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Asalaam U Alaikum.. hope all of your are well.
for the past few days/months iv been in a problem but dono wat actually the problem is? Im very kond to people yet my own people my relatives my family says that im harsh, rude, do not know how to talk, i do mistakes, im not mature, got no confident in short totally a loser.

i stil try to be cool although my own people have spoil my name everywhere, now i feel like im being used by everybody for their means, i cant handle it anymore, due to this
i start my day with anger, bad words, i wake up in a bad mood, im rude at work, cant relax, i get high pressure at work or even when im going to sleep..

people say definitly something is wrong with me.. iv tried alot to be good stay calm but the people i get to deal with which are totaly strangers even they say im rude.

please help me... im not bad at heart its just coz people think im nothing.

[OwdBKKHO]

Assalamu alaykum

How about going in three days in jamaath with tableeghi brothers.

[SergZHy67]

Asalaam U Alaikum..

please help me... im not bad at heart its just coz people think im nothing.

bro.

I too have this problem. But when i ponder at times i understand its the truth. We are nothing, we are losers. Its the truth. Whatever we have achieved its by Allah's will not our hardship. Have we done anything substantial for our deen? Nothing. Have we disobeyed Allah, its better we don't start counting. Our only hope is Allah's Mercy.

[Pharmaciest2007]

Asalaam U Alaikum.. hope all of your are well.
for the past few days/months iv been in a problem but dono wat actually the problem is? Im very kond to people yet my own people my relatives my family says that im harsh, rude, do not know how to talk, i do mistakes, im not mature, got no confident in short totally a loser.

i stil try to be cool although my own people have spoil my name everywhere, now i feel like im being used by everybody for their means, i cant handle it anymore, due to this
i start my day with anger, bad words, i wake up in a bad mood, im rude at work, cant relax, i get high pressure at work or even when im going to sleep..

people say definitly something is wrong with me.. iv tried alot to be good stay calm but the people i get to deal with which are totaly strangers even they say im rude.

please help me... im not bad at heart its just coz people think im nothing.

Just relax brother.
This all only proves that you are a sensitive person.
This is a great blessing of Allah(SWT) and you should thank Him for this for it is obligatory to do shukr on each blessing.
Also a blessing usually comes with a certain responsibility. This responsibility we must bear.
There are certain steps that you have to take but that you should do with the advice of a kamil Shaikh. On an open forum people will start tearing you apart in different directions so it is always better to do private things privately.
May Allah(SWT) make your journey on the Straight Path easy.
Wassalam