[standaman]

As salamu alaykum all,
I really don't know where to start, it seems like a long story, so I will try my best to mention the main points.

Me and my husband have been together nearly 6 yrs MashAllah and have two children, I reverted to islam Nearly 2 years ago Alhamdullilah.
The last two years or so with my husband has been a living hell, seriously hell. He has become a completely different person, hes' always angry, shouting at me, (this has stopped now) he barely talks to me, if I say anything to him he gets really mad, I feel he has severe depression, or evil eye or even Jinn possesion, I will explain why in a moment.

I know he started to get really low two years ago as he had alot of hell with home office, even though he has been here 10 years, the home office delayed and delayed so many things, which to cut a very long story short stopped him going back home to see his mum and his family, this understandably caused him to feel very restricted and very unhappy. So this is the only thing which was initially making him low, there were no other traumas, tragedies, or anything serious happening.

It has escalated quite severely now, I can say hand on my heart I have done everything I can to help him, I have and still do take care of him and treat him so amazingly regardless of how much he has hurt me, the thing is I KNOW this isnt from him, not from his own mind and heart, I know people can change, I understand this alot, but this is different, He's feeling unwell all the time, when I try to talk to him he says his head hurts and he feels dizzy and he gets really angry with me, he tries to pray and has told me he feels something is pulling him away, he has become so lazy, we have no family life, havent for 2 years or so, I feel like a single mother, the tension is unbearable, when he comes home i have to go upstairs, I get him food, and drink talk nicely to him, ignore any negativity then wish him a good nights rest and I go to bed, and cry myself to sleep every night. I love this man so intensely with all my heart, but my heart now is overflowing with hurt and pain I don't know how much more I can take, I have alot of health problems myself, and recently miscarried, Alhamdullilah I get on with it and cope as I have to. But he shows no emotion to me, didnt even say anything when I miscarried, he has no empathy no emotion he's lost, This is only a little of my story as My head right now is extremely messed up and im so tired I barely sleep or eat as I feel so sick all the time.

One other quick thing I want to mention maybe it is relevant or not, this has happened to me twice, once before I became a muslim 3 years ago, and once recently about 4 moths ago,
I go upto bed alone, after a few minutes I feel a presence, and its not a good feeling so I sit up and try to call for my husband, Im literally screaming in my throat yet no sound, and I cant move, this only lasts for a few minutes, after I dont know what to say so I say Bismillah and recite Kursi, then I come to ask my husband if had heard me screaming him he said no, I have also (not recently) but woke up many many times with scratch marks on my arms and I have thought of all the possible reasons for this, I have very short nails so it's not like I scratch myself in my sleep, and my husband also has short nails, not long enough to leave marks, So of course this worries me also.

I do play Quran in my house, and I try to make it a safe warm loving home, regardless of how much I feel Im having a breakdwon myself, I have to keep strong for my husband and kids, I have to support him and help him to get better, If I knew this was how he was behaving naturally I would seriously think about seperating from him as my health is suffering immensely. However, I dont give up easily, and whilst he is still alive and walking this earth I know inshAllah there is hope.

He is attending Ruqkya at our local masjid this Thursday, it took a long while to get him to agree but he has, and said to a friend he wants to be an upright person again and to not lose him family. I did ask him if he wanted a divorce and would that make him feel better (incase it was me) and he said walahi its not me, and he said he's just a bad person and feels so empty and he doesn't understand why. Ya Allah I amke dua all the time, and I pray and pray we can get through this and keep our family intact, and work on it from there. Does anyone here have any advice? No mean letters, or sarcastic comments, as I have recicved some, and I Think its completely unnecessary, this is real life, and people here are really hurting.

Jazak Allah Khair.

Donna

[Rabbahpuptiopp]

Salaam's.

May Allah ease all your difficulties Sister. check out the following thread Insha'Allah it is related to jinn and spiritual healing etc. http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/arch...p/t-23659.html

[twiffatticy]

May Allah make it easy for you and help you Insha'Allah try this ammal Insha'Allah will help you.

