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05-31-2011, 01:17 AM
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 Distributing dates after Nikah - is this sunnah?
ASA
The reason I ask, is because I want to follow the sunnah and not do things just because it is custom. So, if you could please help, I would appreciate it. |
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05-31-2011, 03:35 AM
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The reason I ask is because I want to put the emphasis on the sunnah. If I can quote the hadith or practice it comes from with and include it on a note with the dates, then surely this is 'dhikr' as well as I am trying to spread knowledge to the other guests too?
Does that make sense? Yes, we do this practice in Pakistani weddings, but I want to trace where the custom comes from and relate it back to Islam. Any help genuinely appreciated. |
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05-31-2011, 04:12 AM
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 throwing dates after nikah has been also done in BD Ijtema where more than 100īs couple marriage has been arranged every year. one of my cloth got cut apart by attending and fighting to get dates which were distributed in Ijtema after nikah. 
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05-31-2011, 01:14 PM
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Don't feel offended but in India people often talk about "bhooke bengalis". After reading your post I know what it means. |
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05-31-2011, 01:44 PM
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The reason I ask is because I want to put the emphasis on the sunnah. If I can quote the hadith or practice it comes from with and include it on a note with the dates, then surely this is 'dhikr' as well as I am trying to spread knowledge to the other guests too?  Mufti Salejee has mentioned in his book, "Sunnats" that dates were distributed after the simple Nikah of Hadrat 'Ali and Hadrat Fatima. |
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05-31-2011, 07:23 PM
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And you kept nothing for us! Wassalam P.S.: Ignore that silly thing by the physician above. For next five days he'll be scavenging for food. That is what happens when you go to Shanghai. I hope he packs up some dates and almonds before leaving. P.P.S: Dear moderators you have my permission to delete posts 5,7,8 and 9. |
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06-01-2011, 01:54 AM
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well, bangalis eat more than Indian or pakistanis, my last 8 years experiences was enough.
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06-01-2011, 04:13 AM
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I have been in Jamah and the bad akhlaq of racist Gujis and backward pakistanis from Mirpur/jehlem often making up large portion of muslim prisoner in UK prison who are often involved in pimping domestive violance speaks louder then emotional bangalis. |
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