[AnthonyKing]

Sister do not vent against him. Simply seek an imam and have the imam tell him that your now ex-husband has divorced you and make preparations to leave. Also, the kids are his responsibility and he must provide for them, not you. If anything, he is going to have a harder time getting married than you as he has 4 kids from a previous marriage and his next wife will have to help him out when the kids are with him.

[SallythePearl]

this is what i have to do. have a nice weekend everyone. wonder why his fam didnt tell me that we was divorced couse they knew about all the time he said it as i told theme couse of being scared of staying in haram relationship.

[tretcheenia]

this is what i have to do. have a nice weekend everyone. wonder why his fam didnt tell me that we was divorced couse they knew about all the time he said it as i told theme couse of being scared of staying in haram relationship.

Just leave that dumb person and concentrate on what you are going to do next..

I know its difficult, but let's be positive about our life and move on

Allah will put put barakah in your life.

[Glamyclitlemi]

yes definatly leave him, he doesnt deserve you, please keep us posted on sunniforum.

[dAy2EWlg]

Salam aleikum again. Thank you all. And ameen to the duaas.
Well hr divorced me at least 5-7 times. When i went to imam to talk to him about it he said i have to make duaa on his way and forgive him ... well i tryed but not when he try to hide still things from me. He also said that if he said the talaqs in extrem anger so it dosnt count.It akes me wonder why are men than given this power to play with their wifes and children. I dont want my boys to grow up like that. I want theme to treat their wifes good inshallah. And support theme in all cases. As well am scared of that my daughetr will fall for a guy like him, 'couse this is what she see as a male figure.
Sometimes i just get crazy when people take their culture and mix it with islam. I didnt convert couse of that. I didnt bring my culture with me either. When people mix culture with islam it aint islam anymore. :-(((((

yes it is true what you say very sad May Allah give you sabr and make your situation better.

[rozneesitcn]

May Allah help you. Such characters do not deserve to carry Islam on their shoulders. They are worse than the Bedouins in 49:14 because they have not even submitted, this much is clear, or they would not treat others in such a grotesquely incorrect manner.

[SallythePearl]

ameen ameen al ameen. May allah swt reward you all for your time and answers. ameen. Peace be with you. )))