[Mello]

Aslmalkm..
i suffering from a very big problem for the past few years (was-was)
i know that i was wrong, i used to do alot of things which is not allowed, masturbating and roam around the house without doing Ghusl... i used to sleep on the beds, sit on the sofas going out in the car with the same na-pak halaat n my na-paki used to spread all over literaly, in that case i used to throw my cloths in dustbin coz dint want my cloths to be washed with my brothers as thy were na-pak.
(all my salary goes in these stupid things)

its been years that i have left praying namaz, if i discuss this topic to my close ones they say its was-was, but the reason im not praying n having was-was in my house is dirty even if i take a bath at last im going to be in the same na-pak house..

IM TOTALY BLANK, STRESSED ALL THE TIME...

"will i ever live a normal life, like the other good muslims who pray 5times aday n pray Quran"??

today i have decided to clean my house n buy new cloths so that i cant start my new life.
im getting married soon.

HOW SHOULD I CLEAN MY HOUSE, EACH AND EVERY CORNER IS NA-PAK... pleas HELP?

[GDRussiayear]

Semen is pure in the Shafi' madhab, don't worry about. Try and sit with a scholar who can teach you the difference between what is "pak" and "na-pak."

[Hsmrcahr]

Attend the majalis of respected shuyukh. Spend some time in tabligh jamaat. Spend time in the company of the pious.
InshaAllah you will benefit greatly and ("live a normal life, like the other good muslims who pray 5times aday n pray Quran??" this will become easy!
Read some of these books: http://www.khanqah.org/books/en

[lE3l6Lgn]

salam

if you can't see the semen anywhere and it hasn't physically got on other stuff you have nothing to worry about...even if you were dirty at the time, you sitting on a couch doesnot make the couch dirty unless stuff got physically transferred to the couch.

also who do you think is telling you that everything is dirty and making you hopeless and depressed? Shaytan. it makes sense that he plants this idea that yu and your house are dirty to keep you from praying.

listen to the talks of this scholar

http://www.sacredlearning.org/general-talks/category

[Mello]

thanks for the reply...
my dear at that time it was physically transfered which is now not visible, i was out of my mind doing all whatever was wrong..
i have decided to start cleaning although its not visible anywhere..

please help me, I just want to get everything cleaned.
either by washing or any other way.

[Mello]

these are not only my was-was but actually it has happened, as i said i was very careless at that times...
"just need to clean everything, every corner"

BUT HOW??

[Elisabetxxx]

Bismihee Ta'aala

Asalamualaikum

You should just shampoo your carpet. You can either hire some-one or rent one of those carpet shampooer vacuums. Here in the U.S. you can rent in almost anywhere like walmart etc. I believe. However, I don't know where you live.

Rmr, never give up hope in Allah (SWT). Seek sincere forgiveness from Allah (SWT) and start over. Insha Allah all will be well.

May Allah (SWT) bless your future marriage

[Mello]

thanks all, i appreciate all ur replies
i may sound stupid but let me ask, carpet issue is done.
what about the other things in my house, which i used to touch with dirty (na-pak) hands?

how should i clean them??
"my closed ones are tired of answering my such questions, i hope my other muslim brothers n sisters wil surely help"

[eXC3Kvnn]

Brother Jafff, there is nothing to worry about.. Do the following things in order

1. Dump all your old clothes, bedsheets and carpets in one room.
2. Use a wet cloth and clean 3 times, each time using fresh water all the stuff like sofa's which can't be washed.
3. Now wash your house with clean water for 3 times
4. Wash all your clothes and carpets. Dipping them in fresh water 3 times
5. If there is any other stuff which needs to be cleaned, clean them..

everything should be clean now

Read 2 rakat salah Tauba and repent from previous actions

you and your home will be pure now

[Mello]

thank you so much...
todays sunday im off from work..
inshAllah il start doing this today only..

i request all my muslim brothers n sisters to PRAY for ME so that i dont get any WAS-WAS or KHALLAL while doing this cleaning job..

shukran

[Rjvpicux]

bro.

Read this small book 'combating whispering of Shaytaan' By Maulana Yunus patel. Its will help you understand the issue and how to tackle it . I have attached the pdf file.

Also recite Fathiha, Ayatul khursi and 3 Quls often.

Recite the Ayats of Manzil when you get time.:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SoxtiDB4oXo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SWYTbIiUVF8

I m attaching Manzil as pdf also.


May Allah protect us from such waswaas. Ameen.