[WaydayFep]

Assalamu alikum
I have three questions regardin tablighi brothers

1) thy aim to unite the people or form seperate jamath,because once i went to jod(bayaan for local shatis) with out wearin cap i sometimes dont wear cap because my head is lil big ,so normal cap dont fit ,i usually hav cap which i buyspecifically fit to my head ,on that day i forget to take,,one tablighi elder has asked my friend is he belong to another jamath.

2)regarding fighting tablighi brothers if i say why you are doing other than said by moulanas of delhi markaz they get angry on me and give fatwa your are not fit for tabligh,like I asked brother you put your profile as if your are deeply involved in tabligh but why u add girls and give dawath tothem as it is not said in tabligh,he scolded me and one tablighi guy put wrong translation of hadths when i pinpointed it and asked him to check with ulemas he scolded me and there is tablighi from german initially one tablighi guy frnd of him said me to add him and he asked me to tak bad of tabligh work to him and i didso to know his response ,but this two guys joined hand and gave fatwa you are not fit for tabligh and even if i say assalamu aikum to them they wont reply ,is this tabligh ulemas says not to reply to salam if anyone talks bad of tabligh,still im a muslim

3)s urdu official language of tabligh ,,there is hadiths f nearest meanin if three persons are there two should not talk in secret (language unknown to third),but whenever i go with tabligh brothers they talk in urdu ad they talk bad of tamil muslims and ask me learn urdu as it is necessary for dawath,in which hadiths it has been said to learn urdu for dawath or did ever moulana ilyas sahib to moulana saad sahib has mentioned to learn urdu?