We really want feedback from them. It's very important. We need to know why they torture their wives.
They should be brave enough to atleast come and tell us from behind the curtains of anonymity why they do what they do...
If one does not even regard something as a problem one will not come and tell us anything Mawlana. In fact i feel they need a lot of help as they themselves are probably victims of abuse or other physocological problems......why else would they do what they do? In these cases it is always the fault of the woman so when he lashes out at her it is "her fault" and not his. According to one woman everything comes under criticism and there is no pleasing him.