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Old 10-05-2011, 06:45 PM   #21
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What do you do to freshen your imaan?
1) read qur'aan
2) listen to qiraat
3) listen to islaamic lectures


P.S im just wondering why no one said: *visit sunni forum* yet? lol!
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Old 10-05-2011, 06:50 PM   #22
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I don't know any sisters who have gone to jama't for 1 year, but I have heard in many bayans of such women from France and UK who have gone for 1 year with their husbands.

In a bayan, there was also a mention of 1 lady in Pakistan whose husband went for 4 months, and when she found out that women are also allowed, she told her husband her zeal to also go with him. So she and her husband decided to go for 1 year. But they had 3 adult daughters and they were so poor that they used to work in the fields for daily income. So the mother was very worried to leave her daughters alone, but her daughters reassured her that they will be fine, and they will work in the fields whenever there is need. So the parents went after leaving whatever savings they could leave. During their trip, one day in the masjid, the mother looked very disturbed, so the amir sent his wife to inquire about her. When asked, the mother replied that last night she had a dream. Her three daughters were telling her in the dream that since 3 days they have had no work and nothing to eat, and thus she was very disturbed.
so the point of this story is? What??
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Old 10-05-2011, 06:53 PM   #23
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so the point of this story is? What??
She is trying to show the sacrifice many people give for the sake of Din and thus encourage us to also try to do something.
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Old 10-05-2011, 07:01 PM   #24
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excuse my ignorance but what would a ladies jamaat do for one year? im guessing the men go out and do dawah right? so the women stay in someones home and listen to bayaans etc for an entire year?
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Old 10-05-2011, 07:09 PM   #25
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excuse my ignorance but what would a ladies jamaat do for one year? im guessing the men go out and do dawah right? so the women stay in someones home and listen to bayaans etc for an entire year?
i was wondering about the same... but maybe the ladies also go house to house and do ta'leem everywhere, i dunno, have no idea - but i dont think its a gud idea for ladies who have kids,to leave them and go in jamaat for a whole year, after all its the responsibility of a mother to look after her kids and its not her rsponsibilty to go and give da'wah all over the world.

correct me of i'm wrong.
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Old 10-05-2011, 07:32 PM   #26
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Maximum time for sisters is 40days n i think that too when ur husabnd has given 4 months in jamat b4.is it?
I think its 2 months as far as I know, though I know women who have gone in 4 months.
wrwb
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Old 10-05-2011, 07:33 PM   #27
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i was wondering about the same... but maybe the ladies also go house to house and do ta'leem everywhere, i dunno, have no idea - but i dont think its a gud idea for ladies who have kids,to leave them and go in jamaat for a whole year, after all its the responsibility of a mother to look after her kids and its not her rsponsibilty to go and give da'wah all over the world.

correct me of i'm wrong.
i dont think the women are allowed to go knocking door to door i think they go to different towns where they find another tablighi lady and hold taleem in her house?

but ermmm can't you go to islamic classes closer to your own home?...if your going to teach i understand but i mean women who just go along with their husbands can't they get the same benefit by attending local classes?
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Old 10-05-2011, 07:33 PM   #28
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@sisters, I'll give a brief description of the masturaat / ladies jama't later in the day
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Old 10-05-2011, 07:34 PM   #29
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Of course parents don't leave their young children unattended, but the ones in the story had adult daughters.
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Old 10-05-2011, 07:36 PM   #30
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i dont think the women are allowed to go knocking door to door i think they go to different towns where they find another tablighi lady and hold taleem in her house?

but ermmm can't you go to islamic classes closer to your own home?...if your going to teach i understand but i mean women who just go along with their husbands can't they get the same benefit by attending local classes?
i know that sis :P
thats why i said house 2 house not door 2 door hehe.
same logic here, but maybe they miss their husbands too much so they go along also, to do his "khidmah" and stuffs - gotta make husn dhann!
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Old 10-05-2011, 07:49 PM   #31
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I'm unmarried and I have great desire to go in the path of Allah. The noble of effort of dawat and tableegh has touched my heart. Why would it be strange for women to strive in the path of Allah, within the limits of Shariah?
Why don't you go to Afghanistan or Iraq? You can fight in the way of Allah
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Old 10-05-2011, 07:53 PM   #32
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You can't meet auliya of Allah in your local classes, can you?
why not...?
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Old 10-05-2011, 07:53 PM   #33
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I would except that I'm a coward.

