[SteantyjetMaw]

That was when he was provoking me.

Bi Ismihi Ta’ala

Avoid fights. You do not need to beat him up on Saturday or prove anything.

I am sure an intelligent young man like yourself will make an intelligent decision on reading the following.

Rasulullah (Sallallaahu ’alayhi wasallam) said: I guarantee a house in Jannah for one who gives up arguing, even if he is in the right; and I guarantee a home in the middle of Jannah for one who abandons lying even if he was jesting; and I guarantee a house in the highest part of Jannah for one who has good manners.'
[Abu Dawud].
May Allah Ta’ala grant me and you beautiful speech and noble conduct as would please Allah Ta’ala and our Beloved Rasul (Sallallaahu ‘alayhi wasallam).

[maxfreemann]

Bi Ismihi Ta’ala

Avoid fights. You do not need to beat him up on Saturday or prove anything.

I am sure an intelligent young man like yourself will make an intelligent decision on reading the following.

Rasulullah (Sallallaahu ’alayhi wasallam) said: I guarantee a house in Jannah for one who gives up arguing, even if he is in the right; and I guarantee a home in the middle of Jannah for one who abandons lying even if he was jesting; and I guarantee a house in the highest part of Jannah for one who has good manners.'
[Abu Dawud].
May Allah Ta’ala grant me and you beautiful speech and noble conduct as would please Allah Ta’ala and our Beloved Rasul (Sallallaahu ‘alayhi wasallam).

JSK Khair.

LOL, this has gone off topic.

[theatadug]

Here's my blog about school.

Today, some boy in my class pushed when he was running, then i said "watch where you're going. are you crazy". the he says "ARE YOU CALLING ME CRAZY". Then i'm like "how old are you, are you really offended by that". The he comes up to my face, then we face each other off. Then he pushes me, so i push him back. Then he goes.
The same kind of thing happened in break, accept that it was almost a fight. I'm not backing down. I know he can take me on, and he's stronger. But if i show no weakness and lose, he won't wanna get a punch in the mouth. I'm thinking of beating him up on saturday, but idk whether it's right.

We had two free periods today, when the teacher didn't come. So we stayed in the class, and basically went wild.
Now lots of people know me as "the british boy", I get hellos and what's up everywhere i go. This guy in school, says he likes somalians, he calls me "waryaa" lol.

hahaha, dont beat him on saturday. he is your muslim brother. who knows he might be a really pious muslim in his adult life. remember you are 14. peri-bulugh. so you better be careful as your reckoning of deeds has begun already.

[maxfreemann]

hahaha, dont beat him on saturday. he is your muslim brother. who knows he might be a really pious muslim in his adult life. remember you are 14. peri-bulugh. so you better be careful as your reckoning of deeds has begun already.

I'm 13, 14 in november.

[Rx-Ultram]

Li'l bro, do whatever it takes to bring justice to yourself and the other boy even if it means to take on physical fight. But keep in mind not to hit your opponent on his face since Rasool'Allah (saw) forbade us from doing that.

Also avoid hitting him at those body parts that are quite sensitive. Once you both have had the first round, ask him for terms and settle it for once and for all.

Assalaam'aaleykum!

[yurawerj]

Telling teachers is a bad idea, only because nowadays teachers won't do anything to discipline the kid. He'll get a slap on the wrist, and OP will get a reputation as a snitch, which will make things even worse for him. If you feel that fighting is barbaric, just humiliate him with words. Ask him loud and clear in front of everybody what his problem is with you. If he doesn't have a good answer, he'll end up looking like a tool- you win.

[tipokot]

ASA

My Brother in Islam.My sincere advice to you is PLEASE dont fight the guy.That is NOT the right advice and not the Islamic advise.You will probably end up getting in trouble, making your mom mad at you and locking you up again.

Rubbish was thrown at Nabi SAWS.He did not take revenge.Intestines of camels were thrown on him.He wasspat at.Stones were thrown at him and his shoes filled with blood, yet he prayed for forgiveness for the very same people.

Remember His (SAWS) teachings- Be good to people, even if they are bad to you. THATS the test right? Its easy to be good to others if they are good to you, no test there. But if they are bad to you...now THERES showing your AKHLAAQ & CHARACTER of a true muslim.

And NABI SAWS never got angry for something done to Him (SAWS) , only if ALLAH's deen was violated.

So dont give in. Dont fight this guy.

Ill tell you a secret how to REALLY get to him....

IGNORE him! I mean it...He wants attention & by you fighting him & letting him get to you, you are giving him that.

If you IGNORE him it will really get under his skin. I cant take it when someone ignores me. Its like, youre not important enough to waste my time on you...

BE BRAVE & be smart. Dont use violence to solve your problems.

and remember rather be the opressed than the opressor. so long as you are not doing wrong to him -Allah is on your side and will help you , raise you and its in hadith that the angels fight on your behalf.

Was Salaam

[maxfreemann]

ASA

My Brother in Islam.My sincere advice to you is PLEASE dont fight the guy.That is NOT the right advice and not the Islamic advise.You will probably end up getting in trouble, making your mom mad at you and locking you up again.

