[maxfreemann]

Here's my blog about school.

Today, some boy in my class pushed when he was running, then i said "watch where you're going. are you crazy". the he says "ARE YOU CALLING ME CRAZY". Then i'm like "how old are you, are you really offended by that". The he comes up to my face, then we face each other off. Then he pushes me, so i push him back. Then he goes.
The same kind of thing happened in break, accept that it was almost a fight. I'm not backing down. I know he can take me on, and he's stronger. But if i show no weakness and lose, he won't wanna get a punch in the mouth. I'm thinking of beating him up on saturday, but idk whether it's right.

We had two free periods today, when the teacher didn't come. So we stayed in the class, and basically went wild.
Now lots of people know me as "the british boy", I get hellos and what's up everywhere i go. This guy in school, says he likes somalians, he calls me "waryaa" lol.

[Scfdglkn]

You're both acting like children. Did you consider what will happen if you dont fight him? Will he come after your family? Attack your friends? If youre only reason for fighting is for your ego then you should relfect on your own attitude

[maxfreemann]

You're both acting like children. Did you consider what will happen if you dont fight him? Will he come after your family? Attack your friends? If youre only reason for fighting is for your ego then you should relfect on your own attitude

I'm not fighting for ego. I like to avoid fighting. But today he was trying to bring on a fight.

[maxfreemann]

This boy in school keeps on trying to bring on a fight. I want to avoid a fight. I know he can take me on, and he might be stronger, but showing weakness is very bad, that'll bring others. I know I can take him on, and hurt him. I may lose, I may win, but he won't wanna get a punch in the mouth.

I've been through this scenario back in in london, where some boy kept on annoying me, and I beat him silly.

Please, don't give me the "tell a teacher" rubbish.

[tramadolwithall]

This boy in school keeps on trying to bring on a fight. I want to avoid a fight. I know he can take me on, and he might be stronger, but showing weakness is very bad, that'll bring others. I know I can take him on, and hurt him. I may lose, I may win, but he won't wanna get a punch in the mouth.

I've been through this scenario back in in london, where some boy kept on annoying me, and I beat him silly.

Please, don't give me the "tell a teacher" rubbish.

Get the boy here on Sunniforum.com.

We will take his class.

[Scfdglkn]

Just avoid him then. You dont have to go after him on saturday.

5:45; We ordained therein for them: "Life for life, eye for eye, nose for nose, ear for ear, tooth for tooth, and wounds equal for equal." But if any one remits the retaliation by way of charity, it is an act of atonement for himself. And if any fail to judge by (the light of) what Allah hath revealed, they are (no better than) wrong-doers.

[yasmin]

you are right. you need to stop this before it gets worse. bullies do not prey on people who are weaker than them. they prey on people who do not stand up for themselves regardless of how strong or weak they are.

first try to get help from someone who has authority over him. if that does not work then try again and again. once you have exhausted that avenue then no one can blame you if you fight back. while this stage is going on do not appear weak. appear confident and strong. do not cower away from him if you are near him. do not let him affect you and your life in anyway. example...do not take different routes when walking to avoid him. do not cross over the street if he is on the same side as you. always be ready and alert of his presence. maintain distance from him at least up to an arms length. this is so that if he does try to strike you or lay his hands on you in anyway then you will have time to react. always be ready and alert to any strikes etc when near him.

once you have exhausted the first avenue then the time might come to fight him. if you follow what i said above then he will be more wary of you and your confidence. this will already give you a better edge in the fight. psycology plays a big part in street fights. try not to fight him on his terms or on his turf. try to fight him when his friends are not with him and you are with your friends. when fighting him give it all you got. do not give up. even if you lose then get up and fight him some more. even if you lose then fight him some other day. if he carries on bullying you (which i doubt after all this) THEN FIGHT HIM AGAIN ON THE SPOT!

inshallah if you do this then he will back off very soon. but remember there are always consequences to fighting. you will need to be mentally strong enough to handle the aftermath. but remember the aftermath will soon fade. but if you carry on letting him bully you then he will bully you for the rest of the time you are with him. maybe even others will start bullying you as well as you will be seen as a soft target. maybe later on in life you will let others bully you too. dont let anyone bully you!

another thing you need to take into consideration. i hear that non saudis are very badly treated in saudi. maybe you might be discriminated against by the authorities for standing up to yourself. what will be the consequence of this?

do not think that just because he is bigger or stronger than you that he is a better fighter than you. it is not just about strength and size but also about skill. understand the weaknesses and strengths of your opponent and fight accordingly.

