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**Trebbinsa** · 08-22-2011, 05:05 AM

The location is Sunfresh store, Green Street, London. The video speaks for itself, I can't believe these 'muslim' men called the Police on this brave sister. May Allah (swt) protect and strengthen her, ameen.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9rrfNSZ_DCM

**Tzqowwyt** · 08-22-2011, 05:19 AM

Salam

Brave sister? Honestly, are you kidding me? I think she was behaving extremely foolishly and all her behaviour was totally uncalled for.

If she wanted to give advice, fair enough she could have done that in quiet and left it at that.

What on Earth is the point of making a drama and bad mouthing the brothers, spoiling their dignity and exposing their 'sins' (is it categorically even decided as haraam?) for all the world to see?

Emotionaly motivated and nothing less than silly actions which I totally condemn. Her attitude is extremely poor and there is absolutely no hikmah nor any adab in her work.

Any sane person in their right mind would have been annoyed at her.

News flash: not everyone is as practising and Allah conscious and full of taqwa as we'd like and people are at different levels. Going in and lecturing someone, making a mockery of them in front of everyone in their own store is obviously going to prove counter productive.

Honestly man.

**entaifsfets** · 08-22-2011, 05:20 AM

This is a good initiative by the sister

.

It seems in the end the uncle that runs the store accepted to stop stocking those dates, so in my opinion (easier said than done though) it would have been wise to talk directly to the boss rather than the youngsters; and may be arranging things in private would have made the guy think twice rather than confronting him in public with shouting, this is what annoyed me in the video.

**uncoosesoge** · 08-22-2011, 05:32 AM

there is a way and means to speak to people. rudeness and trying to force people into something will cause them to be pushed away from Deen. He should have been addrssed politely,and then left to it. He should NOThave recorded and then posted all over utube. That is not justified, and Allah knows best, but i dont feel that this was Islamically correct. Persoannly i think the isster went about it completely in the wrong way.

Question of haya comes into play aswell, shouting in the shops and middle of street. He could have been addressed in a far more polite and effective manner

**Trebbinsa** · 08-22-2011, 05:44 AM

The sister only raised her voice after a few minutes, and before that whilst she was calm the man hit her phone.
It appears by the comments he made he was aware that the dates were Israeli. Also we can't assume that the sister did not try to talk to the store owners prior to this incident.
Agreed perhaps not the best way to convey her message however there is no justification how the man behaved and some of the comments he made.

At least in the short term it was effective as he appeared to remove them from the shelf?

Allahu alam.

**FEti0TUI** · 08-22-2011, 05:50 AM

Yeah, I don't think she went about it in the proper manner.

Though I have to comment that it is pretty cool to see so many Muslims in a Western country like that.

**Diandaplaipsy** · 08-23-2011, 12:54 AM

A sister taking a stand...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q_fYu...layer_embedded

May Allah reward her

**Trebbinsa** · 08-23-2011, 10:09 AM

Subhan Allah I posted this a couple of days ago.

**Diandaplaipsy** · 08-24-2011, 02:53 AM

we all know Salafis wouldnt approve this brave stance because she is a woman

**entaifsfets** · 08-24-2011, 03:31 AM

oh common from where are you bringing salafis into discussion...

**Finanziamento** · 08-24-2011, 03:45 AM

Stop talking salafi please.

Also, the video does not work.

**DaleJrGirl** · 08-24-2011, 05:13 AM

check out the second link in the bottom of page one

**DaleJrGirl** · 08-24-2011, 05:14 AM

Isnt she doing Amar Bil Maroof & Nahya Anil munkar ?

**Nadin Maison** · 08-24-2011, 06:47 AM

BOTH represent everything that is wrong with muslims in the west....

**famosetroie** · 08-24-2011, 08:36 AM

BOTH represent everything that is wrong with muslims in the west....

actually, this a good opportunity to any brothers or sisters who live nearby to be a peacemaker between them, more so in this blessed month of Ramadhan.

what a good deed it would be in the month of Ramadhan.

