[Aleksis]

Bismillahi
I think the basic solution for all the evils in our society is gaining taqwa. When we don't develop love and fear of Allah SWT in our hearts, these sort of thorns will grow automatically. Only deen can mold a person be it a man or a woman. Some are naturally not aggressive and soft in nature and so they behave well with others be it with wives or anyone and they are harmless. But not all have good family background. In some houses, the basic way of talking is harsh and so they get that habit as something natural and in such cases the mujahidah gets tougher and only deen can change the person bi idnillah. When we get closer to Allah, all this will move away from us iA. I hope this thread will be sort of guideline for the mujahidah. We can think of arab society before islam, they were like animals but then we got the sahabahs from them and we know how the islam changed them making them all humble and best people. The solution for every single evil in our society is turning to Allah completely. Allahu alam. Let Allah SWT give us tawfeeq to lead a life a taqwa. Amin