[PNCarl]

salaams -

I don't understand something; if you wrong your parents, it is a sin, and is the downside that they can take your good deeds on the Day of Judgement? If this is the downside, then what is the problem, because you are helping your parents anyway wit good deeds, right?

[worldofwarcraft]

And ending up in hell yourself. That's the problem here.

[Styparty]

Brother this is not just restricted to parents. If we have wronged anyone in this world and haven’t repaid or asked for forgiveness then we will have to pay back in the hereafter.

You never want to be in that situation ever. We rather eat humble pie in this world sort things out and stand before Allah with huququl Ibaad (rights of fellow human beings) in order.

Allah will not forgive until those whom we wronged forgive. Just as it is easier to ask forgiveness from someone in this world it is also easier for them to forgive in this world. In the hereafter everyone will be desperate for reward. Trying to acquire as much as they can.

May Allah grant us all Jannah without reckoning…..aameen

[bribiaLaubysdggf]

Read this small book on the importance of behavior to Parents : http://www.2shared.com/document/ccOR...c_manners.html

“It has been reported from Abu Bakrah (radhiallahu anhu) that Nabi (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said, ‘Allaah Ta`ala forgives
all sins as He wishes, except recalcitrance to parents. Indeed He hastens the punishment for the perpetrator (recalcitrant
child) in this world, before he/she dies.’”
[Baihaqi / Mishkaat Shareef, page 421]