[HondasMenFox]

People need to follow the Qurʾān and the Sunnah on an individual basis, whether their relatives and society will accept them or reject them for that doesn't matter. The scholars can remind the people of their duties and rights in Islām, but at the end it is up to every individual to either follow the Dīn or follow the desires.

The key to getting married and to all other problems is to make duʿā to Allāh first, then take the appropriate means (however insignificant they appear) and then you keep making duʿā to Allāh and inshāʾ Allāh you will be successful.

The above is what a local revert brother did (he's 21 years old, has been Muslim for less than a year), now he's got a wife, his own house, etc.. I have seen this with my own eyes.

The solution is turning to Allāh!

والله اعلم۔