[brorwargy]

Salaamu Alykum,

Ramadan greetings to all, hope everyone benefits as much as possible. (Ameen)

I wanted to know if anyone have had similar experiences and how was it dealt with. The reality is I feel quite ill at times when I meet with people. I do say my duas before leaving home, but sometimes I don't want to be around some people. Could it be the evil eye? Or could it be something is wrong with me? The feeling of being ill, is that I have realized by mixing with these people it's actually hurting me. I am at times uncomfortable and don't wish to be around them. I have realized at one hand, I need to probably do more good towards them and at the other hand, their natures are just too much to handle. I know only Allah has real control over me. So, what does that mean? What duas can I say?

[teentodiefows]

If you feel ill meeting people, then stop meeting them.

Only meet the blood relations.

Simple.

[NanoGordeno]

Salaamu Alykum,

Ramadan greetings to all, hope everyone benefits as much as possible. (Ameen)

I wanted to know if anyone have had similar experiences and how was it dealt with. The reality is I feel quite ill at times when I meet with people. I do say my duas before leaving home, but sometimes I don't want to be around some people. Could it be the evil eye? Or could it be something is wrong with me? The feeling of being ill, is that I have realized by mixing with these people it's actually hurting me. I am at times uncomfortable and don't wish to be around them. I have realized at one hand, I need to probably do more good towards them and at the other hand, their natures are just too much to handle. I know only Allah has real control over me. So, what does that mean? What duas can I say?

The only dua I can think of is Alhamdulillah.

[Kafuuil]

Salaamu Alykum,

Ramadan greetings to all, hope everyone benefits as much as possible. (Ameen)

I wanted to know if anyone have had similar experiences and how was it dealt with. The reality is I feel quite ill at times when I meet with people. I do say my duas before leaving home, but sometimes I don't want to be around some people. Could it be the evil eye? Or could it be something is wrong with me? The feeling of being ill, is that I have realized by mixing with these people it's actually hurting me. I am at times uncomfortable and don't wish to be around them. I have realized at one hand, I need to probably do more good towards them and at the other hand, their natures are just too much to handle. I know only Allah has real control over me. So, what does that mean? What duas can I say?

sister.
I think the discomfort you feel is part of your Haya (modesty). Its actually a nice trait. So don't worry.