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Advice needed from Muslims (about tickling)

This scenario is based on tickling, if you find this strange, just pretend I’m talking about sex.
Tickling for me is a big fetish, and takes up a big part of my life.

From birth, I have been following the religion Islam, and a major part of the religion is the importance of modesty and chastity. I am now in my 20s, I know I have a massive tickling fetish and because of my religious beliefs, I have not for a very long time been able to Tickle/get Tickled.

Islam however does allow and strongly encourages sexual activities only between a wife and a husband....i.e. I need to get married! However, this is tricky in itself.

The rules of Islam are quite strict on non married males/females engaging with each other. You must not be alone with a girl, and any talking must be business like with no flirtatious speeches. And certainly, talking about tickling-a thing which is usually thought of as weird and gay will probably kill the talks off altogether.

The only chance to introduce the idea or my love for tickling would be when married. At this point, if the wife turns rounds saying, urrggh, I hate being tickled, and tickling is the most ‘gayest’ thing ever, well there goes the big tickling dream.

So, I’d like some advice, if there are any Muslims here, how to enjoy my tickling fetish without stepping outside the boundaries of my religion.

[giturbewan]

A short flash-back!

[Lauramalina]

We do not get married purely for fulfilling a fetish or for sexual encounters. Nor does our life revolve around intimacy.

Focus on your relationship with Allah and His Rasul [Sallallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam] and you will find the solution to your question here.

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We do not get married purely for fulfilling a fetish or for sexual encounters. Nor does our life revolve around intimacy.

Focus on your relationship with Allah and His Rasul [Sallallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam] and you will find the solution to your question here.

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[kanchouska]

Advice needed from Muslims (about tickling)

This scenario is based on tickling, if you find this strange, just pretend I’m talking about sex.
Tickling for me is a big fetish, and takes up a big part of my life.

From birth, I have been following the religion Islam, and a major part of the religion is the importance of modesty and chastity. I am now in my 20s, I know I have a massive tickling fetish and because of my religious beliefs, I have not for a very long time been able to Tickle/get Tickled.

Islam however does allow and strongly encourages sexual activities only between a wife and a husband....i.e. I need to get married! However, this is tricky in itself.

The rules of Islam are quite strict on non married males/females engaging with each other. You must not be alone with a girl, and any talking must be business like with no flirtatious speeches. And certainly, talking about tickling-a thing which is usually thought of as weird and gay will probably kill the talks off altogether.

The only chance to introduce the idea or my love for tickling would be when married. At this point, if the wife turns rounds saying, urrggh, I hate being tickled, and tickling is the most ‘gayest’ thing ever, well there goes the big tickling dream.

So, I’d like some advice, if there are any Muslims here, how to enjoy my tickling fetish without stepping outside the boundaries of my religion.

Illicit Contact (speech/touch etc.) between a male and female is ABSOLUTELY HARAM in Islam.

You need to get married and since there is no HARAM in your Fetish you can discuss the matter with your spouse and fulfil your fantasies and fetishes Islamically and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that.

Your spouse will be rewarded for fulfilling your desires as they are not HARAM!

We discussed the matter with Shaykh (Maulana) Sameerud-deen Qasmi (Manchester) and there is nothing wrong with the husband fulfilling his desires and fetishes (which are not Haram) with his wife.

We do not get married purely for fulfilling a fetish or for sexual encounters. Nor does our life revolve around intimacy.

Focus on your relationship with Allah and His Rasul [Sallallahu Alayhi Wa Sallam] and you will find the solution to your question here.