[jakitula]

Is it ok to look at a girl and speak with her just to get information about her if shes the one ?

Im asking if someone wants a serious relationship that leads into a marriage, is it haram ?

[papadopul]

Let your sister or mom do the investigations. You must meet her, ofcourse with a Meharam, before you get married to her.

[jakitula]

Lets say my sister or mom cant do that, what are my choices, and what about the answer of the OP

[ClaudeMarkus]

Lets say my sister or mom cant do that, what are my choices, and what about the answer of the OP

"Meet with her privately. Take her to a restaurant or a park and discuss about yourselves." Are you expecting this type of replies?

[ClaudeMarkus]

And listen, although you are apparently matured by your age but after reading your posts I am quite sure that you are not grown enough to marry. At first attain mental maturity and then think about marriage.

[rolex-buy]

"Meet with her privately. Take her to a restaurant or a park and discuss about yourselves." Are you expecting this type of replies?

LOL good use of sarcasm. For once some1 has used sarcasm and it actually worked nicely.

[Kennypor]

Im asking if someone wants a serious relationship that leads into a marriage, is it haram ?

bro.
Such 'dating' and 'relationships' are haram in Islam. Don't worry about finding your spouse. Trust in Allah and make Dua. InshaAllah you will get a good partner through halal means.

[ClaudeMarkus]

LOL good use of sarcasm. For once some1 has used sarcasm and it actually worked nicely.

, bro. Where are your Taliban stuffs? I appreciate those posts.