[BGThomasis]

I want to say one thing......this is what maulana said to me....

that religions work and worldly work are like boat and water......!!!!
with out water we cant move boat and with out boat we cant go to other end.....both are necessary to go to other end

please forgive if i said any thing wrong.....as am not a person to tell others...but this was said by maulana...!!!

i am finding it hard to find a relation b/w your post and this thread. Kindly help me

[chuecafressds]

i am finding it hard to find a relation b/w your post and this thread. Kindly help me

He said and i quote "na deen ka na duniiya ka".....so i said we have to do both to have a peaceful life....
and there is no option WE HAVE TO DO IT......and motivation comes from ALLAH.....thats what i mean.....!!!!

[asSexate]

You're not a Dhobi ka kutta...don't call yourself that. You're a muslim so you're worth so much more in the sight of Allah. It seems that you have very low self esteem, maybe you should get counselling?

[bonyrek]

Ive never heared of a dog who washed clothes..

wa assalam..

[asSexate]

Oh whoops. Ok...so its the dog of one who washes clothes? I forgot that the phrase is mudhaaf mudhaaf ilayh. Clearly, my udru is not up to scratch.

[bonyrek]

yes.. its an idiom meaning a washerman's dog doesnt belong anywhere..neither home nor the place where his master washed clothes.. whereas a dog who washed clothes would only die of flu..

wa assalam..

[affozyBoomi]

[affozyBoomi]

Good shot......hazarat dr shahib.
Bytheway hazarat wat is this guy doing here ?what he want to prove? Extreme state of tawajua? Or just for cracking jokes. Any thought s??

why are u people making mockery of me????
I dint want to prove any thing..
yes i wanted tawajjah of SF members who can pray for me (but not of ur's to make a mockery)

Ya Allah!!

[AbraxiaAsus]

where are you from?
maybe someone here may be able to help/guide you if you are near by.

[affozyBoomi]

don't worry brother..whatever language u speak doesn't matter..
Inshaa'Allah urdu speaking people will help u in solving ur query. urdu speaking people are very humble and very helpful.

In Sha Allah
i was expecting the same...

I dint use urdu to be mocked @
but to express the plight inwhich i m.
which i couldn't have done in english...

khair jazakallah

[affozyBoomi]

hey, he can talk english. if he cud'nt, he wud'v been excused - but since he can he must talk english on the forum. imagime everyone starts speaking their own languages on SF... Che chu chinng chich chuch duch mera kapra gharam che whetever. the forum will go nuts!!!

I dont want any advice from angrezi mem

Mam please forgive me and leave this thread if u cant understand the sole purpose of this thread

jazakallah

[affozyBoomi]

i don't think all people on this forum are like you...

even i dont think anybody is like me in this world

[affozyBoomi]

You're not a Dhobi ka kutta...don't call yourself that. You're a muslim so you're worth so much more in the sight of Allah. It seems that you have very low self esteem, maybe you should get counselling?

ya i have very low self esteem..
also after seeing some SF posts receently my heart "BROKE"

& it became clear to me that i m really a dhobi ka kutta

[LINETFAD]

asalamoalikum
bro the only solution to ur pbm is "shukar". actually shaitan is making u hopeless from Allah swt so that u do kufur and na-shukri. remember allah swt says if u wana count allah swt favours, u cant. so make shukar for that. even if u have no legs, no hands, no eyes (wordly favors) be thankful to allah swt that u can excrete easily. if u are most sinful. u dont do salat, do all bad, even be thankful that Allah swt has blessed u with kalma and shadat, otherwise we are not able for that.
keep in mind when person thanks allah swt for his favours, he increased them and if he shows ungreatful behaviour and wording, then he deprive person from that favours. so dont think its just normal u r complaining against him.
i remember some wording like that, though dont remember source, there was a person who got some disease and he start complaining. Allah swt says i put him in good health fro years and he never thanks for it and now just for few days i put him in test and he start complaining.
one a person go to an aalim and says ho do regularly dhikar but heart is just not benefited from it. he says be thankful to allah swt that he allow his dhikar on ur tongue, if u do shukar for that Allah swt on shukar increase his favours and insh ur heart will be start benefitting from it.
so plz be serious and careful in such words. but i request u should change ur user id.
hope u got.
wasalm

[affozyBoomi]

I want to say one thing......this is what maulana said to me....

that religions work and worldly work are like boat and water......!!!!
with out water we cant move boat and with out boat we cant go to other end.....both are necessary to go to other end

please forgive if i said any thing wrong.....as am not a person to tell others...but this was said by maulana...!!!

dear sohail anwar
jazakallah for u r reply
keep posting in this thread....

u seem to solve my problem...

