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Old 05-23-2011, 04:00 AM   #1
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assalaamu alaykum.

After i urinate , drops keep coming out. So i keep having to wash private parts and wudu.

I had to delay magrib by 15mins cuz of this problem.

In magrib salah i dont no if i felt a drop coming out or not, so wot should i do know ? Everytime i was my private parts i get up and another drop comes out.

Ive tryed waiting,coughing, movin about. But still keep coming out.

What should i do ?
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Old 05-23-2011, 04:05 AM   #2
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assalaamu alaykum.

After i urinate , drops keep coming out. So i keep having to wash private parts and wudu.

I had to delay magrib by 15mins cuz of this problem.

In magrib salah i dont no if i felt a drop coming out or not, so wot should i do know ? Everytime i was my private parts i get up and another drop comes out.

Ive tryed waiting,coughing, movin about. But still keep coming out.

What should i do ?
السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

Hmm.. you sure it drops maybe it's just waswasah? What you can do is wash your private parts and don't dry it completely so that it won't make you think it's the urine but the water you've washed with.

Hope that helps in sha Allah.

Wassalam
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Old 05-23-2011, 04:12 AM   #3
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السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته

Hmm.. you sure it drops maybe it's just waswasah? What you can do is wash your private parts and don't dry it completely so that it won't make you think it's the urine but the water you've washed with.

Hope that helps in sha Allah.

Wassalam
I always dry after washing. Am just worried about my salah.
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Old 05-23-2011, 04:22 AM   #4
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some people need to take extra precaution after urinating. one method used is first to use tissue and clean yourself with it as best as possible. thereafter get some more clean tissue and hold it where the urine comes out and stand up and down a few times and even take a few steps if possible. this may help the few drops of urine to come out that would otherwise come out after you have left the bathroom. then wash yourself as normal after this.

also to determine if urine is indeed coming out then after washing yourself as above, use some tissue and secure it where the urine comes out and leave the bathroom as normal. after a few minuites check the tissue to see if urine is still coming out. if you feel it has come out but after checking you realise it has not then it is waswasah (whisperings of the devil) and you should ignore it. after a few days of ignoring it then these waswasah will stop.

many men go through this problem of waswasah. in my experience and also of others, the waswasah stop pretty quickly once you start ignoring them.
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Old 05-23-2011, 05:30 AM   #5
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assalaamu alaykum.

After i urinate , drops keep coming out. So i keep having to wash private parts and wudu.

I had to delay magrib by 15mins cuz of this problem.

In magrib salah i dont no if i felt a drop coming out or not, so wot should i do know ? Everytime i was my private parts i get up and another drop comes out.

Ive tryed waiting,coughing, movin about. But still keep coming out.

What should i do ?
Brother, if you're certain you don't have control over your urination please go see your doctor, as it sounds like you're suffering from some form of urinary incontinence.

Coughing will possibly only make things worse, as you maybe suffering from stress incontinence, where increased abdominal pressure (e.g. from coughing, sneezing) causes even more leakage.

Also, if the urine is 'dribbling' out as it sounds it is here this could be indicative of problems with your prostate, whereby an enlarged prostrate can pressurise the urethra (the tube through which urine flows out of) and hence cause problems with the flow resulting in trapped urine which then leaks out. Inshallah this is not the case but to be on the safe side please dont waste any time in seeing your doctor, it's nothing to be embarrased about trust me they've seen it all before.
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Old 05-23-2011, 06:02 AM   #6
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Asalam Alaekum wrwb

Brother this is a very common case in the clinics. So dont be shy seeing a doctor, it could be Urinary Tract Infection and might resolve with antibiotics IF the cause in bacterial.

Also, more than actual problem, it could be psychogenic. If you are under huge amount of stress, this coud occur with frequent urination. Relax when this happens and the situation will get better.

Its "very" important to go see a doctor at this stage.

Hope this helped.
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Old 05-23-2011, 06:29 AM   #7
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There are brothers who still after seeing the docter have the same problem. I believe the Hanafi opinion is unfollowable. You will never be a madh'ur according to the Ahnaf since you will find 6 minutes in that 2 hour prayer period in order to pray salah.

We need a practical solution. How is a man supposed to keep on performing wudu 3/4 times, loosing 30 minutes, when he has a fulltime job, and has other things to do. What is he supposed to do when he is in a break and only has 15 minutes to pray, and tiny drops are still coming (when you perform sajda).

Can you pray standing out of fear? Can you follow an other school of thought which is more easy? We need practical solutions!
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Old 05-23-2011, 07:33 AM   #8
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Brother, what is your age? Depending on your age, it might be a prostate problem as well. Otherwise, it might be a urinary tract infection as another brother mentioned. In any case, do not delay in going to see a urologist about this issue.
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Old 05-23-2011, 08:57 AM   #9
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assalaamu alaykum.

After i urinate , drops keep coming out. So i keep having to wash private parts and wudu.

I had to delay magrib by 15mins cuz of this problem.

In magrib salah i dont no if i felt a drop coming out or not, so wot should i do know ? Everytime i was my private parts i get up and another drop comes out.

Ive tryed waiting,coughing, movin about. But still keep coming out.