Rubbish was thrown at Nabi SAWS.He did not take revenge.Intestines of camels were thrown on him.He wasspat at.Stones were thrown at him and his shoes filled with blood, yet he prayed for forgiveness for the very same people.

Remember His (SAWS) teachings- Be good to people, even if they are bad to you. THATS the test right? Its easy to be good to others if they are good to you, no test there. But if they are bad to you...now THERES showing your AKHLAAQ & CHARACTER of a true muslim.

And NABI SAWS never got angry for something done to Him (SAWS) , only if ALLAH's deen was violated.

So dont give in. Dont fight this guy.

Ill tell you a secret how to REALLY get to him....

IGNORE him! I mean it...He wants attention & by you fighting him & letting him get to you, you are giving him that.

If you IGNORE him it will really get under his skin. I cant take it when someone ignores me. Its like, youre not important enough to waste my time on you...

BE BRAVE & be smart. Dont use violence to solve your problems.

and remember rather be the opressed than the opressor. so long as you are not doing wrong to him -Allah is on your side and will help you , raise you and its in hadith that the angels fight on your behalf.

Was Salaam

You sound like a teacher from the west. 'VOILENCE,DOESN'T SOLVE IT'.,
I was bulleid when I was 5.

I was bullied when I was in london in year seven. Anyone who insulted me would get a
punch.

I've been through 4 schoo s in london. And each one, I was fighting within my first week.
Ive had a tough time woth schools. I've been through bullying from almost a whole class.
I've been in this school for a week.

Now is when I make my impression.If I don't fight ill be clAssed as the weak one. I'm not having thay.

In a way your,post helped me.

Anything from him, hell get bets.

[Valdoyes]

Here usually we call to our bhai logs if that happen like this

[maxfreemann]

Here usually we call to our bhai logs if that happen like this

what?

If you're male you kn
ow how ,uch a reputation means.
You know that you can never show weakness.

If I beat him umder proper circumstances, my mum will be proud.

sprry for all the typos, im using a fone

[KhJOHbTM]

chillax ... he's obv tryna fight coz he sees you as a threat yea .

Juust SMILE at him ..thats a sunnah too..(

Smile
Smile again
..keep smiling at him ...youll have him eating out your hand in no time

Whats waryaa?

[maxfreemann]

chillax ... he's obv tryna fight coz he sees you as a threat yea .

Juust SMILE at him ..thats a sunnah too..(

Smile
Smile again
..keep smiling at him ...youll have him eating out your hand in no time

Whats waryaa?

waryaa is like , Oi!, (its somali)

[Valdoyes]

i was joking lol...

[maxfreemann]

lol my chemistry teacher looks like muhammad mursi.

[maxfreemann]

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That was what we did in social studies. Someone with common sense knows that.

[amotoustict]

That was what we did in social studies. Someone with common sense knows that.

Sometimes having this knowledge can come really handy. Whatever you learn, even if it is basics, take it down to your head. some time, some where, some how... one day it will come really handy. Inshallah.

Just like you have a building, it should have a strong foundation or else the building can collapse.

Similarly, if your basics which is the foundation is not strong, then taking further knowledge will be utter useless and any time it can fail.

My physics teacher commanded us to memorize the whole periodic table, and till now I am finding it really useful. I just close my eyes and the whole imagery of periodic table is infront of me. [it may seem weird why did not my chemistry teacher say this but the physics teacher did]

And also knowledge is not what is inside the books, but what you have in your head. In exam you take the knowledge, not the books. So whenever you learn something just take it down in your head.

[Nicihntm]

[maxfreemann]

What?

[fapourfasiark]

what?

If you're male you kn
ow how ,uch a reputation means.
You know that you can never show weakness.

If I beat him umder proper circumstances, my mum will be proud.

sprry for all the typos, im using a fone

Would the Prophet, peace be upon him, be proud of you?

Would Allah be proud of you?

The Messenger of Allah said:

"The strong man is not the one who can overpower others. Rather, the strong man is the one who controls himself when he gets angry."
[Reported in the 'Musnad' of Ahmad; 2/236, and it is authentic]


Bullies tend to continue to pick on others when they know they'll get a laugh out of it. Just because you aren't fighting back doesn't mean you're showing signs of weakness. Even though you may see it as fighting, he is probably only joking around. Simply play along with him or tell a joke or two. If he continues to provoke you, either avoid him or tell an adult.

I don't see violence as justification to this, ONLY if he is initiating physical harm upon you. But the way you described it, just sounds like friendly banter.

[maxfreemann]

It's not banter. He said "don't joke with me".

This school wants to suck the money out of us.

1-We buy the books.
2-Then i have to buy past papers.
3-NOW i have to buy a book for specail arabic.

I'm hopeless on chemistry. I didn't get a word of what the chemistry teacher was saying.
I'm a little bit ok on biology.
I'm good with physicics.

This school is rubbish. There's not even a science lab. The computers are all old, and still running XP.