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Old 08-05-2011, 10:41 PM   #1
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As salam alay kum.

Mulsim Man married to Non muslim woman...
Muslim women married non muslim man...

Muslim man offer's five time's prayers and non muslim woman offers accroding to her religion both in same home..

Muslim women offer's five time's prayers and non muslim offers offers accroding to her religion both in same home..

Both are living happy life what islam say's about them ?


Answers only references to quran and sunnah...
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Old 08-06-2011, 06:08 AM   #2
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....in short muslim woman can not marry a non-muslim man, a muslim man can marry a women from the jews and christians provided certain consitions are met......can you please change the color of the text....its a request...
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Old 08-06-2011, 06:11 AM   #3
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that font color blinded me
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Old 08-06-2011, 07:23 AM   #4
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Bismillah
I do not understand why a muslim man would ever consider marrying non muslim of today. Muslimahs are far better. Marry for these reasons peity, beauty, leneage,wealth. if one seeks other then peity, don't complain of loss later on.
Allahualam
And I do not understand why a Muslim would ever consider making a comment like this when it has been made permissible by the highest authority.

Lawful to you in marriage are not only chaste women who are believers, but chaste women among the People of the Book, revealed before your time, when you give them their due dowers, and desire chastity not lewdness. If any one rejects faith, fruitless is his work, and in the Hereafter he will be in the ranks of those who have lost (Qur'an 5:5)
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Old 08-06-2011, 11:16 PM   #5
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....in short muslim woman can not marry a non-muslim man, a muslim man can marry a women from the jews and christians provided certain consitions are met......can you please change the color of the text....its a request...
Salam

Can you please mention in which hadith or aaya it is mention..
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Old 08-06-2011, 11:25 PM   #6
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It has been discussed in detail in sunnipath.com : http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.a...D=2267&CATE=10

Question:
Could someone from amongst your group (Please) put together a reply that gives the reasons why our young women may not marry outside Islam and send it to the gentleman (also covering his question). Please keep me in copy as I am interested in forwarding it to a young Muslim friend who is 'marrying' an Irish Catholic man who refuses to convert to Islam.

Answer:
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful



In the name of Allah, Most Compassionate, Most Merciful,

Inter-marriage between Muslims and non-Muslims is something that has been clearly prohibited in the Qur�an and Sunnah, thus not permissible in any way. The only exception to this general rule is the marriage of Muslim men with Christian and Jewish girls, and that also with certain conditions.

Allah Most High says:

�Do not marry unbelieving women until they believe. A slave woman who believes is better than an unbelieving woman, even though if she attracts you. And not marry (your girls) to unbelievers until they believe. A man slave who believes is better than an unbeliever, even though if he attracts you. Unbelievers do (but) beckon you to the fire but Allah beckons by His grace to the garden (of bliss) and forgiveness, and makes His signs clear to mankind; that they may receive admonition�. (al-Baqarah, 221).

The above verse of the Holy Qur�an along with many other statements of the Qur�an and Sunnah clearly mention the impermissibility of Muslims marrying non-Muslims. Therefore, a marriage between a Muslim and someone from another religion will not be lawful or even valid according to Islam. The exception, however, is mentioned in the following verse:

�(Lawful unto you in marriage are chaste women who are believers and chaste women among the people of the book�. (al-Ma�idah, 5).

Thus, it would be permissible, in principle, for Muslim men to marry women from the people of the book (ahl al-Kitab) namely Christian and Jewish girls. However, this is also subjected to certain conditions, as will be mentioned later.

The reason behind this is that, marital relationships demand mutual love, affection and intimacy and without this, the purpose of marriage is left unfulfilled. If such close relationship of love and intimacy is established with a non-Muslim, it may emotionally incline a Muslim towards disbelief (kufr) or, at least, the abhorrence of Kufr and Shirk may not remain in the heart. Consequently, it may lead one to disbelief and eventually the fire of Hell. This is why Allah Almighty said towards the end of the verse of Surah al-Baqarah quoted above:

�Unbelievers do (but) beckon you to the fire but Allah beckons by His grace to the garden (of bliss) and forgiveness, and makes His signs clear to mankind; that they may receive admonition�. ( 221). (See: Ma�arif al-Qur�an, 1/ 540).

