah be pleased with them)? How they did not have jealousy? These days its harder to find that between women but there are still co-wives that love and respect easch other.Not everybody is acting a fool. |
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03-10-2012, 02:50 AM | #5 |
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I am a new Muslim sister. I'm sorry, I don't know anything about Shia Islam. I was told that Aisha and Hafsa were the best example of wives getting along with each other. Can you name a better example? I'm looking for ahadith of wives of the Prophet and how they managed their jealousy or how they loved each other as sisters. I think all women have a certain extent of jealousy, at least a little, it's only natural. 'Aisha (ra) and Hafsa (ra) both their fathers were best friends, and they were of a similar age (almost), they were very close and they used to agree often and each would tell the other her secrets. That's the basic knowledge I have as I didn't look into this much. |
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03-10-2012, 04:58 PM | #7 |
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I am a new Muslim sister. I'm sorry, I don't know anything about Shia Islam. I was told that Aisha and Hafsa were the best example of wives getting along with each other. Can you name a better example? I'm looking for ahadith of wives of the Prophet and how they managed their jealousy or how they loved each other as sisters. First we must see what the Mashaikh of Tasawwuf have said jelousy is defined as and then the matter will be clear before us. |
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03-10-2012, 05:05 PM | #8 |
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The Mashaikh of Tasawwuf have stated that jealousy is when a person is upset with the success of another and wishes for the others blessing to end. These mashaikh have broken it further down to degrees - the 1st degree being a natural jelousy. This level of jelousy they have deemed to be excused on man, not sinful. Only when the person acts on jelousy then it is a sin.
Jelousy is based upon takabbur, arrogance, and ghuroor, falsehood. It is impossible for us to even entertain that the mothers of the believers (ra) had any of these evil qualities in them. There is a difference between "I wish he leaves her" and "I wish I could spend more time with him." |
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03-10-2012, 06:17 PM | #9 |
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The Mashaikh of Tasawwuf have stated that jealousy is when a person is upset with the success of another and wishes for the others blessing to end. These mashaikh have broken it further down to degrees - the 1st degree being a natural jelousy. This level of jelousy they have deemed to be excused on man, not sinful. Only when the person acts on jelousy then it is a sin. |
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