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**NumsAmenniams** · 12-19-2011, 05:34 PM

Suhail you have the advantage of youth on your side. You fall then you get up. You fall again and then you get up again. And so on. I'll tell you my personal example-when I meet my old friends it so happens invariably that old negative feeling are completely wiped out and only pleasant things come to mind. This after some time these negative things that are bothering you, and it is good that they weigh heavy on your conscience, they simply disappear. Finally I have a suggestion that you use your next summer vacation to go in Jama-at by telling your parents that you are going in search of spirituality. Wallahu'alam.

Am planning to go to jammat this week end...INSH'ALLAH

**#[SoftAzerZx]** · 12-19-2011, 05:41 PM

I have deleted my blog.....as i had no option at that time......And ALLHAMDULILLAH started my new blog....!!!!

okay,

**NumsAmenniams** · 12-19-2011, 05:46 PM

yes take care to spend little time with him so he wont feel abandoned totally even be it a smile and greetings and little more if you can but be sure you dont waste much time. Allahu alam

I think....meeting him again is out of question.....what i can do now is to mail him my apology ...!!!

**Diwokfkq** · 12-19-2011, 10:19 PM

Give him a gift, a good Islamic book perhaps.
Whatever it takes,
don't make him waste your time.

**curcercanty** · 12-19-2011, 10:28 PM

I think....meeting him again is out of question.....what i can do now is to mail him my apology ...!!!

hmm perhaps there was too much toleration that resulted in so much of stress that you want to avoid him completely now. Things could have been dealt from the beginning itself. Khair it is a lesson not to make things too complicated and moderation is key to success in almost everything. Anyway good to know you are mailing him.

**NumsAmenniams** · 12-19-2011, 11:22 PM

hmm perhaps there was too much toleration that resulted in so much of stress that you want to avoid him completely now. Things could have been dealt from the beginning itself. Khair it is a lesson not to make things too complicated and moderation is key to success in almost everything. Anyway good to know you are mailing him.

Yeah have to mail him.....but am afraid

**curcercanty** · 12-19-2011, 11:35 PM

Yeah have to mail him.....but am afraid

You are getting tensed too much.
Just tell him politely be it on phone or through email or however.
What is the use of being in a tensed state. Just relieve yourself by contacting him. Thats it. He is just a human.

**plantBanceper** · 01-07-2012, 01:42 PM

Yeah have to mail him.....but am afraid

any update???

12-19-2011, 05:34 PM	#21
NumsAmenniams Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 532 Senior Member	Suhail you have the advantage of youth on your side. You fall then you get up. You fall again and then you get up again. And so on. I'll tell you my personal example-when I meet my old friends it so happens invariably that old negative feeling are completely wiped out and only pleasant things come to mind. This after some time these negative things that are bothering you, and it is good that they weigh heavy on your conscience, they simply disappear. Finally I have a suggestion that you use your next summer vacation to go in Jama-at by telling your parents that you are going in search of spirituality. Wallahu'alam. Am planning to go to jammat this week end...INSH'ALLAH Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-19-2011, 05:41 PM	#22
#[SoftAzerZx] Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 586 Senior Member	I have deleted my blog.....as i had no option at that time......And ALLHAMDULILLAH started my new blog....!!!! okay, Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-19-2011, 05:46 PM	#23
NumsAmenniams Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 532 Senior Member	yes take care to spend little time with him so he wont feel abandoned totally even be it a smile and greetings and little more if you can but be sure you dont waste much time. Allahu alam I think....meeting him again is out of question.....what i can do now is to mail him my apology ...!!! Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-19-2011, 10:19 PM	#24
Diwokfkq Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 394 Senior Member	Give him a gift, a good Islamic book perhaps. Whatever it takes, don't make him waste your time. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-19-2011, 10:28 PM	#25
curcercanty Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 459 Senior Member	I think....meeting him again is out of question.....what i can do now is to mail him my apology ...!!! hmm perhaps there was too much toleration that resulted in so much of stress that you want to avoid him completely now. Things could have been dealt from the beginning itself. Khair it is a lesson not to make things too complicated and moderation is key to success in almost everything. Anyway good to know you are mailing him. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-19-2011, 11:22 PM	#26
NumsAmenniams Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 532 Senior Member	hmm perhaps there was too much toleration that resulted in so much of stress that you want to avoid him completely now. Things could have been dealt from the beginning itself. Khair it is a lesson not to make things too complicated and moderation is key to success in almost everything. Anyway good to know you are mailing him. Yeah have to mail him.....but am afraid Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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12-19-2011, 11:35 PM	#27
curcercanty Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 459 Senior Member	Yeah have to mail him.....but am afraid You are getting tensed too much. Just tell him politely be it on phone or through email or however. What is the use of being in a tensed state. Just relieve yourself by contacting him. Thats it. He is just a human. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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01-07-2012, 01:42 PM	#28
plantBanceper Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 375 Senior Member	Yeah have to mail him.....but am afraid any update??? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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