[OShellszz]

Do not feel guilty Azhar. We feel so loved that you remembered us. In difficult times you are supposed to buzz your well wishers. And what all have we done except for prayers? May Allah Most Merciful hear them all. Ameen. (Continuing duas.)

[swissloveone]

May Allah make everything easy for you bro. These tests and tribulations that sometimes come are full of blessings from Allah. Allah has many hidden wisdoms and benefits behind them.

I am sure you read Urdu right? If so, there are some pages I would like to scan for you which should be relieving.

My urdu/hindi is rusty. upload the pages I will read it.

[swissloveone]

Do not feel guilty Azhar. We feel so loved that you remembered us. In difficult times you are supposed to buzz your well wishers. And what all have we done except for prayers? May Allah Most Merciful hear them all. Ameen. (Continuing duas.)

I often ponder where we should draw the line. Asking for dua is ok i guess. But one shouldn't be complaining of ones misery right?

[Texdolley]

everyone.

My Family is disintegrating. Everyone is fighting with each other. We all have multiple loans and debts. Nobody is thinking logically. I am the youngest so nobody hears me out. My Career is nowhere. Other relatives not helping much. Lots of things going on that I dont wanna mention. I m making lots of Dua. But please make Dua for me and my family. Please. I m in tears.

May Allah provide ease for you and your family.

[swissloveone]

all of you. Yesterday I lost my cool. I am feeling better today. May Allah give all of you Jannah, for your Duas and concern.

[kHy87gPC]

May Allah help you and your family in whatever difficulties you are all facing. Ameen

[OShellszz]

I often ponder where we should draw the line. Asking for dua is ok i guess. But one shouldn't be complaining of ones misery right?

Relax, there is no complaining.

Drawing the line is the difficult thing. Once you know that Shaikh will give you Permission. (And that is the beginning of Trouble : Phase Two, LOL.)

Wassalam.

[JesikaFlpk]

assalamualykum brother,,there'v ben lots of beautiful replies & suggestions.......
just to add 1 more....
THERE'S THIS SPECIAL DUA FOR SETTLING OF DEPTS(U MIGHT B KNOWING).......ITS PRESENT IN MOST OF THE MASNOON DA BOOKS.................
Y NOT MAY B TRY & RECITE IT WITH FULL HUMILITY(WITH A FEELING OF HELPLESSNESS) IN FRONT OF ALLAH AFTER EVERY FARD PRAYER.
AND ALSO MAY B TRY TO DO DUA AT TAHAJJUD.....
EVEN IF U R NOT ABLE TO OFFER PRAYER.....THE LEAST U CAN DO IS TO SET THE ALARM FOR TAHAJJUD & IF U WAKE UP THEN JUST DO DUA TO ALLAH......INSHALLAHU TA'ALA ALLAH IS ALWAYS THERE TO HELP HIS SERVANTS OUT.........
REMEMBER ALLAH DOESNT EVER REJECT ANY ONES SINCERE DUA........1 OF THE 3 THINGS HAPPENS TO IT (REMEMBER THAT HADITH)

[Mmccqrtb]

all of you. Yesterday I lost my cool. I am feeling better today. May Allah give all of you Jannah, for your Duas and concern.

You mentioned that you get angry quickly
when you feel angry do not lose your cool
please read this link on the medicine of controlling anger by Imam Ghazali RH http://www.mail-archive.com/islamcit.../msg03256.html

Also you mentioned that only you and your mother are left. For the sake of your mother you must stay strong to give her some tasalli (reassurance) if you show anger and weakness she will also become despondent. Be strong for her sake inshaAllah and keep her calm by being calm yourself

I pray that Allah rectifies your affairs for you, Ameen

[swissloveone]

assalamualykum brother,,there'v ben lots of beautiful replies & suggestions.......
just to add 1 more....
THERE'S THIS SPECIAL DUA FOR SETTLING OF DEPTS(U MIGHT B KNOWING).......ITS PRESENT IN MOST OF THE MASNOON DA BOOKS.................
Y NOT MAY B TRY & RECITE IT WITH FULL HUMILITY(WITH A FEELING OF HELPLESSNESS) IN FRONT OF ALLAH AFTER EVERY FARD PRAYER.
AND ALSO MAY B TRY TO DO DUA AT TAHAJJUD.....
EVEN IF U R NOT ABLE TO OFFER PRAYER.....THE LEAST U CAN DO IS TO SET THE ALARM FOR TAHAJJUD & IF U WAKE UP THEN JUST DO DUA TO ALLAH......INSHALLAHU TA'ALA ALLAH IS ALWAYS THERE TO HELP HIS SERVANTS OUT.........
REMEMBER ALLAH DOESNT EVER REJECT ANY ONES SINCERE DUA........1 OF THE 3 THINGS HAPPENS TO IT (REMEMBER THAT HADITH)

for the reminder sister. Yes I have learnt a Dua for debt. I need to be patient InshAllah.

You mentioned that you get angry quickly
when you feel angry do not lose your cool
please read this link on the medicine of controlling anger by Imam Ghazali RH http://www.mail-archive.com/islamcit.../msg03256.html

Also you mentioned that only you and your mother are left. For the sake of your mother you must stay strong to give her some tasalli (reassurance) if you show anger and weakness she will also become despondent. Be strong for her sake inshaAllah and keep her calm by being calm yourself

I pray that Allah rectifies your affairs for you, Ameen

I will check out the link, InshAllah. Yes my mother is my main concern now. I m trying to reassure her. Pray for her well being too. She has gone through a lot for us.

[Yyaqyped]

Insha'Allah we all make du'a for your family.

[adverwork]

Asalam Alykum WrWb,

Brother Azhar I feel for you. May Allah SWT ease your situation and shower his special blessings on your family.

Please increase duas at the last 3rd of night.. Brother dua is our weapon and this something that you posted one day and i learnt the lesson.

A lot of astagfaar as well.

Wa alykum Asalam.

[swissloveone]

all of you.

Asalam Alykum WrWb,

Brother dua is our weapon and this something that you posted one day and i learnt the lesson.

Yes indeed. I m guilty of being impatient. May Allah reward you for the advice.

[Rufio]

dont be upset............inshahAllah things would be fine...........have patience and trust on Allah........

what i believe is that every problem has a solution because impossible itself means i am possible.......so dont be depressed or exasperated, it would only lead u to become frustrated and irritated.........

Allah would help u...........and soon u would feel that things have settled down...........