[yurawerj]

This boy in school keeps on trying to bring on a fight. I want to avoid a fight. I know he can take me on, and he might be stronger, but showing weakness is very bad, that'll bring others. I know I can take him on, and hurt him. I may lose, I may win, but he won't wanna get a punch in the mouth.

I've been through this scenario back in in london, where some boy kept on annoying me, and I beat him silly.

Please, don't give me the "tell a teacher" rubbish.

Better not make that apparent to your enemy. You need to show him that you're willing to escalate. Call him on his bluff. Whatever he does to you, return it in kind. He'll back off. If he does hit you first, you have a free pass to teach him a lesson. I recommend a good baseball bat for this purpose.

[maxfreemann]

1) I go to an international school. It doesn't accept saudis.
2) Most of the pupils are arabs around 95%.
3) I'm not a coward, I'll fight with my bare hands.
4)I'm a peaceful person, but I can't do that here because i'm known as the british boy. So I get hellos from lots of people (including the popular ones).
5)I'm willing to take this further with him. He started it, I'll finish it. I'm not a snitch, and I won't tell a teacher.

[maxfreemann]

I can't avoid him.

He's in my class.

[amotoustict]

Bro,

I will simply tell you a simple and the best solution. Just say salaam whenever you meet him, take your hand and shake it with his.

The power of making salaam is strong enough to change the mind and heart of your haters. I am not telling what I hear and say, I am telling what I experienced.

[maxfreemann]

Bro,

I will simply tell you a best solution. Just say salaam whenever you meet him, take your hand and shake it with his.

The power of making salaam is strong enough to change the mind and heart of your haters. I am not telling what I hear and say, I am telling what I experienced.

This is heated. I'm sorry to say but he started calling me a b***h.
The school doesn't have a musalla, WOW.

[yasmin]

5)I'm willing to take this further with him. He started it, I'll finish it. I'm not a snitch, and I won't tell a teacher.

what is wrong with telling a teacher? the well being of the children is their responsibility.

[SteantyjetMaw]

If you "like to avoid fighting" - why did you ...

we stayed in the class, and basically went wild.

when you could have left the class and avoided going wild?

[maxfreemann]

If you "like to avoid fighting" - why did you ...



when you could have left the class and avoided going wild?

That was when he was provoking me.

[maxfreemann]

what is wrong with telling a teacher? the well being of the children is their responsibility.

HA NO.
I'm keeping this to myself. I'm not trusting these crazy teachers who drag students by the collar of their shirt.

[amotoustict]

This is heated. I'm sorry to say but he started calling me a b***h.
The school doesn't have a musalla, WOW.

Musalla?

And also, this buisness you are handling is a matter of making your desires (nafs) happy and making Allah (swt).

nafs = fight

making Allah (swt) happy = say salaam

Chose whichever you wish.

[maxfreemann]

If you "like to avoid fighting" - why did you ...



when you could have left the class and avoided going wild?

1)I couldn't leave the class. One of the biggest boys in the class was guarding the door.
2)Where could I go?

[maxfreemann]

Musalla?

And also, this buisness you are handling is a matter of making your desires (nafs) happy and making Allah (swt).

nafs = fight

making Allah (swt) happy = say salaam

Chose whichever you wish.

Thnkx 4 that bro or sis. I can't check your profile.
I'll say salaam to him on saturday insha allah.

[ForumMasta]

You don't need to get into fights.

Fights is how the system gets you.
Something like one third of black men in the USA have at some point been in prison. That means, out of every 10 black guys you see, chances are at least 3 of them have been in prison. It's not because they necessarily deserved to go there, its because the US system is built like that, they put people in prison for which white people would never go to prison.. and once that happens, getting jobs and stuff, is a lot harder.. the system prefers it like that...

So be smart, think like a Muslim.
You need to get strong in two ways fast. Build up your muscles, and build up your brain. No one messes with people who look strong, that's just a fact.. that's something i certainly learnt.. But that doesn't mean we can bully anyone, that's just wrong behaviour. But our brain muscles, that's our real strength...
and remember, just because the school makes you think you're a kid.
you're not, you're an adult. Us muslims, we don't have this concept of being a 'teenager'.. you're either a kid, or you're an adult, and you most certainly are an adult.. remember Osama (ra), he was a companion of the Prophet sws.. he commanded an entire army at the age of 17!