[LINETFAD]

ya i have very low self esteem..
also after seeing some SF posts receently my heart "BROKE"

& it became clear to me that i m really a dhobi ka kutta

brother aajizi bari achi cheez ha but na-shukri buhut hi buri cheez ha. Allah swt na ap ko apna tayyab kalma dia ha or ap apnay ap ko ek najas janwar keh rahay ho. plz plzzzzzzz repent bro otherwise Allah swt will got unhappy with u and things go more worse...i assure u.

[affozyBoomi]

brother aajizi bari achi cheez ha but na-shukri buhut hi buri cheez ha. Allah swt na ap ko apna tayyab kalma dia ha or ap apnay ap ko ek najas janwar keh rahay ho. plz plzzzzzzz repent bro otherwise Allah swt will got unhappy with u and things go more worse...i assure u.

Alhamdulillahi 'ala kulli haal..

mujhe Allah se koi gila koi shikwa nahi hai mere bhai!! the only thing is the position in which i m today is forcing me to compare my self to that...

well in sha Allah @ some point of time i ll disclose my plight..

may be after seeing people mock @ me , Allah shower his mercy..

when sk zulfeqr ahmed can write "AHQAR" or "FAQEER" along with his name .y cant i write this name?

[LINETFAD]

i always hate arguing and debating. but wana say u few words brother, u are not complaning against Allah swt but u r just highlighting ur situation. so who put u in this situation...??? r u not complaining against him. and secondaly ahkar faqeer and kutta is diffrent thing. faqeer and maskeen is liked in islam and kutta is najas animal.

[zueqhbyhp]

There is a young boy under obvious distress.
This is not to the time to remind him about his shortcomings.
This is not the time to remind him of his sins.

It is painful to see the reactions that have been posted. Indeed yours truly must be the one who must have been indulging in excessive sins otherwise a hapless boy who came to his fellow Muslims for a few words would not have been treated in this way. Why do our Masha-ikh cry in the late nights? Why did our Sahab (RA) cried during the nights? Why did our beloved Prophet(PBUH) cry for whole of Ummah? I hope their desire would have been to make us people of Taqwa. If we had fear of Allah(SWT) we shall not make jest with a man in distress - let alone making jest of a boy under stress. Innovators, Qur'anists, dirty film makers come and hurl the choicest abuse on our face and we just take it on the chin. Some thing wrong must have been done by us otherwise how could be be so insensitive? How sure are we of our own outcome?

Brother Original Poster please change your user name, perhaps with help of the moderators. May be you can use haqir-faqir together because both of these individual names have been taken.

Here is a relevant background. Once up on a time there was a wealthy businessman called Narsi Bhagat (devotee) in the state of Junagarh, Gujrat. He had a daughter but no sons. At a social occasion in the family in which his his daughter was married his sons were supposed to give some monetary gift to his daughter. The name of the gift is called bhaat. Since he had no sons the duty fell on him but he was already broke. Because of the complex maneuverings of mythology Narsi was already broke. Because of further subtle spiritual disposition on part of Narsi Bhagat the gods were pleased with him. And the god of the riches, Kuber, showered the in-laws place of her daughter with gold coins in final climactic and touching scene. The washer man of the city started collected the coins falling in his courtyard but that is when he thought that the coins at the washing shore (ghaat) might be taken by some one else to he rushed there. He found nothing there and when he rushed home some one has cleaned his home too of the coins. Washer man is Dhobi and because of his greed he lost everything. So to rub the things further he got compared to a dog also. I stand corrected by the knowledgeable people about the details - particularly on a forum where so many Gujratis are there.

So brother OP the way of life of a Muslim, as told by our Elders is:
Gir pade (We feel down)
Gir kar uthe (We got up)
Uth kar chale (We walked away).

Repeat as many times as you have to. That is the life of a Muslim. I shall tell you an event that I personally experienced. Because of a certain event I lost all the gains of a struggle of many days. I abstractly and obliquely told this to a person who is a pious person. I did not have the courage to tell him directly. He coolly told be that incidents in out life do not was out our hard work of days - they wash out hard works of weeks and months.

So welcome to the company of the faulty people.

We came to this world with nothing - even those who are born with a silver spoon in mouth.
We shall leave this world without any thing.
The pain a Muslim feels at the inconveniences of this world might be the certificate or the gate pass to Jannah.

Please write back as to how your are feeling.

And my sincere apologies to others whom I might have irritated. If you are convinced then ask again - I shall apologize once again - till you forgive me - Insha Allah.

[idertedype]

why are u people making mockery of me????
I dint want to prove any thing..
yes i wanted tawajjah of SF members who can pray for me (but not of ur's to make a mockery)

Ya Allah!!

I am not mocking you. But I don't understand your way of positing.I used urdu word tawajua mean downtoearth and not tawwajah means attention. Although I am sorry if you are being hurt by my word

May Allah bestowed upon you and us all his special mercy and love. And may he solve your problem and give you and us all meaning ful motivated life aameen