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Old 07-29-2011, 06:39 AM   #1
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What is recommended for those who are studying in Darul Ulooms? Where does one find the balance between trying to avoid carnal desires and trying to focus on studies?
Desire and sin would definitely harm the student's studies, but I would think that marriage would also bring a lot of responsibilities which would take from the student's time to study?
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Old 07-29-2011, 12:25 PM   #2
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What is recommended for those who are studying in Darul Ulooms? Where does one find the balance between trying to avoid carnal desires and trying to focus on studies?
Desire and sin would definitely harm the student's studies, but I would think that marriage would also bring a lot of responsibilities which would take from the student's time to study?


That's true. Ulama of this forum should discuss about it in this thread.
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Old 07-29-2011, 12:55 PM   #3
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It is possible to be a student and married, but it takes a lot of dedication, patience, and support from both the spouses.
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Old 07-29-2011, 03:56 PM   #4
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What is recommended for those who are studying in Darul Ulooms? Where does one find the balance between trying to avoid carnal desires and trying to focus on studies?
Desire and sin would definitely harm the student's studies, but I would think that marriage would also bring a lot of responsibilities which would take from the student's time to study?
Marry daughter of one of the Ustad or shaikhul hadith. Or a scholars daughter somewhere so he knows your situation.
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Old 07-29-2011, 04:56 PM   #5
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Marry daughter of one of the Ustad or shaikhul hadith. Or a scholars daughter somewhere so he knows your situation.


Hazrat,

But is there really any Ustad/ Shaykhul Hadith who wanna give marry her daughter to a Talibul Ilm? From my survey I've observed that they always select Maulana (who was a brilliant student of the Madrasah)/ Mufti (son of a renowned Alim) for their daughters.

Except a few, no one looks at that poor guy (Talibul Ilm).

In fact this incident is gonna be happened in my life.
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