Therefore, the fear that a Muslim man or woman may well be affected with his/her partner�s religion, thus go on to a path that leads to the fire of hell, is the main cause for this prohibition. Hence, a Muslim woman will not be allowed whatsoever to marry anyone besides a Muslim man, and even if she did, the marriage will not be valid in Islam. Similarly, a Muslim man will not be allowed to marry any non-Muslim girl, such as a Hindu, Sikh, Buddhist, or any other non-Muslim woman. However, it will be permissible for him to marry a Christian or a Jewish girl. This is explained in the following section.

Marrying Christian and Jewish girls

As stated previously, Islam has allowed Muslim men to marry women from the people of the book (ahl al-Kitab). This permission is explicitly mentioned in the verse of the Qur�an already quoted:

�(Lawful unto you in marriage are chaste women who are believers and chaste women among the people of the book�. (al-Ma�idah, 5).

However, there are certain points that need to be taken into consideration here:

Firstly, the exception of Christian and Jewish girls is because the difference in belief between the people of the book and Muslims is relatively lesser and lighter as compared with other non-Muslims. They are all monotheistic religions and known as the Abrahamic faiths. The basic difference between Islam and the other two religions is the belief in the last Messenger of Allah (Allah bless him & give him peace). Therefore, the fear and danger of corruptibility is less as compared to marrying with women from other faiths, thus Islam gave this permission for Muslim men to marry Christian and Jewish girls.

A question may arise here, that if the difference between Muslims and people of the book is considered to be lighter as compared to other faiths, then why is it unlawful for Muslim girls to marry Christian and Jewish men?

The answer to this question is that, women are somewhat weak and emotional by nature. Then the husband has been given a caretaking and controlling role over the wife. As such, it is very likely that the Muslim wife may fall prey and become impressed with her husband�s faith. The chances of the husband becoming affected by his wife�s faith are remote, thus the difference between the two situations is clear.

Moreover, by marrying a Christian or a Jewish man, the status of the Muslim wife would be affected, for the wife normally takes the nationality and status given by her husband�s law. A Christian or a Jewish woman marrying a Muslim man would be expected eventually to accept Islam, while the possibility of a Muslim woman changing her faith to that of her husband is very likely. Therefore, only Muslim men were given this permission of marrying with women from the people of the book.

Secondly, women who are Christians and Jews merely by name, and do not really believe in any religion, like a large number of people in the west, cannot be termed as people of the book (ahl al-Kitab). They are atheist in reality and it will not be permissible for Muslim men to marry them.

Therefore, one must first make sure that the woman is truly a believing Christian or Jew, and then consider contracting marriage with them.

Thirdly, it should be remembered that the meaning of the permission of marrying Christian and Jewish women is simply that, if a marriage contract was performed with them, it would be valid according to Islam and the children born out of this wedlock will be considered legitimate.

However, there are various narrations that establish its undesirability. A Muslim man is advised in the Hadith to select a life partner who fully observes the injunctions of Islam, so that she becomes a means of attaining piety. If that is the case, then marrying Christian and Jewish girls would be disliked.

This is the reason why Sayyiduna Umar ibn al-Khattab (Allah be pleased with him) prevented many such marriages in his lifetime because of what he had seen of the corruption that resulted in Iraq and Syria. (See: Muhammad ibn al-Hasan, Kitab al-Athar).

Finally, this permission is only when one is confident that he himself or his children will not be affected by this marriage. In the early days, Muslims were duly equipped with adequate Islamic knowledge and an unshaken commitment towards their religion. As such, there was no risk of the husband being affected by his wife�s religion. Rather, the wife would see the glory of Islam, thus enter into the fold of Islam.

Therefore, if a Muslim male is confident that marriage with a Christian or Jewish girl will have no affect on his and his children�s Islamic identity and commitment, then there is no bar against such marriages. However, if he is not so confident, he must avoid entering into such marriages.




And Allah knows best

Muhammad ibn Adam al-Kawthari
Darul Iftaa, Leicester, UK
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Old 08-06-2011, 11:44 PM   #7
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It has been discussed in detail in sunnipath.com : http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.a...D=2267&CATE=10
As salam alay kum

In this message i think muslim women strictly cannot marry non muslim man..
But what if she marry even knowing will she become non mulim ?
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Old 08-06-2011, 11:51 PM   #8
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As salam alay kum

In this message i think muslim women strictly cannot marry non muslim man..
But what if she marry even knowing will she become non mulim ?
brother,

That is a difficult question. If a person does an action and is not worried that he/she will go out of Islam then it is a grave sin. Only Allah knows what that persons fate will be.