Then

the videos can be removed and any fitna can be spared, while at the same time the shop

will no longer sell any israeli dates. Muslim wins

08-22-2011, 05:05 AM	#1
Trebbinsa Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 457 Senior Member	One tough Sister The location is Sunfresh store, Green Street, London. The video speaks for itself, I can't believe these 'muslim' men called the Police on this brave sister. May Allah (swt) protect and strengthen her, ameen. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9rrfNSZ_DCM Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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08-22-2011, 05:19 AM	#2
Tzqowwyt Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 399 Senior Member	Salam Brave sister? Honestly, are you kidding me? I think she was behaving extremely foolishly and all her behaviour was totally uncalled for. If she wanted to give advice, fair enough she could have done that in quiet and left it at that. What on Earth is the point of making a drama and bad mouthing the brothers, spoiling their dignity and exposing their 'sins' (is it categorically even decided as haraam?) for all the world to see? Emotionaly motivated and nothing less than silly actions which I totally condemn. Her attitude is extremely poor and there is absolutely no hikmah nor any adab in her work. Any sane person in their right mind would have been annoyed at her. News flash: not everyone is as practising and Allah conscious and full of taqwa as we'd like and people are at different levels. Going in and lecturing someone, making a mockery of them in front of everyone in their own store is obviously going to prove counter productive. Honestly man. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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08-22-2011, 05:20 AM	#3
entaifsfets Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 429 Senior Member	This is a good initiative by the sister . It seems in the end the uncle that runs the store accepted to stop stocking those dates, so in my opinion (easier said than done though) it would have been wise to talk directly to the boss rather than the youngsters; and may be arranging things in private would have made the guy think twice rather than confronting him in public with shouting, this is what annoyed me in the video. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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08-22-2011, 05:32 AM	#4
uncoosesoge Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 398 Senior Member	there is a way and means to speak to people. rudeness and trying to force people into something will cause them to be pushed away from Deen. He should have been addrssed politely,and then left to it. He should NOThave recorded and then posted all over utube. That is not justified, and Allah knows best, but i dont feel that this was Islamically correct. Persoannly i think the isster went about it completely in the wrong way. Question of haya comes into play aswell, shouting in the shops and middle of street. He could have been addressed in a far more polite and effective manner Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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08-22-2011, 05:44 AM	#5
Trebbinsa Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 457 Senior Member	The sister only raised her voice after a few minutes, and before that whilst she was calm the man hit her phone. It appears by the comments he made he was aware that the dates were Israeli. Also we can't assume that the sister did not try to talk to the store owners prior to this incident. Agreed perhaps not the best way to convey her message however there is no justification how the man behaved and some of the comments he made. At least in the short term it was effective as he appeared to remove them from the shelf? Allahu alam. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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08-22-2011, 05:50 AM	#6
FEti0TUI Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 394 Senior Member	Yeah, I don't think she went about it in the proper manner. Though I have to comment that it is pretty cool to see so many Muslims in a Western country like that. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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08-23-2011, 12:54 AM	#7
Diandaplaipsy Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 384 Senior Member	A sister taking a stand... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q_fYu...layer_embedded May Allah reward her Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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08-23-2011, 10:09 AM	#8
Trebbinsa Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 457 Senior Member	Subhan Allah I posted this a couple of days ago. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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08-24-2011, 02:53 AM	#9
Diandaplaipsy Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 384 Senior Member	we all know Salafis wouldnt approve this brave stance because she is a woman Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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08-24-2011, 03:31 AM	#10
entaifsfets Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 429 Senior Member	oh common from where are you bringing salafis into discussion... Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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08-24-2011, 03:45 AM	#11
Finanziamento Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 446 Senior Member	Stop talking salafi please. Also, the video does not work. Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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08-24-2011, 05:13 AM	#12
DaleJrGirl Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 426 Senior Member	check out the second link in the bottom of page one Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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08-24-2011, 05:14 AM	#13
DaleJrGirl Join Date Oct 2005 Posts 426 Senior Member	Isnt she doing Amar Bil Maroof & Nahya Anil munkar ? Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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08-24-2011, 06:47 AM	#14
Nadin Maison Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 376 Senior Member	BOTH represent everything that is wrong with muslims in the west.... Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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08-24-2011, 08:36 AM	#15
famosetroie Join Date Nov 2005 Posts 406 Senior Member	BOTH represent everything that is wrong with muslims in the west.... actually, this a good opportunity to any brothers or sisters who live nearby to be a peacemaker between them, more so in this blessed month of Ramadhan. what a good deed it would be in the month of Ramadhan. Then the videos can be removed and any fitna can be spared, while at the same time the shop will no longer sell any israeli dates. Muslim wins Share Share this post on Digg Del.icio.us Technorati Twitter
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