What should i do ?
salams brother,
some people do need to spend more time ensuring that the urinary tract has been fully emptied before they can proceed to make wudhu.
there are different ways people use to get rid of drops of urine left in the urinary tract after urinating for example coughing ,walking,standing up and down etc.
the latter methods mentioned are referred to as istibra-please do search on istibra and you will find other methods of getting rid of last few drops of urine.
from personal experience it can take me about 10 minutes to ensure i am fully satisfied that urine has been emptied properly before i can proceed to make wudhu.
also you can sprinkle some water on your underwear after washing your privates so if you get any doubts that urine drops have come out or feel wetness (while doing wudhu or after wudhu) then you can assume it to be the sprinkled water and hence get rid of the whispers of satan.
hope it helps and may ALLAH SWT forgive me if i have said anything incorrect.
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Old 05-23-2011, 02:20 PM   #10
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Asalam Alaekum wrwb

Brother this is a very common case in the clinics. So dont be shy seeing a doctor, it could be Urinary Tract Infection and might resolve with antibiotics IF the cause in bacterial.
Milk with Turmeric powder is a good option
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Old 05-23-2011, 02:22 PM   #11
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You will never be a madh'ur according to the Ahnaf since you will find 6 minutes in that 2 hour prayer period in order to pray salah.
what is mad'hur?
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Old 05-23-2011, 08:09 PM   #12
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what is mad'hur?
A ma'dhur is the person who is excused, and can pray without performing wudu twice. He will only need to perform wudu once, once the time for prayer has set in. The conditions:

In principle, if you are unable to keep your wuzu for at least two rakats salah and this state remains for at least one entire salah duration, for example between Asr and Maghrib, then you are a ma’zoor.
http://www.askimam.org/fatwa/fatwa.p...37af11554d9611 If you are asking regarding when a person is rendered a mazoor, then:- One will only be regarded as mazoor, when one does not have sufficient time to perform his wudhu and just the fard salaat, due to the uzar ceasing to stop for the whole salaat time. ( Hashia of Nurul-Eidha )

If you are asking regarding the termination of one being a mazoor, then; One will no longer be a mazoor when the uzar stops completely for one full salaat time. (Nurul-eidha)
http://www.askimam.org/fatwa/fatwa.p...60106b3649e20a
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Old 05-23-2011, 11:24 PM   #13
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Some have found it beneficial to reproduce salaah positions such as bowing or prostating and standing so last drops come out, and you place tissue paper as a protection.
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Old 05-24-2011, 02:00 PM   #14
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Some have found it beneficial to reproduce salaah positions such as bowing or prostating and standing so last drops come out, and you place tissue paper as a protection.
My personal advice is as follows:

When going to the lavatory make sure all the Sunnah's of relieving ones self is adhered to.

Read the Dua, enter the toilet. Do your thing and thereafter take the measures as given in the fiqh books. Coughing, Istibra (that is to massage the private organs three times at a minimum) of you can take some tissue and do a few squats. Thereafter make the istinja with water and sprinkle some onto the underpants so as to remove any doubt.

Leave with the right foot and after reciting the dua read the Sunnah dua ' Allahuma Inni Aaoothubika minal Walahhaan ' and proceed with a clear mind...... If any doubts arise just recite that dua and carry on.

Wasalaam
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Old 05-24-2011, 05:30 PM   #15
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These advices are only for those people who have waswasa. The topic-opener and many others really have these problems. Let me break it down:

So you come out of the toilet after sitting for a while until all drops come out. You chill around for 30 minutes, walk around, sit a little, press your private part so all drops come out. Just before you perform wudu, you again make sure if all drops come out. All the time you have this tissue to wipe the urine away. Sometimes your underwear becomes soiled too, so you change your underwear.

Now, FINALLY, you can perform wudu. So you perform wudu, head to the mosque. You perform your sunnah prayers. And just after the sunnah prayers, you got this icky feeling. You doubt a little. But as Ml. Gangohi said in Fatawa Rashidiyya, if you are sure, you are obligatory to look. So you walk out of the mosque and see if it is true. And YES, it is true. So you missed your fard prayer in the mosque too and you are again performing wudu. But you need to wait a while before every drop comes out.

Now sometimes, this might happen and might not. Sometimes it might happen during the fard prayer. You immediately get up after the fard, and you look, and do you see? A tiny little drop that has come out.

Sometimes nothing comes out. You are lucky then and you can pray. But sometimes, you get caught and a drop comes out.

Now this process can take like 20 minutes to an hour. How is a busy man who needs to work or has other things to do suppose to handle this?
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Old 05-25-2011, 05:01 AM   #16
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it's very true what brother Ansari is saying.

Secondly nearly all advices that have been given , just make the whole sittuation worse. except the one ebout going to a doctor.

All this many of this tips that have been given just make the sittuation worse.

It's very true that the Hanafi qawl can never be followed by this brothers ,they'll drive crazy ! ! !
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Old 05-25-2011, 06:35 AM   #17
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^^ How does evacuating the tiny drops of urine by various methods "make the situation worse" ?
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Old 05-25-2011, 08:17 AM   #18
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Wa alaykumu s-salam.

I know how you feel because I've been through this before.
When you're urinating, you just have to make sure that your urine is totally urinated till you feel like you urinary bladder is empty.
If you feel like there's still urine left, tab your private part two or three times.
Or just hold your private part and move it up and down in speed (it works for me). The last drop will fall.
After that, just wash it and just perform your wudu.

While praying, if you think that there's still urine left, what you do is, get down for ruku and sujud slowly.
And when you get up, get up slowly. It works for me.

Wallahu a'lam.
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