An Experienced Way of Warding off Jinn or Jadu (Magic)

This amal (practise) is known as the amal of Aayatul Kursi. After fajr salaah, maghrib salaah and before retiring to bed, read thrice Surah Fatihah including Bismillah, Aayatul Kursi, Surah Falaq (chapter 113) and Surah Naas (chapter 114). Read any Durood Shareef thrice in the beginning as well as at the end. If the affected one recites himself it is better, otherwise someone else should recite and blow in such a manner that some part of his lips touch the affected person. Also keep a bottle of water and whatever you read blow in the water at the end and make the affected one drink from that water each morning before doing anything else. When the bottle is halved, fill it up with fresh water. And if some signs of affect are seen within the house, then a portion of that water should be sprinkled in the four corners of the house in such a manner that the water does not fall on the floor.

To Get Relief from Effects of Evil Sight

The hadith says: “Evil sight is true.” i.e. It has effect. For the relief recite mu’awwazatayn (Surah Falaq/Surah Naas {chapters 113/114}) thrice and blow on the afflicted one

[topcasinobonua]

Salam Sister really sad situation for you.
InshAllah everything will be fine.

I am giving you the contact detail of Sheikh Muhamamd Ajmal Irfan Danish.

(disclosing numbers are not allowed) just send a mail at bani.hafiz@gmail.com and you will get his personal cell phone number InshAllah!

Remember in prayers!

[indahouweres]

Please start the following immediately without going anywhere:

• Read Surah Baqarah (full) twice a day at FIXED TIMES.
• Blow them on water and use that water for drinking and spray it in all corners of the house.

Do this for 21 days and then tell us your situation here.

[Usogwdkb]

Please start the following immediately without going anywhere:

• Read Surah Baqarah (full) twice a day at FIXED TIMES.
• Blow them on water and use that water for drinking and spray it in all corners of the house.

Do this for 21 days and then tell us your situation here.

Bismillah
walaikum assalam
Can I know if anyone prescribed this amal specifically?

[StivRichardOff]

here is a link to a ruqyah cd
https://rapidshare.com/files/2066322...Al_Ghamidi.wma

useful to play in the house

[Z3s9vQZj]

assalamu alaykum warahmatullah

may Allaah grant you and your husband sabr. subhanAllah shaytaan tries so hard to cause disunity between husband and wife. i had a similar situation (accept i was like your husband). my first marriage lead to divorce as we didnt know what was going on and life was like a nightmare but ended when single. hamdulilah with Allahs mercy i remarried and we both recognised the situation and sought help. the difference is like night and day. its a test and shayteen are stubborn amd rebellious but its important you and those around you support and aid one another in rectifying the situation in the correct way(quran and sunnah)

alhamdulilah that your husband is seeking ruqyah and shows hes recognising the issue. i hope Allah strengthens you both and aids you. if you need any help or advice do let me know.

il add the email of the raqi that i saw. mashAllah he travels to you so is convienent and only does ruqyah according to quran and sunnah. (I say this as unfortunately there are alot of people posing to be righteous people but are far from it and dealve into shirk and magic themselves, may Allah protect us from such things)

abu musa: quraanichealing@gmail.com

[Friend_Joe]

How ironic. I was the first to post here, and my thread vanished... so I will put it up again.

Donna, firstly may Allah swt make life easy and blissful for you and your family very soon insha'Allah ta'ala.

Keep reciting Surah falaq, and Surah Anas and Aytul Kurima, Aytul Kuri also. And basically you just need belief. Install it in your head, that nothing can happen without Allah swt wills, and He swt tests those whom He swt loves Most. So be strong sister, my dua's for you and your's always.

Barak'Allah fi.

Some dua's that will insha'Allah help.

http://www.google.co.uk/url?sa=t&sou...mQovYw&cad=rja

* installs CCTV camera's *