[plalleste]

Salaam everyone. I came home today feeling horrible - I just felt soo sad and until now and I just snap at anyone who tries to talk to me and all I want to do now is sit alone and cry. It's basically because I heard something about someone I really thought I cared about and vice versa - but what I heard made me realize I was wrong all along and I just feel so let down and angry I want to disappear. I can't talk to my mom about it and none of my friends seem to understand or really care. Please help anyone? I'd really appreciate it

[reachmanxx]

Ws.

Is that the problem? that you heard something bad about someone you loved so dearly??

[plalleste]

Ws.

Is that the problem? that you heard something bad about someone you loved so dearly??

Yeah, that kinda sums it up. Except that person ended up not caring about me at all. It kinda made me feel... like stupid and useless and used. Like i don't deserve anything, bcuz i am diff from most of the ppl here, the girls I'm friends with and mostly everyone don't cover like I do. I dont know... I had high hopes and now I feel cheated?

[Unlinozistimi]

Yeah, that kinda sums it up. Except that person ended up not caring about me at all. It kinda made me feel... like stupid and useless and used. Like i don't deserve anything, bcuz i am diff from most of the ppl here, the girls I'm friends with and mostly everyone don't cover like I do. I dont know... I had high hopes and now I feel cheated?

We all do things we regret Lil sis, just do tauba if it was something wrong, or learn from it, if it was something not meant to be.

Pain and suffering is part of human nature, we need to excel past this and see life isn't meant to be lived in worrying and being sad, but need to live to seek Allah s.w.t pleasure. He knows you better than your mother better than your friends and even better than yourself.

Have patience sis, we all get hurt most when a loved one hurts us, but if it was genuine love they wouldnt have done that to you I reckon, love is something pure clean and halaal, it gets stronger each day.

May Allah s.w.t give u all that is good in this world and hereafter ameen.

[KitRittyTug]

We all do things we regret Lil sis, just do tauba if it was something wrong, or learn from it, if it was something not meant to be.

Pain and suffering is part of human nature, we need to excel past this and see life isn't meant to be lived in worrying and being sad, but need to live to seek Allah s.w.t pleasure. He knows you better than your mother better than your friends and even better than yourself.

Have patience sis, we all get hurt most when a loved one hurts us, but if it was genuine love they wouldnt have done that to you I reckon, love is something pure clean and halaal, it gets stronger each day.

May Allah s.w.t give u all that is good in this world and hereafter ameen.

Assalaamoalaykum-w-w
Nice advice. The only one we can love is Allah. The rest of the love is cosmetic. Allah will deliberately continuously keep bringing you towards Him coz he loves you more and His love is everlasting. LOVE HIM SISTER.. LOVE HIM and feel the everlasting bliss InshaAllah.!!

[plalleste]

@ qibla & ILM_Sika

Jazakumallah khairan for the beautiful advice... You see, I'm still trying to get closer to Allah;I understand what you're saying but I just can't seem get to that stage where I feel a close bond with Allah (SWT) yet, you get it?

[Crazykz]

@ qibla & ILM_Sika

Jazakumallah khairan for the beautiful advice... You see, I'm still trying to get closer to Allah;I understand what you're saying but I just can't seem get to that stage where I feel a close bond with Allah (SWT) yet, you get it?

The bond to build with Allah, that you love Him so much you don't care about others, is a lifelong task that all Muslims should. Don't dispair however. Alhamdu Lillah Allah has chosen that from amongst so many teens who are astray that you should love Islam and care about what Allah wants. Be grateful to Allah for this bounty and continue striving towards good and keeping away from the bad.

As you grow older you'll see life as one who wishes to follow Islam is like swimming against the flow of harsh rivers. But.. In the end the salmon does reach its destination. Keep persevering even when it hurts so badly. If you want to cry, do it on the musalla before Allah, who knows your heart better than you do. Insha Allah whenever faced by any trouble, turn to Allah. When not on trouble make shukr to Allah, make dua for your friends, keep away from sins and make istighfaar. Then Insha Allah you'll be content knowing that no matter what you always have the Almighty on your side.

