[venediene]

Assalam-o-allaikum,

I am 21 yeard old and live in karachi. I was in love of a girl who is my now fiancee. One of my friend who is Imam in a Masjid suggested me to do Nikah. As our relation has already been fixed by our parents so I decided to do nikah. I realized that my parents until my younger sister gets married, will not do my Nikah. My friend (Imam) suggested that you just do Nikah for the sake of ALLAH because when you talk to her, studies in coaching with her is totally haram and both of you are getting sins. I realized this and I did Nikah with her. We didn't tell our parents about this because one day they will get us married together. I talked her about this matter. First she denied then she agreed and we both didn't tell our parents. My two teachers who are my best friends, I discussed this thing with them that only for the sake of ALLAH and do get rid of any sin like talking on sms, phone, studying together,etc is haram and we want to do nikah so that in AKHRAT we will not be having any sin. my both teachers became witness for her and one of my friend became wakeel for her and two of my friends became witness from my side. My Friend( Imam ) performed my Nikah without any paper like Pakistan Govt Paper for Nikah but he wrote all things in a simple paper.
Now I want to ask to Ulma and authentic person to have a glance on this matter. Am I married na? We did it just to save our self from any sin. It has been 5 months over and we are husband and wife and did not disclose to any one and behaves same as we used to.
Thanks.
Waiting for answer

[MediconStop]

Assalam-o-allaikum,

I am 21 yeard old and live in karachi. I was in love of a girl who is my now fiancee. One of my friend who is Imam in a Masjid suggested me to do Nikah. As our relation has already been fixed by our parents so I decided to do nikah. I realized that my parents until my younger sister gets married, will not do my Nikah. My friend (Imam) suggested that you just do Nikah for the sake of ALLAH because when you talk to her, studies in coaching with her is totally haram and both of you are getting sins. I realized this and I did Nikah with her. We didn't tell our parents about this because one day they will get us married together. I talked her about this matter. First she denied then she agreed and we both didn't tell our parents. My two teachers who are my best friends, I discussed this thing with them that only for the sake of ALLAH and do get rid of any sin like talking on sms, phone, studying together,etc is haram and we want to do nikah so that in AKHRAT we will not be having any sin. my both teachers became witness for her and one of my friend became wakeel for her and two of my friends became witness from my side. My Friend( Imam ) performed my Nikah without any paper like Pakistan Govt Paper for Nikah but he wrote all things in a simple paper.
Now I want to ask to Ulma and authentic person to have a glance on this matter. Am I married na? We did it just to save our self from any sin. It has been 5 months over and we are husband and wife and did not disclose to any one and behaves same as we used to.
Thanks.
Waiting for answer

salaaam

according to the ahnnaf, your nikah has been concluded and you are a married couple.

[Sertvfdnhgjk]

Nikah means that you are officially married, you both agreed and signed the paper.

[fiettariaps]

Yes, congrats, you are married

[JacomoR]

Congratulations, jazakallah khair brother.

[venediene]

Thank you all of you guys. Actually I was confused as we did not tell our parents and I read in Akhbar-e-Jehan on Kitab-e-Sunnat ki roshni main that Nikah which is done except permission of Parents is not completed. So, I was confused.

[Saad Khan]

According to the Hanafi madh-hab your nikah is completed. May Allah bless you in your union and provide you with goodness in both of the worlds.

as your intention was pure and lofty you will receive much barakah.

According to the Shafi'i madhab without the wali of the girl giving consent the nikah cannot be done and in the Hanafi madhab it is not advisable for the girl to get married without her guardian's consent. However, in your instance the correct action has been completed and you are now avoiding sin and not in zina. Your friend, the Imam, has advised you correctly and May Allah reward him also.

There is no obedience in sin to any created being inlcuding parents. This is in a easy statement to write but a heavy one to practise on. May Allah give us all the strength to practise upon it.

I am not a scholar so please verify with an aalim as to the above. Any mistakes are mine and I seek forgiveness from Allah for them.

[T1ivuQGS]

mashallah! congratulations brother.

[venediene]

My Friend (sufyan) became her waqeel
my two teachers became her witnesses
my two friend became my witnesses
and imam
these are actually requirement of performing Nikah. And as I mentioned that our parents have already done our rishta and in future IN SHA ALLAH in 2015 they will do our marriage but only to get rid of any sin as we study together, talk together and sometime we go for shopping or restaurants. All these were sin before Nikah. thats why I did Nikah so that in AKHRAT We will not be shameful in front of ALLAH that we were doing anything. What ever the world thinks doesn't matter. Our hearts are clear and our Raza is only ALLAH's Raza

[avaincmolla]

My Friend (sufyan) became her waqeel
my two teachers became her witnesses
my two friend became my witnesses
and imam
these are actually requirement of performing Nikah. And as I mentioned that our parents have already done our rishta and in future IN SHA ALLAH in 2015 they will do our marriage but only to get rid of any sin as we study together, talk together and sometime we go for shopping or restaurants. All these were sin before Nikah. thats why I did Nikah so that in AKHRAT We will not be shameful in front of ALLAH that we were doing anything. What ever the world thinks doesn't matter. Our hearts are clear and our Raza is only ALLAH's Raza

How about her mahr?

Brother, you guys are married now. You can enjoy each others' company to a greater extent than just studying, talking, and shopping .

May Allaah swt put barakah in your marriage, and accept your lofty intentions.

[DoctorQuquriramba]

May ALLAH bless you !! Congrats !! Invite us on ur Waleema in 2015

[venediene]

How about her mahr?

Brother, you guys are married now. You can enjoy each others' company to a greater extent than just studying, talking, and shopping .

May Allaah swt put barakah in your marriage, and accept your lofty intentions.

Mahar is 50,000. My tajded-e-Nikah will be performed in front of everyone but nobody will know that we are already husband and wife.