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Norway snatches Indian children from their parents

A major story in The Hindu, India’s most serious English daily, has caused shock and consternation among readers here. Two young Indian children in Norway have been taken into foster care. Their mother Sagarika was accused by the Norwegian Child Protection Service last May of being unfit to take care of her two-and-a-half-year-old son, Abhigyan, and five-months-old daughter, Aishwarya.

The reasons cited will appear bizarre to the average Asian, African and I imagine, South American parent. The child rights authorities decided to visit the Bengali home when baby Aishwarya was still being breast fed. The Norwegians decided, after observing her for one hour every week, that the mother, Sagarika, was unfit because she overfed the boy and fed him with her fingers. Anyone who knows Asian or African cultures would know that we eat with our fingers and it’s normal to feed children using your fingers, not a spoon. Many Asians overfeed their kids (when they have food and don’t come from impoverished families).

Another black mark against the young Bengali parents was that the boy slept with his father. Most Indian families, except the ultra-westernised ones, always keep young children in their beds. Asian people are appalled at the idea of babies and young children being in separate bedrooms. It’s viewed as another barbaric, misguided Western custom. How can they possibly leave a baby alone all night in another room, all by itself!

I know Norway is not terribly multicultural, but it seems to me ludicrous that they should be allowed so terrorize a young, foreign mother, deeming her unfit, with no respect for her culture, background or social customs. Social service departments are often callous and frightening. Their ability to take away children from their parents is nightmarish, like something out of a horror film.

The father, Anurup, has been employed in Norway as a senior geoscientist since 2006. It’s unlikely the mother of the children, or indeed either of the parents, has fully learnt the Norwegian language. One can imagine their plight, temporarily in a foreign land where they don’t fully understand the language. Suddenly, they’ve had their children forcibly taken away from them. The babies, now aged three and one, are separated, put into foster homes, where the new parents probably look alien and frightening and speak a different language.

As a flight attendant thirty years ago, I once had to accompany an Indian infant who had been adopted by a German couple. On reaching Frankfurt, the new parents were waiting with joy and hope for their baby. The child, confronted with alien, white faces, screamed in terror. There was nothing I could do but hand over the baby. Even now, I vividly remember that terrified, traumatised, screaming child.

The news report stated that the parents are now allowed to see their children for one hour, once a year. And the kids will remain in custody until they are 18. For the bewildered, terrified, young couple this is a total nightmare. Their Norwegian visas will expire shortly and they have no clue what will happen next.

For the average Indian who reads this story, we cannot imagine how a foreign government has the right to do this. The grandparents of the children have appealed to the President of India to help them get their children back.

I hope at least the Norwegian embassy in India can intervene to rescue the traumatized parents and infants and give them back to their family. They, at least, should know that Indians eat with their fingers, overfeed their kids and never leave babies alone in another room.

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Whats with these people...!!! What right do they have to snatch children from their parents. So much for 'Modern civilization' of the West. More barbaric and absurd than ever.!

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Nightmare in Norway: Indian couple fights to get children back

NDTV Correspondent, Updated: January 21, 2012 22:43 IST


New Delhi: As an Indian couple battles in Norway for the custody of their two children - taken away and sent to foster care by the Child Protective Services - the grandparents of the children, accompanied by CPM leader Brinda Karat, met President Pratibha Patil on Saturday.

It has been over seven months since Monotosh and Shikha Chakrabarti have seen their grandchildren.

"The President was shocked to hear this and has assured us every possible help," said Shikha Chakrabarti.

In May last year, Anurup and Sagarika lost custody of their toddlers - three-year-old Avigyan and one-year-old daughter Aishwarya - after Norwegian authorities objected to her hand feeding the baby equating it to force feeding.

Norway's Child Protective Service took equal objection to the child sleeping in the same bed as the father, insisting the boy must have an independent bed. When contacted by NDTV, the head of Norway's Child Welfare Services denied the account of the parents.

"The Child Welfare Service has a responsibility to intervene if measures at the home are not sufficient to meet a child's needs. Examples are when there is every probability that the child's health or development may be seriously harmed because the parents are incapable of taking adequate responsibility for their child. The Norwegian Child Welfare Act applies to all children in Norway, regardless of the child's nationality, citizenship or cultural background," said Gunnar Toresen, Head of Child Welfare Services from Stavanger, Norway.

Norway's Child Protective Service is a powerful body charged with protecting the rights of children living in difficult family situations. But there are many reports of excesses.

"There has been a report in UN in 2005 which criticized Norway for taking too many children in public care. The amount was 12,500 children and Norway is a small country," said Svein Kjetil Lode Svendsen, a lawyer.

What seem to be cultural differences have now turned out into a full-fledged legal battle for the children's custody. Parents have visitation rights once or twice a year.

"It's like a nightmare. They are Indian citizens and they are minors and that's our only hope that the Indian government and the President will intervene and bring back our children to our laps. That's our only hope we are looking to," the mother of the children, Sagarika Bhattacharya, told NDTV via Skype.

"Nowhere in the petition does it say cruelty to the children or abuse. The question is what gives the Norwegian authorities the right whether morally, or even international rules to take away these babies from their parents? On what basis have they kept them? How can they do this? This is against all international norms," said CPM leader Brinda Karat.

The Ministry of External Affairs is actively pursuing the matter with the Norwegian authorities.

"The Indian Embassy reiterated the concerns of the government of India to the Norwegian Ministry of Foreign Affairs that the children were being deprived of the undoubted benefits of being brought up in their own ethnic, religious cultural and linguistic milieu. Hence, the return of the children to India so that they can be brought up in familiar surroundings under the loving care of their extended family would be in their best long-term interests. Norwegian authorities have expressed understanding and it is understood that they are trying to find a solution. The matter will continue to be pursued with them actively," a statement by the Ministry said.

Aishwarya and Avigyan's parents have lost the case in the lower courts in Norway which has ordered them to be in the care of foster parents till the age of 18. What's worse is that their parents' work visas expire in March and the time is running out. If they don't get their children by then, the couple will be forced to stay on.

"What we have thought is we are not going to apply for visa for my children. But if the case doesn't get sorted we have to apply because we cannot come back to India without our children," said Mr Bhattacharya.

"I tell my daughter everyday to be strong. She has to fight," said Monotosh Chakravarti, the grandfather of the children.

"Everyday lost is another day that we have to make more efforts to bring back our children to their normal lives," said Anurup Bhattacharya.

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The Indian people in India must hit back at the Norwegians in India by mocking them too!!

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The Indian people in India must hit back at the Norwegians in India by mocking them too!!

That won't help. Just imagine those thousands of parents who have been separated from their children by the stupid government.