[SantaClaus]

Discussions specially those leading to arguments are not good for salik,for salik trying to keep away from unnecessary discussions is a must,it eats away whatever peace of mind one has earned through zikr, specially Qadria nisbat is BASED ON PEACE OF MIND.so try to avoid unnecessary interactions. In discussion surrender & withdrawal should be the policy.The feeling of peace is a sign that Qadria nisbat is taking hold,but it takes ages to become permanent.