[cindygirl]

Assalaamualykum wa Rahamtuallah

Hope your all well and that, have not been here awhile, glad the mods didnt think me dead and delete me completly like last time... anyways...

When I used to come here regular before, I used to think people filled this place up with their depression, and that really annoyed me. Never did they say much about the good in their lives only the sad times. So guess what? Learn a lesson, don't wonder too much about other people's business because you never know when it will come home to you as well.

So yes as I was saying... I have come across a divorce again not mine Alhamdulillah. But that of my sister's. She has been married 17 years this year. I know you need to hear two sides to a story to make a judgment but as I put Allah swt as my witness he was a very brutal man.

So requesting dua's and best wishes for her, she is 40 and I've already suggested for her to re-marry. Last month, I also re married Alhamdulillah, from Pakistan.

Good times are coming, we just need to give our lives a final spring clean from the evil that is around us, and insha'Allah make better choices for the future. This will be the last of the poison my dad helped drown our lives in. And once my brother in law ( insha'Allah soon to be EX - BROTHER IN LAW) goes we will be home free.

Peace and blessings upon you all

Walykum asalaaam wa rahamtuallah wa barakatuhu

[gabbaman]

May Allah Ta'aala give both you and your sister ease in both words and take all your pains away. Ameen.

[leadmoffer]

Welcome back to the forum! I agree that only hearing bad news can be quite saddening, and people should share their joys also. Congrats on your new marriage!

[Cyclicymn]

my dear sister ILM_sika, wa' alaykumus salaam ww!
mubaarak on your happy news, may Allah subhaanahu wata'ala bless your nikah and grant 'aafiyat! As for your sister, i pray she too finds happiness. Allah is with us sis and there is ease after every hardship! Everything happens only with the will of Allah subhaanhu wata'ala and there is hikmat (wisdom) behind His will.

[cindygirl]

my dear sister ILM_sika, wa' alaykumus salaam ww!
mubaarak on your happy news, may Allah subhaanahu wata'ala bless your nikah and grant 'aafiyat! As for your sister, i pray she too finds happiness. Allah is with us sis and there is ease after every hardship! Everything happens only with the will of Allah subhaanhu wata'ala and there is hikmat (wisdom) behind His will.

My Most loveable sister on SF. I knew you was still here, your the only person to laugh at my Jokes (however lame they maybe) haha

Aww and Jazak'Allah khair for all your dua's and best wishes, insha'Allah everything will go well. We need to understand well that Allah swt has everything planned for us, otherwise we would lose hope fast. Alhamdulillah for everything that has happened to us, and Alhamdulillah for everything that will happen to us!

May Allah swt give us all good relations and pious Partners and children, and be best pleased with us, and make us strong on our Deen and Duniya Ameen Ya Rabilalameen