And I said "within the limits of Shariah"
You think going to fight is "outside the limits of Shariah"?
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Old 10-05-2011, 07:55 PM   #34
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I'm unmarried and I have great desire to go in the path of Allah. The noble of effort of dawat and tableegh has touched my heart. Why would it be strange for women to strive in the path of Allah, within the limits of Shariah?
SubhanAllah. I am amazed that there are still women like you, who have such great desire to go in the path of Allah, and do khidmat of Deen.

MashAllah, may Allah bless the ummah with more women like you, ameen.
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Old 10-05-2011, 07:57 PM   #35
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You can't meet auliya of Allah in your local classes, can you?
hmm that's kinda like saying awliyah only exist in the TJ's and don't exist in other gatherings, im sure you can meet pious women in both gatherings so im not sure what the need is for women to go...if its just for taleem they can do that in their home town

sorry i don't want to seem like im attacking you...i genuinely don't get it
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Old 10-05-2011, 07:57 PM   #36
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SubhanAllah. I am amazed that there are still women like you, who have such great desire to go in the path of Allah, and do khidmat of Deen.

MashAllah, may Allah bless the ummah with more women like you, ameen.
Aray Hazrat Masha'Allah you're still here.
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Old 10-05-2011, 07:58 PM   #37
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Aray Hazrat Masha'Allah you're still here.
Yes maulana, duaon ki darkhwoast hay.
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Old 10-05-2011, 08:00 PM   #38
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excuse my ignorance but what would a ladies jamaat do for one year? im guessing the men go out and do dawah right? so the women stay in someones home and listen to bayaans etc for an entire year?
The ladies in Jama'ah stay indoors with women only and they have a full day tarteeb that's decided through mashurah by the men who stay in the Masjid. Their daily tarteeb sorta looks like this:

Mudhakaraat among the ladies in Jama'ah of various A'maal e.g. benefits of Dhikr and different sunnahs like raising children, making an islamic environment in the home, simple living, hijab etc.

Ta'leem e.g. having at least two ta'leems throughout the day, one for the sisters in Jama'ah and the other for visiting sisters who come and spend time in the home with the ladies in Jama'ah.

Ikhtilaat e.g. talking to sisters who come to the house for the programs about the Greatness of Allah, sunnah of Rasulullah , importance of Deen etc. Establishing relationships with the local sisters.

Listening to at least one or two bayans a day by someone appointed through the mashurah of the Jama'ah.

Setting out time to complete daily adhkaar e.g. tilaawah, ibaadah, Tahajjjud etc.

Khidmah and ikraam e.g. Helping cook and clean the host's house and taking care of sisters who come visit whenever it's needed.

After every two or three days, the ladies Jama'ah moves to a different host's house in another locality and they have the same tarteeb but meet with new sisters.
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Old 10-05-2011, 08:01 PM   #39
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hmm that's kinda like saying awliyah only exist in the TJ's and don't exist in other gatherings, im sure you can meet pious women in both gatherings so im not sure what the need is for women to go...if its just for taleem they can do that in their home town

sorry i don't want to seem like im attacking you...i genuinely don't get it
Though there are some reservations over mastoorat jamaa't, i think we should encourage the sister for her zeal and passion. Rather than cross questioning her.
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Old 10-05-2011, 08:03 PM   #40
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hmm that's kinda like saying awliyah only exist in the TJ's and don't exist in other gatherings, im sure you can meet pious women in both gatherings so im not sure what the need is for women to go...if its just for taleem they can do that in their home town

sorry i don't want to seem like im attacking you...i genuinely don't get it
lets w8 4 pluto to post exactly what ladies do when they're out in jamaat. maybe it'll help us ignoramuses to understand :P
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