Wassalaam

[reachmanxx]

Yeah, that kinda sums it up. Except that person ended up not caring about me at all. It kinda made me feel... like stupid and useless and used. Like i don't deserve anything, bcuz i am diff from most of the ppl here, the girls I'm friends with and mostly everyone don't cover like I do. I dont know... I had high hopes and now I feel cheated?

Sw Sis.

Come on sis, be strong, stay strong, this way Allah SWT is making you stronger, and you aren't making things better for yourself, you know what? you should never show that you are worried / depressed in front of those who hurt you, it hurts them, it makes them uneasy ... you know that? and as far as possible, be in a state on Wudhu, and frequent Sadqah, something i always suggest to everyone who cares to listen, it really helps.

[ovH9wfSJ]

Yeah, that kinda sums it up. Except that person ended up not caring about me at all. It kinda made me feel... like stupid and useless and used. Like i don't deserve anything, bcuz i am diff from most of the ppl here, the girls I'm friends with and mostly everyone don't cover like I do. I dont know... I had high hopes and now I feel cheated?

Asalamu Alikum Wa Rehmatullahi Wa Barakatuh!

Dear sis, don't despair over matters which will soon become your past! Yeah I know it hurts, and hurts real bad! But sis, that is what we all HAVE to bear. We all are put in trials by Allah. It's not just you, my sis.

You know sis, you can ask people for advice and maybe someone's advice might help you get over it, or it can also be the case that no one's advice help you in the least. But know one thing, "time" is the biggest healer! Right now you might be thinking that you can't go on any further, but believe me sis, after some days, your going to be just alright.

Sis, you know that the most painful feeling in the world is when you love someone and the other person don't love you back!

Yes, but still it heals my sis!

My advice to you is that you should recall Allah's advice to us humans. We should always see those who are less fortunate than us. This will make you grateful to Allah!

Do you know, I have had very close relations who lost their one and only daughter. People who have lost one of their parents or even the whole family! The best example I can give you is that of our Rasool Allah!

Our Rasool Allah (s.a.w) was an orphan! He had to go through such hard things in life that people like us won't be able to bear it at all! Can you even imagine living without your mother or father? Can you even feel the huge gap of love and mercy which the Prophet had to bear?

He lost even his grandparent, uncle, his beloved wife, his beloved son, his beloved daughters!!! But he remained patient!

Why? Because Allah lOVE those who are patient!

So my sis, be like my Rasool Allah! Be patient! Bear this pain and Allah would inshAllah lessen it for you!

DON'T feel like you are useless or unwanted or used! That person didn't deserve you my sis! Allah has made chosen someone far more better than that person for you!

There is also a very cute joke about it.
It goes like this:

If you don't have anyone now who love you , don't feel sad, as someone is praying so desperately to Allah for you that no one can enter your life because of that person's prayers! Awwwwwh!

So my sis, be patient and steadfast!

[plalleste]

Asalamu Alikum Wa Rehmatullahi Wa Barakatuh!

Dear sis, don't despair over matters which will soon become your past! Yeah I know it hurts, and hurts real bad! But sis, that is what we all HAVE to bear. We all are put in trials by Allah. It's not just you, my sis.

You know sis, you can ask people for advice and maybe someone's advice might help you get over it, or it can also be the case that no one's advice help you in the least. But know one thing, "time" is the biggest healer! Right now you might be thinking that you can't go on any further, but believe me sis, after some days, your going to be just alright.

Sis, you know that the most painful feeling in the world is when you love someone and the other person don't love you back!

Yes, but still it heals my sis!

My advice to you is that you should recall Allah's advice to us humans. We should always see those who are less fortunate than us. This will make you grateful to Allah!

Do you know, I have had very close relations who lost their one and only daughter. People who have lost one of their parents or even the whole family! The best example I can give you is that of our Rasool Allah!

