[royarnekara]

Salam. i just wanted to ask how people restrain themselves when they arre annoyed or provoked. I usually find my self being annoyed when people make statements e.g. somene said oh the deobandis are too harsh and they aren right. another one was someone using a statment of Shikh yaqoubi who said that if you love imam raza then your from ahlus sunnah wal jammah. i know these statements may be centred around the barelvi - deobandi issues, howver as i know a few barelvi personally i have focused on things that we have in common. My query is regarding people who make some sheikhs seem exclusive to them while promoting an agenda and also refraining from engaging people who insult other muslims



wasalaam