May Allah protect from such sins. Ameen.
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Old 08-07-2011, 12:51 AM   #9
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brother,

That is a difficult question. If a person does an action and is not worried that he/she will go out of Islam then it is a grave sin. Only Allah knows what that persons fate will be.

May Allah protect from such sins. Ameen.
Salam
Muslim women has married to (non muslim idol worshipper) just because of love, with lack of islamic knowledge, she is happy with marriage, now what is the status of her in islam ? is she still muslim ? she offer's five times prayers, and fasting in ramzan also..
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Old 08-07-2011, 01:09 AM   #10
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Muslim women has married to (non muslim idol worshipper) just because of love, with lack of islamic knowledge, she is happy with marriage, now what is the status of her in islam ? is she still muslim ? she offer's five times prayers, and fasting in ramzan also..
http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.a...1439&CATE=1436

Question:

If a muslim girl marries a non muslim is her nikah valid? and is she classed as being out of islam?


Answer:
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful

In the Name of Allah, the Gracious, the Merciful.

Dear Sister,

I pray this message reaches you in good health and sound iman.

Thank you for your question.

To answer your first query:

A marriage between a Muslim woman and non-Muslim man is invalid. The relationship is viewed as fornication. For the marriage to be valid, the man would have to state the Shahada (the Islamic testification of faith), after which they would have a new ceremony.

To answer your second question:

The sister in question is still considered a Muslim, albeit a sinful Muslim. She should be encouraged to repent from this relationship. The person she is with should be encouraged to study Islam. I have heard of cases where Muslim women married non-Muslim men and were essentially thrown out of the Muslim community. My fear is that when this happens, the sister becomes even further alienated from herself and her Lord. If you are friends with this sister, please give her good advice and beg her to think about her standing with her Lord.

And Allah knows best.
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Old 08-07-2011, 05:44 AM   #11
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It has been discussed in detail in sunnipath.com : http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.a...D=2267&CATE=10
I fully agree with AZHAR123. Very well explained with correct references. May Allah (swt) bless us all. Aameen.
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Old 08-07-2011, 06:28 AM   #12
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But what if she marry even knowing will she become non mulim ?
No. WAllahu alam.
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Old 08-07-2011, 01:38 PM   #13
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Salam:
The women which i am talking about is the wife of my co-worker and i can not talk to the lady i can talk only to his husband and i have already talked to him but he is not ready to accept islam in any way, now what i can do to help that lady to become good muslim ?
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Old 08-07-2011, 02:54 PM   #14
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Salam:
The women which i am talking about is the wife of my co-worker and i can not talk to the lady i can talk only to his husband and i have already talked to him but he is not ready to accept islam in any way, now what i can do to help that lady to become good muslim ?
bro.

I m not worthy of saying this, coz i have not given Dawah in real life. But still i just would like to say perhaps you can give him indirect Dawaah. Instead of directly suggesting him to accept Islam, show him how beautiful our religion is. Since he is your co-worker both you will spend some time together everyday. Get to more of his religious inclinations, different approach for different inclinations(ie christian, hindu, atheist etc).

when he converts the problem will be solved.
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Old 08-08-2011, 07:14 AM   #15
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When a Muslim male marries a Non-Muslim his kids are going to follow the father's religion and the wife if she loves him either converts or supports him. When a Muslim female marries a Non-Muslim her kids will follow the father over the Muslim mother. This is a general over view of the situation and not all marriages work out this way but the majority do.
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Old 08-08-2011, 07:50 AM   #16
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As salam alay kum.

Mulsim Man married to Non muslim woman...
Muslim women married non muslim man...

Muslim man offer's five time's prayers and non muslim woman offers accroding to her religion both in same home..

Muslim women offer's five time's prayers and non muslim offers offers accroding to her religion both in same home..

Both are living happy life what islam say's about them ?


Answers only references to quran and sunnah...
Salaam

Didnt you read brother alzhar's post number 7
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