Our Rasool Allah (s.a.w) was an orphan! He had to go through such hard things in life that people like us won't be able to bear it at all! Can you even imagine living without your mother or father? Can you even feel the huge gap of love and mercy which the Prophet had to bear?

He lost even his grandparent, uncle, his beloved wife, his beloved son, his beloved daughters!!! But he remained patient!

Why? Because Allah lOVE those who are patient!

So my sis, be like my Rasool Allah! Be patient! Bear this pain and Allah would inshAllah lessen it for you!

DON'T feel like you are useless or unwanted or used! That person didn't deserve you my sis! Allah has made chosen someone far more better than that person for you!

There is also a very cute joke about it.
It goes like this:

If you don't have anyone now who love you , don't feel sad, as someone is praying so desperately to Allah for you that no one can enter your life because of that person's prayers! Awwwwwh!

So my sis, be patient and steadfast!

You are sooo sweet I really loved your reply u made me feel much better!!!!!!! and the joke was adorable lol

And you're right, time does heal, I'm actually getting past it and now when I look back I admit I was foolish The person was seriously an idiot lol

But thanks sooo much for your reply & pluto

[ovH9wfSJ]

You are sooo sweet I really loved your reply u made me feel much better!!!!!!! and the joke was adorable lol

And you're right, time does heal, I'm actually getting past it and now when I look back I admit I was foolish The person was seriously an idiot lol

But thanks sooo much for your reply & pluto

Asalamu Alikum!

Awwwwh! My shweet sistah! I am extremely happy to know that I was of some help to you even in the least.

May Allah grant you patience and infinite love by "someone" who is desperately praying for you. Heeheehe! LOL! InshAllah!

*hugs* and *mwah!*

[Crazykz]

You are sooo sweet I really loved your reply u made me feel much better!!!!!!! and the joke was adorable lol

And you're right, time does heal, I'm actually getting past it and now when I look back I admit I was foolish The person was seriously an idiot lol

But thanks sooo much for your reply & pluto

Just a point sister, don't call the person name. That will only lessen your good deeds. Instead make duaa for that person that Allah shows them the right path.

Also please note we do not encourage excessive use of smileys and expressive text in main forums even in between same gender.

[Doctorpills]

Salaam everyone. I came home today feeling horrible - I just felt soo sad and until now and I just snap at anyone who tries to talk to me and all I want to do now is sit alone and cry. It's basically because I heard something about someone I really thought I cared about and vice versa - but what I heard made me realize I was wrong all along and I just feel so let down and angry I want to disappear. I can't talk to my mom about it and none of my friends seem to understand or really care. Please help anyone? I'd really appreciate it

Let the looser go and listen to this:

http://yunuspatel.net/Audio/2ndHalf2...ationships.ram

http://yunuspatel.net/Audio/2ndHalf2...ationships.mp3

[prkddfokic]

When Allah loves a person he brings them closer to him by subjecting them to trials in this life, so that they may turn to him in humility and he may shower his mercy on them. When he loves somebody he inflicts trials upon them so that he may guide them to the path to salvation and purify their hearts. Sister, suffering in life is a gift in disguise from Allah and it is a means of our sins being forgiven...be content with your taqdeer for this is a virtue and hold on to the rope of Allah in times of conflict and have hope in him for "the one whose hope is short, his grief is long".

Remember me in your duas please.

[plalleste]

Jazakumallah khairan everyone!!!! I'm learning and you helped me a lot. I'll be patient inshallah - may ALlah reward you all and I'm making dua for you sis Student

[Elissetecausa]

Salaam everyone. I came home today feeling horrible - I just felt soo sad and until now and I just snap at anyone who tries to talk to me and all I want to do now is sit alone and cry. I just feel so let down and angry I want to disappear. I can't talk to my mom about it and none of my friends seem to understand or really care. Please help anyone? I'd really appreciate it

انا ايضا

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انا ايضا

Cheer up bro,
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